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I love her and try to rebuild the trust in our relation, yet only end up lying again and again. Please help.

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Question - (14 April 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 14 April 2008)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

i have been with my girlfriend for a year and six months. During that time i have lied to her several times. The first time i lied she said i would get another chance but i have zero trust and just when i start to bring my trust back up i lie again again and again and i don't know why.

As much as i love her and care for her i just hurt her more and more is there any way i can turn this back around and make us last instead of going downhill? Please i need someone's help i love her and i don't want to be the reason why she can't sleep at night and the reason why she is hurt. Someone please help me.

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (14 April 2008):

eyeswideopen agony auntAre you sure you love her as much as you say you do? If yes, it's kind of strange that you keep sabotaging yourself by lying. Maybe deep down you really want out? Do you feel unworthy of her? How are you in the self-esteem department? What exactly do you lie about?

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