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writes:I've been with my girlfriend for nearly 6 months now, and from the very start of our relationship we've had problems sharing a bed. I tend to move around a lot when I'm trying to sleep, and it bugs her. I don't blame her, but she tends to lash out at me. Not so long ago she used to kick me when I moved, and that certainly was no way to relax me.I've always been apologetic to her for disturbing her, but no matter what I say, she's gotten it into her head that I do it on purpose! Isn't that absurd?? I feel guilty for disturbing her rest, but I'm a little hurt that she would think I would do it intentionally.We had a big fight about this today and it's not the first time its happened either, and I'm getting a little sick of it. After all, it's been 6 months and we're still fighting over such a seemingly small issue?? Please advise me! Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2010): "Not so long ago she used to kick me when I moved, and that certainly was no way to relax me."
haha this is so funny=D haha what eyeswideopen said will do the trick ;)
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reader, YourDestiny11  +, writes (26 March 2010):
 Well it sounds like shes making too big of a deal about it. She obviously needs to grow up...how immature to think ur doing it on purpose. try putting a body pillow between u at nite. good luck.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (26 March 2010):
 Get separate beds.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2010): Loosing sleep is not a small issue, at least I wouldn't call it that. Not enough sleep screws up so much of you. If this has been an ongoing problem, accept it as a problem and deal with it as such, instead of trying to ignore it and see if it "goes away". Buy a larger bed or sleep separately.
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