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writes:Hey everyone. Im 19 and me and my boyfriend have been together for 3 years and our sex life is getting boring. I thought about a 3some but i dnt think he would go for it and how would u go about that? any advice on how to spice it up would be very helpful. Thank you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks guys for all ur input...it has helped alot and i appreciate it. Thanks again.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2010): if you need a 3some to not find sex boring just dont bother witt the relationship seriously, you cant love hig that much or you wouldn't even suggest such a thing, it is just wrong and im glad im not in his shoes
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionYeah youve both made very good suggestions and points. Thank you both for all your help.
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reader, Miamine  +, writes (25 March 2010):
 No, check the dear cupid website, most people are against threesomes and when they happen they can ruin relationships.
Sigh.. your boyfriend isn't bored, stop worrying, and don't follow what stupid people say, half of them are down right jealous. Go and have a talk, see if he has any ideas on spicing your sex life up, and check on the website sex101, look at it together, tons of fun things to keep you both busy for a long, long time.. If you haven't done much sex, you will hate threesomes, hate it a lot, you will get very jealous if your boyfriend screws another girl.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (25 March 2010):
 Oh there are lots of people against threesomes, trust me. And I'll bet he's not bored at all.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 March 2010): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOk well im not a slut or anything...weve been together 3 years and he was my first. I havent done hardly anything. So its not that im bored with sex but im self conscious hes bored with me. and im actually against 3somes but i wanted 2 c what responses i got to that cuz all my friends laugh about what a goody goody i am and now im glad there is some ppl who r against it to.
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reader, Miamine +, writes (25 March 2010):
At 19 your already bored? What will you do when your 40, become a prostitute or a nun. I'm 40 and there's still tons of things I haven't done, you young people approach sex like its fast food, you need to slow down.
Try to see if you've done everything on this website http://www.sexinfo101.com/ hopefully that should slow you down a bit.
If you start threesomes because your bored at 19, how soon before you start doing orgies with tons of people just to get you aroused and excited. Hey, new idea. Stop having sex if your bored, when you start up again it'll be new, interesting and exciting.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (25 March 2010):
Why is it people go straight for the 3somes when they want to add a little spice? Every good cook knows you don't go to the cayenne pepper before you try just a pinch of salt. Do it in a different room, with different positions, wearing different clothes. There's not a whole lot of "spicing up" left once you start inviting a cast.
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