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writes:Im not sure what to do i have been with my boyfriend for almost 6 years and he tells me loves me but he isnt sure that he is sexually attracted to me anymore because of my job (Escort) he and i have sex on occasions but for the part he just goes online and jacks off, it doesnt bother me that he does that but i just want to know can you really love someone and not be sexually attracted to them all the time? he says its when we fight and i go to work that he doesnt have the attraction... what should i do and does he really still love me anymore?? Reply to this Question
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reader, LostGirlAnna  +, writes (29 March 2010):
What would you do if you found out he had just had sex with one of the people in your profession? If you knew the woman in question? Whould it bother you? It would me. One of his friends could go to escorts and he may get you. It's the same situation just with slight differences. Try to see it from his point of view.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (29 March 2010):
 You know I've often wondered whether a gynecologist ever gets numb towards sex after looking a crotches all day long. I know in high school I worked in a bakery one summer, and I've never really cared for doughnuts since.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2010): I'm surprised you don't understand why he isn't attracted to you. If my girlfriend were having sex for money, she would seem cheap and nothing more than a slut. If she is whoring out her body, then what's left special about her for me? I don't want to sound harsh but I would feel sick thinking of hundreds of other guys fucking the one I love. Were you sexually or emotionally abused as a child? Perhaps some therapy would help you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 March 2010): I'm guessing that it isn't you that he is not attracted to but your job. Regardless of how long you've been doing that, you're basically cheating on him. It doesn't matter if he says he's "OK" with it. It is obvious he isn't. Quite frankly, I would be the same way. In his head he's likely feeling that your relationship isn't good enough for you and that is why you do what you do for a living.
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