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writes:im a girl i have a really good friend and hes a boy. he has been with his girlfriend for a year now, and he recently told me hes sleeping with men behind her back... what i dont understand is he doesnt act gay, look gay, i have known him for ages and he still says he aint gay and as far as i knew he has only had a few one night stands and they were girls, but the girl hes with now is his first proper girlfriend and its his first love (so he says) i really feel for her because she loves him so much, she would be really heartbroken if she found out. when hes with his girlfriend you wouldnt think it, he tells her he loves her all the time, buys her nice gifts now and then, takes her out and still spends alot of time with her and he even works with her dad. i just think its cruel that hes doing this behind her back, do you agree with me on this?i think its heartless and why is he doing this to her?why is he living a lie sleeping with men, when i know for a fact he loves this girl?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2010): He can still be gay but love a girl... its not a hard thing to do. It is a cruel thing to do, but he probabaly just doesn't want to admit to anyone that he preffers men sexually. Thats just who he is. He could be bisexual too. Anyways he is the one who is going to have to come to terms with it not you, and he'll have to face his gf.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (26 March 2010):
 He's bi not living a lie.(hey that rhymes) But I certainly hope one that one of gifts he gives her isn't going to be a STD.
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reader, YourDestiny11 +, writes (26 March 2010):
 Im with you...that is cruel and sad for her. You should talk to him about it and tell him how unfair it is to her. it sounds like he could be bi but i think hes gay and using her for a cover up which couldnt be anymore sick and wrong.
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