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reader, Eyespy17  +, writes (14 May 2011):
Wow! What a mean thing for him to do to you. Aren't you even mORE glad you didn't get his name on you forever ?!?
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reader, anonymous, writes (14 May 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthank you for your replies everyone. Trancedrhythmear and Cindy Cares and Abella I liked your answers especially but all the answers were very good. Thank you to all of you because I really appreciated all your answers.He just broke up with me in a hotrrible way. he turned up with this other girl in his car and all his spear fishing gear and she looked at me all smug from the car and he just stood at the door and asked for some things he left here. and I would not ask him in after that but I asked him, 'why is she in the car?' I know who she is. And he just pointed to her and said, 'my new girl friend' And I know she already has a tatoo on her ankle and one somewhere else she will not show anyone. so i spose she will get a tattoo for him if he asks. but I will not. I feel pretty horrible right now but I think maybe this is for the best? He cancelled a date we had for Wednesday this last week so sometime between then and now perhaps she became his girl friend but I dont know anymore. Sorry I was slow to respond but we were having a few problems
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (3 May 2011):
 NO
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (3 May 2011):
 Only if his nickname is "Mom".
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reader, Illithid +, writes (3 May 2011):
 He won't marry you, but he wants to brand you like cattle? Is he your boyfriend or your pimp?
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 May 2011): Oh boy. HUGE red flag. His love is conditional. He will more than likely only love you back if you do this for him. He may drink yeah which isnt necessarily bad unless you have a reason to not trust him. However, his request is almost similar to a man asking a woman to show her man he loves her by getting breast implants. I find this quite disrespectful of him.
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (3 May 2011):
 Heck no !
Do you know that Johnny Depp has a tattoo which says "Wino forever " ? It used to be "Winona forever" , then he and Winona Ryder split. That's the best he could come up with for erasing the unwanted memento without totally messing up his right arm's skin.
You risk having to go arounde for the rest of your life with a tattoo which says " Shame " , or "Shank "....
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reader, Abella +, writes (3 May 2011):
 A Tattoo will prove nothing and you should not agree to it if it is not what you want.
Besides, Shane has told you that he is not interested in marriage. So what happens if you marry someone else and your husband has to be reminded of that name Shane whenever you make love? No way. Try to negotiate some quality time with your Shane. Schedule one weekend in every four for some nice time together. Make it so much fun that he might consider two weekends with you instead of his spear fishing friends. Other wise his relationship will falter. You need time together and trust to build a relationship and Shane sure needs to learn to trust more and give you more of his attention
Good luck with this
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reader, dmartin89  +, writes (3 May 2011):
 NO.
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