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male
age
30-35,
*nsexygal
writes:I was at a party a few weeks ago for a sweet sixteen and ofcourse their were bartendars. There was one in particular that was really hot and he looked about twenty five, he winked at me! Im sixteen and I would love to know if the wink was just a sexual thing or just flirtacious! I was constantly smiling at him and he was smiling at me and put a cherry in my drink! When I first asked him for a sprite he was first to start flirting but he didn't ask me for my number! Did I do something wrong! Could it be because im black and he was white! Why don't most white guys take to me anyway! I always smile, im beautiful and everyone thinks so, im sweet, and I have a great personality! Is it me?
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (27 April 2011):
 You are way over-thinking this one. Relax and enjoy your youth.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2011): No, it's not you. He's a paid barman whose job is to flirt with all girls so they spend more money on drinks. Naivety in that situation is not good. hence why he didn't ask for your number- he doesn't want it. He wants your money on drinks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2011): I think it was flirtatious and in the mood and NO don't ever think it's you it's not but in a way it could maybe your putting out the wrong vibe try to start the conversation let him know your interested see how it works , hope things work out much love 3
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