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Got back with ex b/f but afraid to leave marriage so ex dumped me!

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Question - (5 June 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 6 June 2011)
A age 36-40, * writes:

a couple of months ago i got back in contact with an old bf that i haven't seen for 12 yrs. upon talking he told me that he never stopped loving me and that all his relationships since have failed because the one he always wanted to be with was me. we soon fell in love again (well at least i did) the things he said made me think that he really was in love with me and wanted to spend the rest of his life with me. the only problem is i'm married and when it came to the crunch i wasn't 100% about leaving my husband. when i told my old bf that i wasn't sure i'd done the right thing he soon cut me off and now wants nothing to do with me. i then found out that he went back to his ex straight after me (he told me he didn't love her) my questions are did he ever really love me if he could cut me off so quickly and go back to his ex or do you think he loved me that much that i've hurt him so much he can't talk to me? and as for his gf did he love her all along or only go back to her because he was hurting and wanted to hurt me.. when i've tried to contact him he says that i hurt him really badly which makes me think he does love me, i've just hurt him so badly he's scared to come back. please help!! whats going on in his head??

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (6 June 2011):

eyeswideopen agony auntWhat's going on in YOUR head? Your poor husband. Hopefully kids aren't involved.

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