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writes:ive recently noticed my husband has been keeping his mobile out of my sight,by keeping it in his pocket,when before it was left anywhere around the house.at the weekend he did leave it in the bathroom,so i took a look but a password lock had been put on,when i confronted him about this he said a guy at work had used his phone without his permission so thats why he had put it on.last nite i never even saw his mobile.seems strange,also i have noticed he has started being more nice to me that usual.there hasnt been any other changes as he always keeps himself well groomed anyway.he doesnt go out,so there isnt any change there.could he be cheating?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2011): Tread lightly, he may be hiding something from you, but it doesn't mean it's an affair. You might consider telling him you find his behavior strange. Trust is an issue here. If you trick him into letting you use his phone, he is going to know your motives. You are in a tough spot. You might want to look for more signs if you are going to confront him.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (24 May 2011):
 Sorry to say but anytime a spouse's behavior has a sudden change with no explanation or a lame one like your husband's, something is definitely up. Let your phone's battery run down and ask to borrow his and make him give you the password. If he refuses it's time to talk.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (24 May 2011):
"A guy at work used his phone without permission" - does your husband really leave his phone out at work, where he can't see it? And do you really think that a work colleague would pick that phone up and just use it? And to top it off, why can't a work mate use it if they're desperate anyway?
I'm afraid his excuse is a very, very poor one. It just doesn't make sense to me. He's hiding something. The problem is you won't get to find out through the phone, so you'll need to do other things to find out what he's up to. Galaqueen's post gives you some good ideas.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2011): I once had an affair with a married man (Not proud of it), and we worked together, so maybe he doesn't have to 'go out' to see her! But anyone who hides their phone and it's started suddenly sounds dodgy to me! Does he have a contract phone? Are there any unusual numbers on it? If you have a phone, say it's broke or something, and ask to borrow/use his and see his reaction? (But he may warn her you're going to be using it, that's the only problem!) 9 times out of 10 gut instinct is right, we just choose to ignore it...
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (24 May 2011):
 sure sounds like it.
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reader, the_phoenic +, writes (24 May 2011):
i don't think he is cheating because he is not going out unless his work place helps him to cheat.but may be he is in touch with one of his ex's or he is hiding something.
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