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writes:i meet a 26 year old guy on a dating site and we started talking on the phone alot his was perfect he made me feel so special..he is the first men in my life that made me feel good about myself.He would tell me me that he likes me and that he was scare to meet me because he already new he would fall in love with me and now. he not the same with me and he still wont meet me is he really scare? Reply to this Question
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reader, So_Very_Confused +, writes (1 June 2011):
 sounds to me like he is not being totally truthful about his situation... most people that meet online and get into "relationships' want to progress to the next level which is face time... him not wanting to is a big red flag...
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reader, Proxy  +, writes (31 May 2011):
 What is it with online dating? What ever happened to just meeting people on the train or bus? I really do not understand it at all.Go OUTSIDE people!
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 May 2011): Girl, I think this guy obviously has no self-confidence at all. He is probably afraid that when you meet up you won't be attracted to him. So you need to ask yourself will you still like him even though he might not be attractive at all? If so, you need to reasure him that you will love him no matter what he looks like and his personality over shines his looks. I hope you and your man work out! Yey!:)
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reader, Denise32 +, writes (31 May 2011):
 I'm with eyeswideopen on this one. A big red flag......how do you know he isn't married; has a live-in gf, or even in jail?? You really don't, do you?
Think of this as having a big traffic sign posted; "PROCEED WITH CAUTION"
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reader, yomama65 +, writes (31 May 2011):
 Hi! I would have to agree with Eyes Wide Open on this one. As someone who just started online dating pretty recently, please beware of online scammers, as there are many out there. I came really close do getting sucked up into a scam, but broke contact before the person (it could be a man or woman, by the way) could try to take my money. Some things to watch for are, a picure that seems too good to be true (probably is not them, by the way), terrible grammar and spelling, moving WAY too fast professing their love for you, sending you poems and love letters they swiped from the internet, saying that they will relocate to be with you, but currently they are in a foreign country doing some kind of "business." My scammer was an "archaeologist" mining gold and diamonds in South Africa. Yeah, right. But I did believe him! What made me really uncomfortable was when he started asking me to "invest" in his "project." What usually happens is they have a crisis and need you to send them cash ASAP. Whatever you do, do NOT send anyone online money. I don't care how sweet and romantic and awesome they seem! They are scamming you and you will pay dearly. PLEASE be careful honey! And same to anyone else reading this. Stick with folks who at least live within driving distance. Best of luck!
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (31 May 2011):
 Scared or full of crap. Be careful my dear, very careful.
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