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female
age
30-35,
*narchy.yo
writes:We've been best friends for 4 years. now he's 17 and I'm 20) Our jokes have now become way more sexual this year and kinda serious this past weekend. Even our texts are bad, almost like sexting! We were talking about sex and I said "You wouldn't know how to if you tried." he got serious and said "maybe we should go back to my house and I'll show you"He also talks about all his girlfriends and what he wants to do with them, but flirts with girls in front of me too. What really confused me is him blowing off his girlfriend to hang out with me and wanting to watch a movie at his house this weekend.. I can feel the sexual tension in the air- or am I imagining it?
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reader, Plexi  +, writes (27 March 2012):
 He obviously finds you attractive and what 17 yr old guy would pass up the chance to flirt/talk about sex but be very careful and make sure he is not keeping you as his security blanket while trying to have his cake and seat it too. Talk to him and tell him how you feel about the mixed signals. Ask him how he feels about you and if he thinks of you as just a friend or more. If he considers you more then just a friend, tell him you don't like it when he flirts with other girls because it is disrespectful towards you. If he thinks you are JUST a friend to him, then don't sext him and flirt with him anymore and see if he disappears or if he still wants to hang out....
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (27 March 2012):
 He has a girlfriend? You sure you want a stroll down Cheaters Lane?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2012): I think he's a little bit on the cheating side. Don't let him cheat on his girlfriend. It's bad Karma. Believe me.
I hope I helped?
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