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writes:I have really good friend who is married , he's been with this girl 10 years , they split up befour annd we were secretly seeing each other for a few weeks . Over the past few weeks we have been kissing at the weekends when we have a drink in us but now we have met up in the fly sober and had sex . He sends me flirty messages , I will Also do it too. Do u think he has feelings for me ?
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reader, Sageoldguy1465  +, writes (2 April 2012):
 Yes.... he DOES have feelings for you.
Those feelings are best stated this way (I'll paraphrase on his behalf): "Boy, now I've got (your name) to put out for me... and I like s*x with her... and I'd like to continue that s*x.... so I'll do the minimum that I must to convince her that I have "feelings" for her, so that she'll continue to put out...."
The only "feelings" that are of any import to a man are those that he experiences when his pen*s enters a woman's (you-know-what)......
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (2 April 2012):
 Cut out the sex and see just how deep his feelings for you are.
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reader, Honeypie +, writes (2 April 2012):
 Yes the guys LOVES.... himself and his libido. The women around him means less. A lot less.
You are a convenient roll in the hay.
Even IF he left his wife, do you really think he would be faithful to you?
Don't kid yourself.
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 April 2012): As bronze adonis states: he will not have feelings for anyone but himself. Not you, not HIS WIFE, not anyone. At least you both have one thing in common.
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reader, oldbag +, writes (2 April 2012):
 yes he does lustful feelings . nothing more or he would be with you
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reader, pinktopaz +, writes (2 April 2012):
I don't think it means he has feelings for you, it means he's having fun with you.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (2 April 2012):
 True, meaningful feelings? No.
Purely sexual feelings? Absolutely.
He's having an affair with you behind his wife's back!
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 April 2012): No he doesnt have feelings for you. He just wants easy sex.
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reader, bronzed adonis +, writes (1 April 2012):
 No he wont have feelings for you. He wont have feelings for anyone but himself.
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