A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes: I work at a Chickfila and occasionally there are attractive men that come through the drive thru. I have worked the drive thru every morning for 3 months and I had never seen this guy before. Now he has been coming through and he's just uber attractive to me. What should I say to him to flirt a little and see if maybe he is interested in going out. I just want to flirt but I don't know how to start.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (24 April 2012):
Just be careful, okay? Ted Bundy was uber attractive.
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female
reader, matildasummer +, writes (24 April 2012):
Hey!
I know EXACTLY how u are feeling. First of all, forget what could go wrong. Take the negativity away and try and see this as a great opportunity for you. You really like him, and he seems to like you, you know where he works so make yourself familiar to him and just be polite friendly and chatty when you see him. This is a great chance to get talking when he's packing your bags, make excuses to talk to him, ask him where certain things are in the store etc.. He should get the message. If he does have a gf I'm pretty sure your gonna find out after some conversation. Then, when your in a conversation, just casually ask him for a coffee, you will soon find out if he likes you in that way. What you gonna lose? Worst case scenario, just don't go back to that store! Best case, you have a date & his number.
I had a situation like this myself, sometimes it's hard to make things happen as certain places you see someone you like isn't always the best time/ place to try and make more of it. But you HAVE to take the opportunity when it arises.
Good luck, make it happen.
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female
reader, Wisdom +, writes (24 April 2012):
Smile. Then say hello... maintain eye contact (not scary lady big bulging eye contact) but coy and with a sweet smile
see how you go
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