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writes: I just started thinking about something.My b/f went out one night last year without me around this time of year. It was a friday. He said it someone's b-day. I didn't really like that he was gonna be going bar hopping. He said they were going out to probably first. It really made me think now--did he go to a bachelor party? Dont they usually eat first and then go to the club? The next night when i asked him where they went he said he didnt really pay attention to the name, it was somewhere downtown. He wasn't driving so he said he didnt really pay attention--but come on..usually a person pays attention to atleast the name of the place they are going....its a year later..is it worth worrying about? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2006): if it bothers you then talk to him about it, just get it off your chest and then move on, tell him to be honest with you, i mean he must know where he went that night, if he cant be honest with you then dump him or take some action because if he cant be honest about telling you where he was then what else is he capable of lying about? good luck. remember, dont take any crap! get your satisfied answer.
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reader, stina  +, writes (7 December 2006):
 Hi Anon,
I don't think it's worth worrying about unless you think he cheated or unless you think things aren't going well in the relationship at the moment. In that case, I think it's best to bring all things to the table and discuss what's been going on and how to work on your relationship. See how the BOTH of you can work to make it better.
If things are fine now, though, I don't think I would worry about it - I mean it was a year ago. Personally I think bringing this up would cause more of a problem than its worth if you two are happy where things are at right now. But then if it's really bothering you to the point where you can't stop thinking about it, I suggest you mention to him that you were thinking about it and see what happens. But like I said - if things are fine now then I don't really see a point in bringing this up...
Take care.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (7 December 2006):
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