His Mother found out my age and told her son to dump me! What can I do?
Q. hi, ive got a big problem with my bf. Me and my bf have 3 years difference (i am 13 he is 16) we have already talked about sex and made sure we have eachothers trust neither of us are going to take advantage. But his mum has found out my age and h...
A. 16 May 2007: His mother is just doing her job. If this romance is meant to be then he can look you up in a few years. Where is your mother?... (read in full...)
can you get pregnant from giving a blow job?
Q. hi there i was wondering if you were to give a guy a blow-job and he cums is there a possible chance that you can get pregnant?i need answers asap!!!!!thankyou:)...
A. 16 May 2007: Oh Please, you have no business giving blow jobs if you even have ask this question. Do what DrPsych recommended, read up on human sexuality and reproduction before you really do do something that will make you pregnant.... (read in full...)
I need some help as I've fallen for a man who is married with children
Q. I need some help as I've fallen for a man who is married with children I see him once a week usually I am a client of where he works. We've known each other for about two years on and off. I keep thinking of him and I saw him the other day When I ...
A. 16 May 2007: If you think your last relationship was difficult you are going from the frying pan into the fire with this married guy. You aren't being very bright, and you aren't being very honorable either. Move on and don't give this idea a second thought.... (read in full...)
I'm 22, lesbian and in a relationship with no intimacy!
Q. Hello, people who may be able to help me. Here is where I am going to whine about my problem: Okay, so, I'm twenty-two, lesbian, and have been with my girlfriend for over a year now. At the beginning we had our ups and downs, as in all relations...
A. 16 May 2007: Frank is right, she doesn't love you, she may even be so screwed up that she is incapable of loving anyone. Get out of this relationship now, it will not get any better. Nobody should live in misery. You are not responsible for her mental problems ... (read in full...)
17 and in love with a 12 year old boy... is it wrong?
Q. i'm a 17 year old girl and i think i'm in love with a 12 year old boy. we're friends and we hang out almost everyday. he's friends with my brother who is 13 and that's how i met him. most of my friends are younger then me(like 12 and older) because ...
A. 14 May 2007: Yes it is very wrong. Where are the parents of your little friends? I would not think to let my kids hang out with children so much older than they were. There is a problem some where if you don't like to hang out with kids your own age. Talk to ... (read in full...)
I don't know if he's just being friendly or he really does like me! Can you guys help me?
Q. Dear Cupid, There's this boy friend I've had since we met in Junior High School, me in 7th grade, he in 8th grade. But now he's in high school,and I have a crush on him. The only problem is, I think he may also have a crush on me too, because...
A. 14 May 2007: Sounds like he likes you very much. He might be waiting for you to get a tad bit older and then who knows?... (read in full...)
Are any ladies or men who can give me some advice on what males of 23 think, want in a relationship?
Q. Hey Hey, I'm seeing this 23 year old....and there's a 7 year difference between us. Like... I wanna get inside his head...know or understand what he's thinking. I wanna know what 23 yr old males think and what they want. I wanna know conversa...
A. 14 May 2007: I have agree with the Doc on this one. I highly doubt that the guy will be interested in your opinions on global warming if he doesn't get any action. Make sure all he gets from you is conversation and see if I'm wrong.... (read in full...)
How can I prevent my bf from possibly going out with his new "friend"?
Q. My b/f recently got a new friend---the friend is smart and nice BUT i don't like his lifestyle--his girlfriend is pregnant and the girlfriend and family live about 3 hours away--he is into real estate and also does some other work so i guess they ...
A. 14 May 2007: I think you are jumping the gun here. If your boyfriend's behavior towards you or habits haven't changed then what's to worry about? If things do start changing then I'd sit him down and have a chat about it. Relax and enjoy your relationship.... (read in full...)
How can I get my ex to understand that his son doesn't want to see him???
Q. My ex-boyfriend has been harassing me, accusing me of not letting him see our young son. I broke up with him because he was always drunk and had poor hygiene. However, my son does not want to see him, and says "Daddy is a bad man!" "Bad daddy...
A. 14 May 2007: Well of course he can't see "sense"! He wants to see his son. Does he pay you child support? If he does then I think if you are concerned for your child then make sure you are with him when he visits his father but he should be able to see his ... (read in full...)
Is or isn't going to a casino the same as going out?
Q. Am I getting brain washed? The woman I've been seeing for the past few months enjoys going out on the weekends, dancing with her friends. She recently said she would only go out one night of the weekend and spend the other with me (I work ...
A. 14 May 2007: I think anytime you get out of the house and go anywhere constitutes "going out". What you guys need to do is set up your own definition, one that both of you agree on.... (read in full...)
He signed himself up on a dating site and he's looking for singles adds in the papers. Is he looking to cheat on me?
Q. My 30 yr. old boyfriend just built one of those interactive webpages were you can meet new people and add them to your list of 'friends'. Like everything he does and likes he has become kind of addicted to it, adding his pictures to the page (me ...
A. 14 May 2007: All the signs are there. This isn't the behavior of someone who is happy in their relationship. I think you'd best start looking at the big picture here. Have a nice long chat and if you can't resolve all theses issues I'd walk.... (read in full...)
I slept with another guy during our break and after my bf and I got back together he found out about it and ditched me. Will he love me again?
Q. Until a few days ago I'd been with my boyfriend for 3 years, while on a break about a year ago i was extremely drunk (not that that is a good excuse) and slept with one of my closest guy friends but never had the courage to tell my boyfriend as we ...
A. 14 May 2007: Technically you didn't cheat on him but emotionally he feels you did. All you can do is wait and hope that he'll decide that he loves you enough to get over it. It just a matter of whether you want to wait or move on with you life. You are very ... (read in full...)
I wrote a few hours ago about my partner wanting me out of our house to live with my mum.
Q. I wrote a few hours ago about my partner wanting me out of our house to live with my mum. He is now threatening to treat my daughter (from previous marriage)who lives with us -horribly. He is saying he can't stand me and needs me to go. He has p...
A. 14 May 2007: Man, I sure hope you can prove how much money you have put into the current house. Best get a lawyer involved. You should insist the HE moves out if he's so miserable.... (read in full...)
Whats the best time to get my Fiancee pregnant ?
Q. what can i do to get my fiance pregnant. Like i been trying for the past couple of month to get her pregnant but everytime her period comes on. Am i missing her most fertile periods or something and when would her most fertile periods be...?...
A. 11 May 2007: The best time is after the wedding when you and the wife start saving up for that two-seater sports car you've always wanted. I guarantee she'll get p.g.!... (read in full...)
suddenly he seems to be drifting away
Q. I've been with this guy I've had a crush on for quite some time, for nearly three weeks now. At first it was easy to talk to each other, but all abruptly he seems to be drifting away from me. Whenever we talk, there's always some slight tension ...
A. 11 May 2007: Whether we want it or not some relationships do just that, dwindle. Especially at your age, but in a way it's a good thing. At least you now have a better understanding of the type of guy who gives you sparks and are a step closer to identifying ... (read in full...)
He's miserable in his marriage-how long should I wait until he decides to leave her?
Q. (This below was my question 2 months ago) We have been friends for 1.5 years. He has been miserable with his marriage (he has no kids with her but she has kids from a previous relationship). He recently told me that he is falling out of love with...
A. 11 May 2007: You can sit around and wait for him to call or get busy with your own life. Go out with friends, do some volunteer work, meet new people, just stay busy. If he gets things sorted out and decides to look you up then great. But if he decides to give ... (read in full...)
I'm getting married to my gf, but I'm madly in love with a coworker.
Q. I am getting married in less than 2 months to a girlfriend of 4 years, she has 3 kids from a previous relationship who I get along with well. The past year has been very rocky: we have argued quite alot over everything from sex to money, the ...
A. 11 May 2007: It's great that you have all this happening BEFORE getting married! You need to talk to your fiancee and let her know exactly how you feel. Even without the co-worker in the picture you have to call the wedding off. If you guys are constantly ... (read in full...)
I'm in love with my daughter's friend.
Q. I know this may seem wrong, but I'm in love with my daughters friend. I divorced my daughter (Ashley)'s mother about 2 years ago and I guess I've been looking for someone to be with. But there's more than one problem with that. First, She's 17. ...
A. 11 May 2007: You are not in love you are sexually aroused. You also are not thinking clearly. There is no excuse for your behavior. Knock it off before the girl's dad shows up on your doorstep and knocks your block off. How would you feel if some old fart was ... (read in full...)
Is my period coming or am I pregnant ?
Q. i really really need your help! okay..i really think im pregnant..i had unprotected sex with my boyfried last month and four days later, i got my period. does that mean i can still get pregnant? and my period came around the 19th and this month ...
A. 11 May 2007: Damn, what is this, the Psychic Hot-line? Go get a pregnancy test and take it, then get yourself on birth control. If you are old enough to have sex then act like a responsible person. In this day and age there is no excuse for an unplanned ... (read in full...)
I feel I've lost my best friend now I'm about to lose my husband if something doesn't change.
Q. My husband and I have been married for 2 years. About a month ago he came to me and told me he wasn't happy any more because I have a gambling problem. I told him I would stop gambling if he wouold give me a chance toprove to him, so I did and ...
A. 11 May 2007: If she is your best friend then sit down and have a chat. It sounds pretty dang fishy to me. Tell her in no uncertain terms to leave your husband out of her romantic plans to reunite with her ex. He shouldn't be involved so tell him to knock it off ... (read in full...)
I cheated on the exams, what can I do?
Q. i feel so guilty because ive just cheated in my exams at university. what should i do?...
A. 10 May 2007: Go to the instructor(s) and confess. You may get a break or you may not but you'll feel a heck of a lot better about yourself.... (read in full...)
am I ready for sex? All my friends tell me to do it.
Q. Right... im 15 and i've been going out with this boy for nearly 2 weeks now. He flattered me so much and dumped his nine month GF to be with me... i love him so much and he loves me to. He's fingered me, licked me out and i tossed him off. Next ...
A. 10 May 2007: Hell yes you are moving too fast. I can't believe you've allowed him to do all that other stuff already also. You have only been dating for two weeks for crying out loud. Slow down. Do you always let your friends make your most personal decisions ... (read in full...)
I had sex with my neighbour after a week. Would he still talk to me even though I was so easy?
Q. okay so i have this neighbor and well i really like him and we started talking this week so last night i wanted to talk and i texted him and next thing i know he's at my house well we start kissing and then suddenly we started having sex well i ...
A. 10 May 2007: You wrote about you and this neighbor the other day. Obviously you didn't like the responses you got. I think that this is just a scenario you are fantasizing. I also think that this is just a typical teenage crush.... (read in full...)
I lied to her and now she's upset. Is there no way I can make it work?
Q. hi. im a 25 year old guy n ive been with my 16 yr old gf for nearly 4 months. We have had our fair share of problems and right now everything is falling appart. On friday i lied about a girl that she knew i had feelings for. I told her that we...
A. 10 May 2007: Why do you say you are a 25 yr. guy but you clicked female 16-17? Hummmm... (read in full...)
Why is he always looking for someone better?
Q. We have been dating 9 years on an off. I found out that he had an affair for years with a coworker. He would break up with me for stupid stuff. He always seems to be looking for someone better why?...
A. 10 May 2007: Obviously he just isn't that into you. I'd go my separate way if I were you. You can do better.... (read in full...)
How can we break it off? And how will I get over this?
Q. I don't know what to do. I have been seeing this man who is 8 years older than I am, married and a co worker for almost a year. We have taken turns breaking off this relationship. We have both said that if we had met earlier then we would have been ...
A. 10 May 2007: If you really want to get over it then you'll just have to change jobs and never be alone with the guy ever again. It is just that simple. You may not like it but too bad, you made a bad decision and all decisions have consequences.... (read in full...)
Why are my teachers rude to me?
Q. This has been bothering me lately. I don't know why some of my teachers gives me dirty looks, and grab my papers out of my hand when i hand it in? Why do they do this? please help. thanks....
A. 10 May 2007: It has been my experience that when teachers give dirty looks it's because someone is misbehaving or is coping an attitude. Are you?... (read in full...)
She just wants me to be her dirty little secret!!!!!
Q. Im in love with a girl who is already going out with a guy. she said she would break up with him for me but once her parents found out they forbid her from seeing me. her parents have spoken to alot of her friends and even a few of our teachers to ...
A. 10 May 2007: I'd throw all my effort into improving my school work and thus improving your record. Get your grades up, sign up for extra curricular activities...just get involved. When her mother notices the change then maybe she'll decide to let you see her ... (read in full...)
I find my boyfriend embarassingly unmanly. What can I do?
Q. Hey, I've recently started dating a guy, I'm 15 and he's 14, but because he's in the academic year below me my boy "friends" think it's weird. Sometimes they go as far as hitting him and tripping him up, "as a joke" For some reason, when the...
A. 9 May 2007: He very young one of these days he's gonna bust a few bullies' heads. Stand by your man!... (read in full...)
How can I get back with my ex who doesn't want to listen to me?
Q. My ex and I broke up a while ago (6 months) and I have tried to see if we can work it out. I spoke to him over the weekend he was just so angry... I did handle the breakup badly, but so did he in a way. He was saying awful things like I was just ...
A. 9 May 2007: I guess you have the choice to sit around and wait for him to call or get busy with your life. I'd do the latter because if he never calls at least you haven't wasted valuable time. Good luck.... (read in full...)
How do I deal with my left-over feelings from the last relationship?
Q. HI, I finished with my girlfriend last Wednesday. I said to her that if she didn't respect me or feel any attraction for me then that was fine and that we shouldn't see each other again. I've picked up on lots of things that have brought me to this ...
A. 9 May 2007: Time is your best friend in situations like this. Stay busy and get out and about with friends. I really think the break up was for the best. You'll be fine.... (read in full...)
How do I get past all the damage my alcoholic husband has caused?
Q. How do I get past all the damage he's caused? My husband is an alcoholic and we've had some major issues in the past. For the past 2 years he gets real mean and aggressive when he drinks a lot. I have left him several times and each time I come ...
A. 9 May 2007: Check with a women's shelter, they may be able to get you some temporary housing until you can afford your own place or at least advise you on the options available to you.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend will only love me if I loose weight. Should I dump him?
Q. My boyfriend told me that I need to lose weight. We just got back together after we broke up for a couple of months and he said that I looked like I gain weight. So I told him you don't love me the way I am? He said I'll love you if you lost some ...
A. 9 May 2007: I guess I'll "weigh" in with the other aunts on this one. Dump the insensitive ass, no loss there that's for sure. I'm sure you are beautiful inside and out and that you'll find the guy who can appreciate it.... (read in full...)
I'm ready to have a baby but to tell the truth I don't no if I am. What should I do?
Q. ok i have a couple ? i hope you can help with all of them! so me and my boyfriend have talked about haveing sex and having a baby even at our age. we've both had sex when we were younger!! we've also both talked about french kissing which ai...
A. 9 May 2007: Good Lord, you are afraid to french kiss but you have no qualms about having sex? You aren't even a teenager yet! Why don't you do some babysitting just to see a snap shot of the work involved in childcare? Please give me your mom's phone number she ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend is moving and didn't ask my opinion, does he even care about me?
Q. My boyfriend wants to move to another state. He hasn't even considered me into the factor. He said the only thing on his mind right now is making money fast. Everytime I try to bring our relationship and what will happen to it when he moves he ...
A. 9 May 2007: Doesn't sound like much of relationship, I'd move on if I were you and see if you can find someone who is really into you.... (read in full...)
I'm dating the girl at works Ex, she already has someone new so why is she so cross at me!?
Q. I had a friend at the firm where i am working, not a best friend but a good friend. After a 3 year relationship with her boyfriend, they broke up, for some reason i dont really know. Later on me and her ex boyfriend started to chat and to see each ...
A. 9 May 2007: I would just keep on doing what you are doing. She does sound like she still has issues with her break up and maybe feelings for her EX but that is her problem. You are behaving admirably.... (read in full...)
How do you make a bloke leave his wife without actually asking him to?
Q. how do you make a bloke leave his wife without actually asking him to?...
A. 9 May 2007: Maybe at gun point? Boy howdy what a dumb question.... (read in full...)
We've been having an affair for 5 years but we won't leave his family for me - how do I move on?
Q. Help, I'm in love with a man whos 18 years older than me (I'm 28 now) whos married (unhappily) and has 2 kids (both now over 20 years old). We've been together for 5 and a half years. I understand he can't leave her because it will hurt so many ...
A. 9 May 2007: You are wasting valuable time with this sordid affair. Years down the road as you sit by yourself staring at the phone, He's going to be cuddled up on the couch with his wife looking at pictures of their wonderful grandkids. You'll have nothing ... (read in full...)
They say I'm not as tall as I am and it's annoying me!
Q. My friends are adament that I'm not 5'7'', even though countless members of my family have measured me, my teacher has measured me, and all have said I'm 5'7''. I'm the tallest out of my friends, yet they disagree that I'm taller by 4 inches, ...
A. 9 May 2007: If you stop reacting then they will stop pushing your button. This really is a no biggie.... (read in full...)
We just became good friends at work, others judged us and condemned us, but surely I can still remain friends with him ?
Q. hi.. i want some advice. well i work with this guy who i met on my first day at work, he was really helpful to me but he kept wanting to be working near me all the time. at first i thought this was a bit weird but then i got used to it (and also ...
A. 9 May 2007: He isn't married yet, maybe he is having second thoughts, and BEFORE a marriage is the time to have them rather than after. So I say go ahead and stay friends with him, if he decides to break off with his fiancee then maybe you two can carry it ... (read in full...)
She just wants me to be her dirty little secret!!!!!
Q. Im in love with a girl who is already going out with a guy. she said she would break up with him for me but once her parents found out they forbid her from seeing me. her parents have spoken to alot of her friends and even a few of our teachers to ...
A. 9 May 2007: Why is it that her parents don't want you seeing their daughter?... (read in full...)
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