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writes:hiplease help me i really do not know what to do. There is a man i am really in love with but I think he's using me. Every time I see him all he wants is 20 minutes of talking and the rest of the day having sex. I mean sex is great with him but I want more, and he has told me so does he. Before this man I would have looked down on a woman in my position, but now I am so in love with this man I can't walk away.I really need advice.Thanks. Reply to this Question
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reader, mel2 +, writes (28 March 2007):
Then don't walk away. Have fun, enjoy the sex, and remember you must be a passionate person yourself, otherwise you would not be desirable to him. Of course he must have respect for you but you should know in your heart if he is just us playing around! Please use the safe sex method, you can't be too careful these days. Good luck, follow your heart and just have fun! enjoy each other life is far too short.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (28 March 2007):
 Why would you look down on a woman in your "position"? Is he married?
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reader, Reebe +, writes (27 March 2007):
 Hi
You don't say how long you've been seeing this man, but he's obviously not making you feel very good about yourself. Next time he asks you to go over, and he tries to initiate sex tell him you really don't feel like it and maybe you could just watch a film or talk or go out instead. Do you go out with each other at all? to the cinema etc?
If he doesn't want to do this or he goes moody with you or makes excuses for you to leave after a short while then I think you have the answer to your question.
Sorry if this is a bit blunt but it's the best way to see if he is using you, and if he is your better off out of the relationship and find some one else thats happy to just be with you.
Hope it all works out.
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