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male
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes: I found that a girl i went very close to was a liar and was cheating on me. She looked average and though i used to only trust good looking girls, i trusted her for the first time. So i made a conclusion that average looking girls are not to be trusted for they will play dirty tricks to get what they want. Whereas, good looking girls don't have to do that. Isn't this true?
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reader, Doctor Elizabeth +, writes (28 March 2007):
How would you like it if women looked at you and made these kinds of judgments? I don't think you would like it at all, unless you are a masochist and enjoy being evaluated in such fashion. And, hey, even masochists have their pride, right?
Please, honey, wake up to yourself and join the 21st century. It's time to trade in that Fascist sensibility for a more even-handed approach to relationships.
Best to you,
Doc Liz
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female
reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2007): I would say that good looking girls are more likely to play around as they will get more attention from men.
Also, I would say that you are a total idiot.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2007): Im a good looking girl and I've cheated, lied and played guys a number of times, it's not something I'm proud of but it is relevant to your statement. Everybody screws over someone one time or another, and everyone gets screwed over one time or another, it's inevitable. It has nothing to do with how someone looks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2007): i am an average looking girl but i dont cheat or lie to my partner you just picked the wrong person everyone is different from looks to personality so dont just assume that all stunners will be faithfull and with an attitude like yours i can see why she felt the need to find love somewhere else
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2007): thats a horrible thing to say. its people like you who give guys their bad reputation. you dont deserve a girlfriend if u think like this and judge them on their looks
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (26 March 2007):
No it isn't true. You certainly are old enough to realize how flawed your logic is.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2007): So you found one average looking girl to have lied and cheated on you so you automatically assume all average-looking girls would do the same? That doesn't sound a very well thought-out argument to me.
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reader, Dazzerg +, writes (26 March 2007):
I saw this question and to be honest I have to say thought immediatly your premise was flawed. Peoples personality and realiability is not determined by how they look. Equal to what you are saying good looking girls are just as likely to cheat since they can basically and are often, contray to the image they project, very insecure in themselves for one reason or another. Insecure girls are often unrealiable and i guess if they were 'average' that might make them insecure...but still...
You have to judge a person by how they are not how they look.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 March 2007): That is a truly awful way of looking at things. Average girls have to play more tricks because they're not good looking? You have serious problems
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