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female
age
41-50,
anonymous
writes:I wasn't invited to my b/f Easter dinner tonight with daughters and other faily members.We have been together for 2 months, I met his younger daughter who lives with him and he invited his older daughter who lives with his ex wife to come for dinner tonight (I never met this older daughter yet). Other family members were invited also, his ex wife is away for vacation for few weeks, so he decided to have family dinner at his home and he is cooking for them.I understand that he needs to spend time with his family especially his older daughter that has rare time with him, but why I wasn't invited, is it because he thinks it's too soon to include me ? I mean I get along fine with his 14 y/o daughter who lives with him.Do I have a right to ask why or should I just let it go for now ?Thank you.
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reader, TasteofIndia +, writes (9 April 2007):
 Hi sweetness,
Your relationship is so new and fresh! Two months isn't very long...
Maybe your boyfriend just wanted some quality family time where everyone could be together and celebrate Easter as a family. I don't think he meant to offend you or leave you out. Easter is a major holiday for some families... his daughter was there who he rarely gets to see. I think you definitely need to let this go and be happy that he got to spend time with his family.
xxIndia
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (9 April 2007):
 I'd let it go, there's always next year. 2 months is just the begining of a relationship I wouldn't make an issue of this if I were you.
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