My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 27 March 2009: I love happy endings! Best wishes on your new relationship, Lord knows you deserve it after all you've been through! You are going to stay with us too I hope.... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 12 August 2008: Congrats on finally getting the divorce from that louse. And you are exactly right, payback is going to be a bitch for him. Karma hates assholes like him. Your trust will return and happiness is right around the corner for you. You are a lovely ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 1 July 2008: Well I certainly liked the last part of your update! Enjoy the positive attention, you definitely are deserving after the dickhead.... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 2 June 2008: Sarcy, be very careful if you decide to check out his involvement with his lawyer. You don't want to be charged with stalking. However the aunts are right IF he is involved with her, and you can prove it, you'll be sitting in the catbird seat. As ... (read in full...)
Dear Cupid, this is the kinda stuff we want to hear.....
Q. Just a little light comic relief, some entertainment if you like - sort of based on some of the problems here on Dear Cupid. Feel free to lighten your load : ) I'll start by submitting 8 things that I think guys would 'LOVE' to hear from their ...
A. 7 May 2008: What's a menstrual cycle again?... (read in full...)
We differ in our attitude to fidelity. What can I do here?
Q. I have been living with my girlfriend for 8 years now. She has 2 boys 10 and 12 years old that only really know me as their dad. We have had some rough times in the past, partly because she suffers from SAD (seasonal affective disorder) and partly ...
A. 29 April 2008: I wish you the best on your fresh start. You will do just fine. I hope she will allow you to visit the boys on occasion. Please let us know how you are doing. You might want to check out some of the postings, I'm sure you can be of great help to ... (read in full...)
So many women would pay to see me naked, so how can I change her "errors" about premarital sex?
Q. I am hoping that some of the aunts on this site can help me with my problem. I am an extremely handsome, smart and funny 28 year old male. I have an excellent job and earn a very substantial sum of money indeed. I have two Ferraris and live in a ...
A. 28 April 2008: I tried living in a fantasy world once, but it just gave me the munchies.... (read in full...)
Where is this going and should I wait for him?
Q. Me and my fiance have been together for 3 1/2 years but recently he has told me he thinks to make this relationship last we needed time apart. He told me because I wasn't in school and i have had a hard time finding a job that it might make me focus ...
A. 28 April 2008: Sorry you have to go through this but believe me it's best not to contact him. The last thing you need to lose at this point is your dignity. Hold your head high, bite your lip, and move on. You'll feel much better about yourself.... (read in full...)
We differ in our attitude to fidelity. What can I do here?
Q. I have been living with my girlfriend for 8 years now. She has 2 boys 10 and 12 years old that only really know me as their dad. We have had some rough times in the past, partly because she suffers from SAD (seasonal affective disorder) and partly ...
A. 25 April 2008: She sure has an excuse for everything doesn't she?! Even blames you over and over again for her own decisions and actions. I agree with your friend, you need to get away from the psycho and maybe you will actually be doing her a favor. It may force ... (read in full...)
SITE VIDEO: April 2008 video from Andrew
Q. Been a while since we had a video update. Anyone interested in being able to post their replies to the site as YouTube videos??...
A. 25 April 2008: Good idea but first I need to get that facelift, my hair done, oh and nails too, maybe a new wardrobe....... (read in full...)
It sounds as cheating as he is in another relation, but we're not formally divorced yet, would it be wrong if I ceded to his innuendos?
Q. ok, my question may be kinda silly but maybe fresh eyes can make sense of it. My Newly seperated husband (living with someone at the moment but not divorced from me) has been going on his webcam during our conversations on the computer and making an ...
A. 25 April 2008: Your soon-to-be-ex husband is a real piece of work. Be glad you are getting rid of him. Don't allow him to use you like this. Throw the slug back to the slime pit he's created and wash your hands of him once and for all. That's how my fresh eyes see ... (read in full...)
Where is this going and should I wait for him?
Q. Me and my fiance have been together for 3 1/2 years but recently he has told me he thinks to make this relationship last we needed time apart. He told me because I wasn't in school and i have had a hard time finding a job that it might make me focus ...
A. 25 April 2008: Good thing this all has happened before you got married. Sounds like he is interested in another woman. I would leave him alone and go about your business. Go ahead and date others if you feel like it. Stay busy. If you guys hook up again make sure ... (read in full...)
She was dry with me but wet when she came back from work-is she cheating on me?
Q. My wife and i have past 2days we had sex she dry before start and then she went to work when she come back when I feel her she was wet as she just finished having sex or may be cheatin...
A. 25 April 2008: Tish is right as rain (as usual), It's all a matter of gravity. And quit grabbing her crotch when she walks in the door, try a sweet kiss on the lips instead.... (read in full...)
How do you cope with stalkers?
Q. one of my best friends has this crazy stalker type person following her at school all the time. some how he got her phone number and is calling her at all times during the night. everytime we walk to our different classes at school he is always righ...
A. 25 April 2008: Tell her parents and they most likely will call the cops. But you need to tell her parents immediately.... (read in full...)
How do I break up with someone that I've been with for over four years?
Q. How do I break up with someone that I've been with for over four years? we started dating when I was 16, I was a virgin when we met (he wasn't). I am 20 now, in University, and I have just about had it with him. I love him to death and I can't ...
A. 25 April 2008: You can end it or you can just go for a temporary break. It may be easier on both of you if you just say it's just for awhile so you can sort yourselves out. However if you really see no future with this guy then end it. Ignore the suicide threat ... (read in full...)
We met online, only after we slept together he said that he loves his ex and we could remain FWB! Should I accept this?
Q. I met a guy on a dating site, we hit it off. But he broke up with me a few days later because he wanted to get back with his girlfriend. This is after we slept together. I emailed him back wanting to see him to discuss the situation. He said he ...
A. 24 April 2008: FWB most often means "F@#ked Without Benefits". If you enjoy being used then keep it up.... (read in full...)
Do girls make passes at guys with glasses?
Q. Do girls think guys with glasses are nerdy? Im tall, 6'2, im not horribly thin but i am not that muscular and i have glasses so basically i am the normal tall,skinny,nerd. I was wondering if getting contacts would make me more attractive, w...
A. 24 April 2008: My husband has worn glasses since he was in 3rd grade. He looks handsome and very scholarly with them and weird without them. Now if he could just manage to put them in the same place every night we might avoid the "help me find my glasses" panic ... (read in full...)
Do you believe a married man when he tells you what a witch his wife is?
Q. To women who are having an affair with a married man. Do you believe your married man when he is telling you what an evil B*tch his wife is and how you are so much nicer and how much he loves you?...
A. 24 April 2008: Sure you can believe him, want to buy a nice bridge in Brooklyn?... (read in full...)
We are 16 yrs old and we want a baby! I want to be with her forever.
Q. I am 16 and my girl is 15 goin on 16 and we both want a baby......I want to stay with her for the rest of my life and we been 2gether for a year and 2months, We really know what we want it's just things changing my mind.....people who told me how ...
A. 24 April 2008: Ahhh yes, this reminds me of my boyfriend when I was sixteen, we were going to be together forever and ever, never to part...I wonder where he is these days?... (read in full...)
I feel so insecure, jealous, like she saved nothing for our relationship, sexually... because of her past!
Q. Is there a way to detach your feelings from sex because my woman's past makes me look at her in a bad, judgmental way I don't want to feel bad but I feel sick as I can't get thoughts of her with other guys out of my head, its making me desire sex ...
A. 24 April 2008: Your relationship is doomed. Go find that virgin, you'll never be happy with anything else. Too bad too, you may just miss out on the true love of your life. But from previous postings from guys like yourself, they just can't get past the past.... (read in full...)
Do women tell the truth about their sexual past?
Q. Do women tell the truth about their sexual past... do they feel men would leave them if they told the truth? be honest and men your thoughts also please. thanks...
A. 24 April 2008: This is a really vague question. Some women do and some women don't. Some women do sometimes and some women don't sometimes. Some women never do and some women always do. Sheesh.... (read in full...)
We got married young thus I don't feel ready for the baby's arrival, I want her to agree with me on the abortion!
Q. My wife lost are baby a year ago and is now 2 months pregnant with another child im worried about her. She is not letting me touch her and is in bed all the time she is letting it take over her life. I want to hold her i knwo she is scared i just...
A. 24 April 2008: For crying out loud Dude! You lost one baby and made another, if you didn't want children then you should have been using birth control. Plus this decision to have children should have been thoroughly discussed between your wife and yourself. Since ... (read in full...)
I caught my husband with the nanny!
Q. I caught my husband making out with the nanny. what should I do?...
A. 23 April 2008: Got a cast iron frying pan? Tell him to knock off this nonsense or you'll use it. And get a new nanny, an old one.... (read in full...)
What can I do to prepare myself for the abortion? I fear that it's going to be heartbreaking.
Q. this is gonna sound really stupid, but i've gotta go for a scan of my baby that i've recently decided to have terminated due to a change of circumstances with the baby's father. it is the eight week scan and i've been looking on the internet at pict...
A. 23 April 2008: If the staff knows that you have decided to have an abortion, then they will most likely turn the screen so you cannot see it. If they don't turn the screen don't look and save yourself the heartbreak.... (read in full...)
I was his mistress and now we are together. Why am I still competing with the wife?
Q. i am a 21 yr old who is dating a 33 yr old man. He left his wife for me and i believe he loves me very much as do i him. He has 3 kids who absolutely dispise me as well as alot of financial stuff from his past with his wife.I know his wife is still ...
A. 23 April 2008: Why hasn't he filed for divorce? What does he say when you ask him? Do you ask him? How can you ever really trust him? With his track record you'll always have that nagging doubt that he's doing something behind your back. The guy is playing both of ... (read in full...)
I told my boyfriend at the end of our relationship I was molested as a child and he didnt care.
Q. my boyfriend and i of one year have been having many problems the last 3 months, he never said it was over, just "this isn't worth it anymore" and "you need to find another guy" but never officially that, we were through. we had another fight and i ...
A. 23 April 2008: Your relationship is over. Some people were just not meant to be together. Get some counseling if your past is affecting your ability to have relationships. Once you get that settled in your mind you will be able to successfully move on and have a ... (read in full...)
What's a husband supposed to do?!! My wife is dressing very sexy- can I get her to practice more discretion?
Q. My 38-year-old wife is beautiful woman, and is a devoted wife and mother. We've been very happily married for nine months, and our love life is great. This is our second marriages. My wife's first marriage was sexually unfulfilling and her ex was ...
A. 23 April 2008: Okay, after your last response I think you are right. She does need some counseling. She is a grown woman and should be able to control herself, especially in public. I think there are some issues she needs to work out. Sounds like you may have a ... (read in full...)
His deceased brother's sister is interested in him and would like to stay over with him...help!
Q. i have been dating my boyfriend for 3 years and 4 months. he is 69 years old but is very young at heart. his brother was killed 39 years ago and since then his brother's wife has remarried and does not have a good marriage. the day that his ...
A. 22 April 2008: Since she is his brother's widow, she is still kind of family. However she does sound very unstable and definitely dangerous. I guess I would try to always be with him whenever she is going to be around. I wouldn't let her be alone with him not ... (read in full...)
Should I hang on to my online guy?
Q. Hello. I will be as short as I can. I am pretty much a loner, apart from a few acquaintances, my problem is that I don't like any of these people. I have had an online relationship with a guy for about three years, and I am now holding onto thi...
A. 18 April 2008: Why three years? How do you know he's telling you the truth about himself? People can be anybody they want to be online.... (read in full...)
Should I hang on to my online guy?
Q. Hello. I will be as short as I can. I am pretty much a loner, apart from a few acquaintances, my problem is that I don't like any of these people. I have had an online relationship with a guy for about three years, and I am now holding onto thi...
A. 18 April 2008: Has your "relationship" with this guy been strictly chatting to each other on line? Have you guys ever met face to face?... (read in full...)
Any usefull advice on how NOT to get stretch marks?
Q. Hi all, I have found out I am pregant but I am terrified about getting stretch marks. Can anyone suggest anything that actually WORKS that I can use to prevent this? I know people will prob slate me saying I am vain and its the last thing I shou...
A. 18 April 2008: Some women don't get any ever, some women can benefit by using lotions and avoid them, but some women get them whether they religiously apply lotions and oils or not. It just depends on your skin type, how you carry the baby, and how big you get. ... (read in full...)
I'm suffering because of my husband's lack of affection towards me!
Q. My husband is not affectioniate towards me now that i am pregnant, i feel so alone and not loved, What should i do? please help...
A. 17 April 2008: I'm assuming he was more affectionate before your pregnancy. Sometimes guys are really weird around pregnant females. He may be afraid that having sex will hurt the baby, or that you probably don't feel like it, you know along those lines. Perhaps ... (read in full...)
Dear Cupid, this is the kinda stuff we want to hear.....
Q. Just a little light comic relief, some entertainment if you like - sort of based on some of the problems here on Dear Cupid. Feel free to lighten your load : ) I'll start by submitting 8 things that I think guys would 'LOVE' to hear from their ...
A. 17 April 2008: Three women: one engaged, one married, and one a mistress, are chatting about their relationships and decide to amaze their men....that night all three will wear a leather bodice style, stiletto's and mask over their eyes...After a few days they ... (read in full...)
Love Triangle! Am I living in a fantasy?
Q. The backdrop is....8 years ago I was in a relationship with a woman (I'm a woman) we were togther for about three years and then she dumped me to get married to a man. Now, fast forward...this love of my life looked me up about four months ago, now ...
A. 17 April 2008: She's sitting in the catbird seat now isn't she?! I think you know deep down what you should do. Like pulling off a bandaid, just do it.... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 17 April 2008: If you haven't turned your son against his father (and by your posts,you haven't)then I don't see why you would be terrified. The judge has dealt with young children before so he/she knows how to talk to them in order to understand how they really ... (read in full...)
Our first 'date' istoday! I need some advice fast!
Q. im seeing this girl today.. We are friends but i want us to be more then that.. And i think she wants to be more too!! We are seeing each other later today.. Our first official date.. Or not a date but we made arrangements to see eacg other.. At her ...
A. 17 April 2008: RELAX that's the key. Ask her about herself. Tell her your dreams for the future. Tell her a funny story from your past. Just try to relax and enjoy yourself. It will be easier than you think. Good luck and let us know how it went.... (read in full...)
I am getting sore. Any suggestions?
Q. I've been masturbating about once a day lately. I didn't use to do it so frequently. Now I'm getting a bit sore down there and my arms are aching as if I've just finished a session at the gym. I can't control. Any advice?...
A. 17 April 2008: Patient says: "Doctor it hurts when I do this...(raises arm)."
Doctor says: "Well stop doing that."... (read in full...)
Feeling very unconfortable about an incident with my Mom
Q. Hi I am a virgin in my early twenties.My problem is I am obsessed about a past incident. That was the time when there was whitewashing going in our house.The whole furniture was accomodated in one room with family sleeping in that roomonl...
A. 17 April 2008: Emily's right, this is no big deal and you need to blot it out of your mind. I have a son and I know what I'm talking about. Get busy with your and put this behind you.... (read in full...)
I have met someone I want to spend my life with, but am not sure I should give my marriage another try first
Q. I'm asking for a male friend who's 45-50. I've been married for 21 years and the have three young children. The magic has been out of our relationship for many years and we are more like friends who take each other for granted. I've met someon...
A. 17 April 2008: So you are asking this question for this 45-50 yr old guy? You wouldn't happen to be the other woman would you?... (read in full...)
Urgent help needed for assignment due in the morning!
Q. ive been really stupid and left an assignment until the last minute It's due in tomorrow morning, im panicking and haven't really got any notes for it! i know its all my own fault like,.. but any one got any ideas what i can do?...
A. 16 April 2008: Why don't you contact SouthernMan and do a paper on pre-marital sex and how it effects on your location after departing this earth? He's around here somewhere, make sure you look under the rocks. ... (read in full...)
A question of who should be president?
Q. During the recent presidntial election many have talked about relgion and morals. John McCain is remarried while his first wife is stil living that is adultery. Hillary Clintons husband is an adulter. Barrack Obama has no cases against h...
A. 16 April 2008: Yeah, what's with this focus on adultery and fornication? What's the matter you get dumped by a cheating girl friend or something? You sound very bitter my friend.... (read in full...)
A question of who should be president?
Q. During the recent presidntial election many have talked about relgion and morals. John McCain is remarried while his first wife is stil living that is adultery. Hillary Clintons husband is an adulter. Barrack Obama has no cases against h...
A. 16 April 2008: I guess my vote will just cancel out yours.... (read in full...)
I don't think my girlfriend is comfortable with my new facial scars!
Q. Hey, I'm just a bit unsure of what to do here. Bit of background, I've been in the army for 3 years now, I went on overseas deployment and ended up getting wounded and coming home early. I now have some bad scaring on my face. I know it doesn't ...
A. 16 April 2008: I just want to say thank you for your service to your country. I admire young men such as yourself. Those scars are honorable, in time I hope she can realize that.... (read in full...)
My husband keeps asking me why my body doesn't look like the women in porn!
Q. My husband keeps asking me why my body doesnt look like the women in porn...I tried explaining to him that after a few kids things change...Im not at all overweight but womens bodies do change in ways that cant be helped after babies like stretch ...
A. 16 April 2008: Yeah I know I'd like 5 minutes alone with this moron. To the poster, stretch marks and sags here and there are the battle scars of a true warrior and should be revered for what they stand for. Tell your stupid husband to shut up or he can find the ... (read in full...)
Why do men have such problems with my past sex life?
Q. Why do men i date find my one night stands in the past distasteful?...
A. 16 April 2008: Well for crying out loud keep your mouth shut. There, problem solved.... (read in full...)
Are there any other people who want to wait for marriage before having sex?
Q. As a young man 25 years old, I want to know if there are any other people from 18-35 who have standards and want to remain virgins when they marry, also would not marry a person who has been divorced and had kids of of wedlock?...
A. 15 April 2008: Since I'm 56 I guess you don't want my comments on your post so I won't make any (although the aunts on here who know me know exactly which side of the bread I'm buttered on). I just wanted to tell deejuliet, good answer albeit very heart-rendering, ... (read in full...)
Can my sister be pregnant?
Q. Hi i have a 15 year old sister and she had sex for the first time on march 4 2008 and today is april 15 2008 she has not gotten a period but she says her period was irregular but then regular so my question is can she be pregnant?????...
A. 15 April 2008: Okay once again, to repeat the mantra...go to the store and buy a pregnancy test, cheap easy, accurate...go to the store and buy a pregnancy test, cheap easy, accurate...go to the store and buy a pregnancy test, cheap easy, accurate...go to the ... (read in full...)
Dear Cupid, this is the kinda stuff we want to hear.....
Q. Just a little light comic relief, some entertainment if you like - sort of based on some of the problems here on Dear Cupid. Feel free to lighten your load : ) I'll start by submitting 8 things that I think guys would 'LOVE' to hear from their ...
A. 14 April 2008: Under the circumcisions, I think you are better off, Big Sis!... (read in full...)
Dear Cupid, this is the kinda stuff we want to hear.....
Q. Just a little light comic relief, some entertainment if you like - sort of based on some of the problems here on Dear Cupid. Feel free to lighten your load : ) I'll start by submitting 8 things that I think guys would 'LOVE' to hear from their ...
A. 14 April 2008: The guy should be in a penal institute.... (read in full...)
What's a husband supposed to do?!! My wife is dressing very sexy- can I get her to practice more discretion?
Q. My 38-year-old wife is beautiful woman, and is a devoted wife and mother. We've been very happily married for nine months, and our love life is great. This is our second marriages. My wife's first marriage was sexually unfulfilling and her ex was ...
A. 8 April 2008: What's a husband to do?
Not a damn thing, Buddy. I repeat, ENJOY!... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 8 February 2008: Sarcy,I think you need to get some counseling, I don't feel you will be able to pull out of this spiral by yourself. Do it for your son's sake.... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 28 January 2008: Sarcy I know you don't want to hear this but I think the total lack of communication is the best thing right now. Your last few conversations were all ending bad and accomplishing nothing. Relax and let things cool down for awhile. He's not really ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 13 November 2007: Yeaaaa Sarcy! You go girl! You've made it pass the really rough stuff now you are on the downside of the hill! I know you are off men at the moment but don't rule out the entire sex just because of one bad apple. There is a guy out there that will ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 August 2007: Why on earth you want to live this way is beyond me. I'd kick him out and move on I really don't understand how this could possibly be better. Your sone must feel the tension as well. Are you sure about this?... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 30 May 2007: Why are you not giving him a divorce? You should. You will get full custody if you can prove his excessive drinking. But he definitely should be able to see his son and so should the grandmother. You have to force yourself not to be vindictive and ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 26 April 2007: Well Babe you gave it your best shot, but it's beating a dead horse now. It's over.You already know that ime is your friend and each day will be a bit easier. Stay busy.... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 March 2007: I think you are starting to think very clearly. And I couldn't agree more about his being a loser who will ultimately regret his decisions but be that as it may, YOU need to get on with your life. You are behaving admirably. Distance yourself as ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 6 March 2007: I'm going to have to really think on this for a bit. I'll get back to you.... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 28 February 2007: It's so great to hear that he's feeling somewhat excluded from your life, you must be doing something right! Also I'm glad to hear that you can see humor in some of his shenanigans, he certainly is a piece of work. Hang in there babe, I think you ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 22 February 2007: I don't think he seems very happy and I don't mean just when he's around you I mean he seems rather depressed period. You'd think he'd be acting pretty perky if he was madly in love. Maybe he and the tramp don't have the greatest relationship after ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 22 February 2007: I glanced over this entire thread and I can tell you are on the mend. You've come a long way. You might have some bad days occassionally but I think you are doing better and better. Hugs.... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 16 February 2007: See! As time is slowly going by you've started to heal and the HEEL is showing his true colors. You now see him for the creep he is I know it is just a matter of time before you wouldn't take him back for a million dollars. Keep plogging, it will ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 16 February 2007: See! As time is slowly going by you've started to heal and the HEEL is showing his true colors. You now see him for the creep he is I know it is just a matter of time before you wouldn't take him back for a million dollars. Keep plogging, it will ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 9 February 2007: I think you are getting better and better at handling this difficult situation. Practice makes perfect. Stay cool tomorrow and good luck, let us know how things turn out.... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 2 February 2007: Well when you are face to face and he tells you something and you KNOW he's not telling you the truth, maybe you could say "really?" in a questioning sort of way so he has to repeat his lie (which will make him very uncomfortable). After he says it ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 1 February 2007: If it's any consolation to you, that woman will eventually bring him misery and vast unhappiness. She is without any morals or class and her true colors will sooner or later surface and he will most likely feel great regret. By that time you will ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 31 January 2007: You are doing a great job of working through this. I know how difficult it is but I think you are slowly making progress. Time is your best friend. Hang in there, Babe. Keep us posted.... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 4 January 2007: When he calls, be business like, cool, not overly friendly. Maybe you could say that you are expecting an important call any minute so the phone conversation shouldn't be too long. Or that you were just heading out to meet up with some friends...you ... (read in full...)
My husband is with another woman but I want him back! What can I do to leave him alone and calm down? Help!
Q. Hi there, I wonder if anyone out there can give me some helpful advice. I have been married for 14 years and we have one son aged 10. My husband has always been a bit moody but has a City job and always worked very long hours. Since November...
A. 3 January 2007: I'm so sorry this has happened to you. Your husband should of separated BEFORE he started seeing this homewrecker, what a cad. What you need now is a good therapist (make the husband fork over for it)and get rid of some of the bad feelings. He/she ... (read in full...)
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