Is "spoke and wheel" a sex position, and if so, can you enlighten me?
Q. I have recently heard the term "Spoke and Wheel". It is clearly a reference to a sex position but one I have never heard of previously. Can you enlighten me?...
A. 16 June 2008: No offense taken, Sneaks. I'm just busy adding all this to our manual. If Irish wants it added, then dammit, I'm adding it!... (read in full...)
Help! I Just Dont Trust Him!
Q. I found out after marrying my husband that he had lied to me about why his first marrage ended,he told me his ex wife had cheated,i found out it was him.He knew before we actually met that i cannot stand people who cheat.Since i have found out i ...
A. 16 June 2008: Talk about a double whammy! There is fundamentally something wrong character-wise with cheaters and liars. A major flaw that can ruin a relationship. And the sad thing is people who lie about major things and who cheat are likely to do it over and ... (read in full...)
I need your help as to how to stop liking him because I would never do anything to hurt my friend
Q. Hiya any answers you give me is appreciated Well i like this lad who is a friend and has a girlfriend who is my friend aswel because we hang in a group. I really like him and i don't know what to do when they are together and im there. But their...
A. 16 June 2008: Hang in there and let nature take it's course. It sounds like the break up is imminent. You may still lose the girlfriend because her behavior indicates that she is aware of his attraction to you. But in time she may realize that her relationship ... (read in full...)
Would you have a problem moving in with a partner if they had lived there with a previous partner?
Q. I would like to know if anyone would have a problem with moving in with there partner, if there partner had lived there before with a previous partner....
A. 16 June 2008: My husband was married before we got married and he got to keep the house in the divorce settlement. First thing I did when I moved in was to paint the kitchen, bedrooms, bathrooms totally different colors. Changed the whole house and made it fresh ... (read in full...)
Hairy arms making me self-conscious! What do I do?
Q. I have really hairy arms. A boy in my Spanish class even commented on it. I have light blonde hair so my arms hairs arent dark or anything, thers just a lot of them. this makes me really self conscious and i find myself hiding my arms under the ...
A. 16 June 2008: Although I definitely don't recommend this but just this past weekend I lit the gas grill and singed the hair off of both my arms. Didn't get burned but man oh man what a stink! You might check out a beauty parlor, they might have some kind of ... (read in full...)
I think my teacher likes me
Q. ok, i know how it sounds, but im in love with my teacher. it is not a crush, and people piss me off when they think they know better how im feeling then i do, just beacuse im 6 short months away from legaly being an adult. My friends see how he is ...
A. 16 June 2008: Isn't it summer vacation for you? Hopefully you'll feel differently by next fall.... (read in full...)
Is "spoke and wheel" a sex position, and if so, can you enlighten me?
Q. I have recently heard the term "Spoke and Wheel". It is clearly a reference to a sex position but one I have never heard of previously. Can you enlighten me?...
A. 12 June 2008: So then where does the butt plug go, Sneaks?... (read in full...)
I am married and started an affair with a married man... I was booking a room for us and he said he had to think about it!! Is he not up for it!?
Q. I have been married for ten years, not always happily although things are ok at the moment. I have recently started an affair a married man. We have only met twice and all we have done is kiss. I feel like I have really fell for this guy after just ...
A. 12 June 2008: I can only hope he's not.... (read in full...)
How should I handle this situation?
Q. We have demonstrated our interest in each other. A jealous girl came along and distracted him briefly. I played it cool and stayed out of the picture. Seems he's back to being interested in me again, so I'm showing my interest in him. I wonder - ...
A. 12 June 2008: Sex? You have shown an INTEREST in each other and you are talking sex? What are you rabbits?... (read in full...)
My heart says to me I should try one more time with my wife, though I know I will miss my girlfriend terribly! An extremely difficult choice!
Q. I am married. I have been for 8 years. I lived with my wife for 6 years before that. We were very much in love and we still do love each other, but in 2006 I had an affair with a girl. It didn't last long and then I went on a long trip for two mont...
A. 12 June 2008: Listen to your heart and get off the fence. Make your choice.... (read in full...)
I love that little girl, but I absolutely hate the mother... help please!!
Q. i am engaged to a wonderful man who i cant wait to spend the rest of my life with. There is one problem and it has been here since the beginning of this relationship. His ex girlfriend and him have a daughter together, and i love that little girl, ...
A. 11 June 2008: He definitely needs to get court ordered visitation rights. Why hasn't he? It is up to him, not you, to set his ex right and point out the limits in their dealings together. If you have told him how you feel about this and he has done nothing to ... (read in full...)
I am not talking to my ex because he started going out with my cousin. Am I overreacting?
Q. My ex-boyfriend is going out with my cousin and when i found out i got really upset and started crying. All my girl mates and close friends think that he is totally out of order and that its just wrong but other people said that it was me who broke ...
A. 11 June 2008: Yes.... (read in full...)
Does this guy like me more than a mate??
Q. heya peeps does this guy like me more than a pal? theres this guy i know and hes really shy but he speaks to me loads when i see him.His dad kept teasing him coz we spent an hour on the phone and he doesnt apparently spend that long on the phon...
A. 10 June 2008: Definite signs. Good luck.... (read in full...)
I want to lose my virginity. I'm ready...
Q. I am a 16 year old teen who lives in London, I am actually from India and I am not used to talk to girls that much I am finding hard to talk to a girl, but I really want to have sex with a girl, I watch too much porn and ready for everything. I ...
A. 10 June 2008: Looks like you need to work on your conversational skills. Try googling it and see if there are some sites that will help you improve your ability. Why don't you join some clubs at school? Do some volunteer work this summer. Those are great places ... (read in full...)
Can you get back together with someone after you have broken up?
Q. My boyfriend said he wanted a break which he told me a week ago and now over that short period he has broken up with me. It is really hard aas he was my first boyfriend. Can u still get back together after someone breaks up with u. ...
A. 9 June 2008: Of course you can get back togehter, if that's what BOTH parties want. However sometimes people will waste their time pining for a lost love who is also a lost cause. You don't want to waste precious time. You will need to stay busy for awhile, go ... (read in full...)
Is It The Teachers fault that Students are attracted to them or falling in love with them??
Q. Is It The Teachers fault that Students are attracted to them or falling in love with them?? As many people may have read or heard about students falling in love with their teachers then coming on websites like this to see what to do about it... ...
A. 9 June 2008: Schoolgirl crushes have existed since education began. Most teachers are obvious or choose to ignore them. The broken heart mends fast and the whole crush ends up being one of those "whatever was I thinking?" kind of memories.... (read in full...)
Flirty emails from my husband to my best friend have me asking, should I just carry on as normal?
Q. I have been with my husband for 16 years and we have been married for 6 years, we have 2 children. Last week I was looking on his e-mail and found e-mails from him to my best friend. These went on for an afternoon and were very flirty. I have spo...
A. 9 June 2008: Let things settle down but keep your eyes on both of them. I think your best friend should know that not everybody flirts. Both of them were out of line doing this. What starts out as harmless flirtation can often get out of hand. We see that here ... (read in full...)
Guys say that I'm not good in bed!! What should I do?!?
Q. hi, i have fell in love with so many guys. but it does not last because they leave me at the end saying that am not good in bed. what do i do?...
A. 9 June 2008: Quit being an easy lay. They are just saying that to ditch you. Start behaving yourself with self-respect and dignity, THAT'S what you should do.... (read in full...)
I'm not sure if he stringing me along, what do you think?
Q. Right i like this guy, weve kissed, had sex, blah, blah... well i really like him, and hes told me he likes me, he asked me if im looking for a relationship and i said i dont know, and he said that he likes me but at the moment hes just looking for ...
A. 9 June 2008: He's stringing you along for sex. Put a nickel between those knees of yours.... (read in full...)
Can you please explain this quote!
Q. Hello:] just wondering,will someone please explain what this quote means.. Friendship is the finest balm for the pangs of despised love. thanks.:)...
A. 9 June 2008: Good friends can "salve" you from the pain of a broken heart. Sorry.... (read in full...)
He's not as affectionate... does he still love me?
Q. Alright, I am back everyone! :) I have a question. What are the signs that your boyfriend is not as interested or in love with you anymore? In the beginning my boyfriend was sooo happy with me, always holding me close, telling me he loved me, ...
A. 9 June 2008: Heidi, you are wearing me out with all your insecurities, I certainly understand how your boyfriend must feel. You need to relax or he'll definitely walk.... (read in full...)
My parents will never accept my boyfriend, its a cultural thing, how can I solve this?
Q. i dont know where to begin. i know im tired and exhausted and on the verge of a nervous breakdown. my parents are from india. very traditional. my boyfriend is american which to them is bad and he has a child from a previous marrige which is the ...
A. 9 June 2008: If your parents find Americans so repulsive why did they move here? Tell them to get real, this is 2008 America and you can chose whomever you want to marry. If they can't accept that then they should move back to the third world.... (read in full...)
I am in a relationship with a man who hates arguing and is one the verge of finishing with me because of my angry moods...
Q. Please, please someone help me on what to do before I destroy my relationship. I'll start by saying I've always been an angry person and in previous relationships we used to get into physical fights with each other but then make up afterwards. H...
A. 9 June 2008: Sticky keys...I blame Bill Gates.... (read in full...)
I am in a relationship with a man who hates arguing and is one the verge of finishing with me because of my angry moods...
Q. Please, please someone help me on what to do before I destroy my relationship. I'll start by saying I've always been an angry person and in previous relationships we used to get into physical fights with each other but then make up afterwards. H...
A. 9 June 2008: I think the best exercise you could do is to walk over to your telephone, call your doctor, and ask for the name of a good therapist. Then make an appointment with her/him. If you have tried to control yourself and have failed then you will need ... (read in full...)
I am in a relationship with a man who hates arguing and is one the verge of finishing with me because of my angry moods...
Q. Please, please someone help me on what to do before I destroy my relationship. I'll start by saying I've always been an angry person and in previous relationships we used to get into physical fights with each other but then make up afterwards. H...
A. 9 June 2008: I think the best exercise you could do is to walk over to your telephone, call your doctor, and ask for the name of a good therapist. Then make an appointment with her/him. If you have tried to control yourself and have failed then you will need ... (read in full...)
We wake at the same time although we live apart. Is it a coincidence?
Q. for the past two weeks myself and lover have been waking at the same time everyday, we have a child together but don't live together as he is now married, could the waking at the same time be coincidence or a sign that we should be together, we have ...
A. 9 June 2008: If your "lover" married someone else after knowing you, he obviously doesn't have the slightest interest in being exclusively with you. I guess he just likes the sex you give him and that's all. Sorry dear but you sound very pathetic. What ... (read in full...)
Is there any treatment for a person who is gay?
Q. hi is there any treatment for a person who is gay??????...
A. 6 June 2008: More information will net you better responses. What exactly are you asking? Treatment to change homosexual tendencies to heterosexual tendencies?... (read in full...)
I have troubles coming to terms with that my boyfriend will always love his child more than me. I don't understand the concept of he loves his child in a very different way - to all parents out there - how different does it feel?
Q. I'm really struggling with something at the moment which i am reluctant to admit to anyone. My boyfriend has a child and i am struggling to come to terms with "The child must come first". Obviously i understand that a man/woman should love their ...
A. 6 June 2008: Country woman is totally correct, if you can't embrace this child you need to move on and find someone who has no children. Your resentment towards his unconditional love for his child is unfounded and will only be a constant source of pain for you. ... (read in full...)
What should I do since my mom won't listen too me?
Q. Recently my mom has had the city inspecter tell us our grass what too high-wich caused stress on my mom then our car has gotten all messed up and shes stressed out about that.And she has been snarling at me so much and using it as a exuse too be ...
A. 6 June 2008: Working 8 to 8 is a pretty damn good excuse if you ask me. Keep doing your chores like a good son and things will improve I'm sure.... (read in full...)
What should I do since my mom won't listen too me?
Q. Recently my mom has had the city inspecter tell us our grass what too high-wich caused stress on my mom then our car has gotten all messed up and shes stressed out about that.And she has been snarling at me so much and using it as a exuse too be ...
A. 5 June 2008: How about cutting the grass for your mom? You could work up an appetite and do your mom a favor at the same time. She sounds like she is under some pressure at the moment so ease up on her, it's tough being an adult. I don't tolerate whiny kids very ... (read in full...)
Mum pays more attention to sisters boyfriend than she does to me!
Q. I'm so angry and hurt!! My sister is sick, she got some stomach virus from her bf. We share our bedroom. The thing is, she was very sick, and so was her bf. They've been dating for a month tops. And he's much older, she's 21 and he's like 31 or ...
A. 5 June 2008: Well maybe I should enrole my old man in the Wiz "How Not To Be A Wimp When You Have A Cold" school for a couple of semesters. sniffle,sniffle, waa, waa.... (read in full...)
Why are woman attracted to players?
Q. Why is it guys that cheat and womanise, become even more attractive to women, ain't it kind of encourage other guys to cheat? are women reaping what they sow?...
A. 5 June 2008: I don't find cheaters or womanizers attractive in the slightest. I guess your theory has holes.... (read in full...)
Mum pays more attention to sisters boyfriend than she does to me!
Q. I'm so angry and hurt!! My sister is sick, she got some stomach virus from her bf. We share our bedroom. The thing is, she was very sick, and so was her bf. They've been dating for a month tops. And he's much older, she's 21 and he's like 31 or ...
A. 5 June 2008: Just to put a little perspective on this, I can guarantee you that a male, whether he's two or sixty-two, can be such a baby when he's sick. The same guy who laughs while he's getting stitches sewn into an arm or leg, will fold like a card table and ... (read in full...)
He says I should turn a blind eye to his cheating, is he right?
Q. i have been with my bf for 3 years, i knew he has been cheating. we have discussed why do men cheat? and he answered that man can have sex with other women but not having any feeling for them, so i should not get upset. as long as he is nice to me, ...
A. 5 June 2008: Walk away away from this sack of crap and be very thankful you only wasted 3 years on him. Just think if you had married him!... (read in full...)
Should I stick with my boyfriend of 2 years?
Q. my boyfriend of two years has been withdrawn from the university. i'm presently serving at an oil company. my parents are trying to reject him for his problem. we want to get married but i'm scared he can't take care of me or i'll become a liability ...
A. 5 June 2008: Whatever you do, don't marry him until he has solidified his future plans. You don't mention love anywhere in your post so maybe if you aren't that crazy about him you should move onto greener pastures.... (read in full...)
Is he using me to get back at his Ex? I don't know what to do, please help!!
Q. Hi, about two weeks ago I started going out with a guy my age (we're 17). Things went pretty quickly from day 1, but we still haven't had sex due to us not ever really being alone together. This doesn't bother me. Anyway. He's not exactly popu...
A. 5 June 2008: Just try to relax and enjoy yourself, don't sweat something that is out of your control, and just take it slowly. Try to remember she's his EX for a reason and he's with you now.... (read in full...)
I want a baby but I have no boyfriend and am only 12.
Q. i want a baby but im only 12 years of age. im a single,im good with babys i baby sit my cosin 2. i feel like im ready, but am i. how can have a baby without a boyfreind....
A. 5 June 2008: You can't even click on the right age bracket so how the heck do you think you could take care of a baby?!... (read in full...)
Should I let my wife sleep with other men because I sleep with other women?
Q. Actually i like sex and i am having sex with many girls. one day my wife has seen me during sex with another girl. that time she did not say anything but right now she has also staret to have sex with her male guys. she do the sex in front of me and ...
A. 5 June 2008: I love your Irish brogue there Buddy. And my answer is yes. Also Waterloo don't forsake us for the army!... (read in full...)
Does it mean he doesn't love me if he lied about the porn?
Q. I am torn because my bf of about 8 months looks at porn. I found videos he dowloads, web cams vids and short movies. I am very hurt and feel betrayed. I asked him in the beginning if he looked at porn and he said no. Then i found it on the comp. I ...
A. 5 June 2008: Let's all blame Bill Gates, shall we?... (read in full...)
Problems in my polyamorous relationship with one partner. I need advice.
Q. Hi can anyone help me? Im in a polyamory relationship, but my one partner is driving me to dispair. He thinks that because i were with him 1st he should take priority over my other lover. His jelousy is pushing us apart not bringing us clos...
A. 5 June 2008: I'd still like to be that fly on the wall.... (read in full...)
Should I trust the Rhythm method?
Q. I have recently decided to come off the pill after years of being on it because I am trying to adapt a more healthy lifestyle and dont like the idea of all these stuff interfering with my body's natural system. When my husband and I have sex he alwa...
A. 5 June 2008: Billions and billions of Catholics can't be wrong.... (read in full...)
How do I eat out my girlfriend?
Q. I've been dating my gf for over a year now. I want to eat her out but I don't know how to do it. lol can anyone help me?...
A. 5 June 2008: Just google fine restauants in your city. I'm sure you'll be able to find a great place to take your girlfriend to eat out. That is what you meant...right?... (read in full...)
Problems in my polyamorous relationship with one partner. I need advice.
Q. Hi can anyone help me? Im in a polyamory relationship, but my one partner is driving me to dispair. He thinks that because i were with him 1st he should take priority over my other lover. His jelousy is pushing us apart not bringing us clos...
A. 3 June 2008: I wish I could be a fly on the wall when you tell the parents, aunts, uncles, cousins, and whoever else has to know. Boy howdy that will be interesting.... (read in full...)
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