I want to marry my 50-year-old boyfriend, but Mum thinks I should find a boy my own age!
Q. I'M 18 and love my 50-year-old boyfriend very much. We met five years ago at a family barbecue. He loves me and has asked me to marry him, so we've set a date this time next year. The problem is I don't always understand him and this has...
A. 15 June 2010: I just love it when the old chestnuts get dug up.... (read in full...)
I want to marry my 50-year-old boyfriend, but Mum thinks I should find a boy my own age!
Q. I'M 18 and love my 50-year-old boyfriend very much. We met five years ago at a family barbecue. He loves me and has asked me to marry him, so we've set a date this time next year. The problem is I don't always understand him and this has...
A. 6 April 2010: yeah the old guy's probably pushing up daisies by now... (read in full...)
Husband just packed up and left, anyone else had the same and can offer me advice?
Q. My husband says he no longer has feeling toward me. Does he means he no longer love me? Then why did he marry me in the first place? He says he is afraid to see me now. He does not know when and how to mend the crack in our relationship. Are all ...
A. 20 May 2008: He's the one who has let go of your relationship, and he is the one that has caused you all this pain. It's time you get busy about you and your son's future. Move back home and be with your friends and family, you will need their strength to move ... (read in full...)
Should I leave my abusive husband?
Q. i have been married to my husband for 4 years and we have a two year old son. I am fed up of my married life as my husband can be verbally abusive towards me and slags off my family, he is also screams, shouts at our son and his idea of disapline in ...
A. 16 May 2008: For your son's sake you need to leave. Take him and go to the family member with whom you are closest. Your husband sounds dangerous, verbal abuse often escalates to physical. You need to leave to protect yourself and your baby.... (read in full...)
I want to marry my 50-year-old boyfriend, but Mum thinks I should find a boy my own age!
Q. I'M 18 and love my 50-year-old boyfriend very much. We met five years ago at a family barbecue. He loves me and has asked me to marry him, so we've set a date this time next year. The problem is I don't always understand him and this has...
A. 15 May 2008: I don't know correct me if I'm wrong but I have a feeling she has resolved this dilemma by now...it's almost 3 years old.... (read in full...)
How do I behave around her boyfriend? I've fallen for her, and I know I can't do anything about it...
Q. Hi, I hope you can help. I've fallen for somebody who has a boyfriend. Now, I know that I can't do anything about it and as far as I know they are perfectly happy. I don't want to come between her and her boyfriend, but if I'm honest I do want to be ...
A. 15 May 2008: Just make sure you include the boyfriend in the conversations, ask him about himself, get to know him better. Put yourself in his shoes and don't do or say anything that would be upsetting if you were he. Be a class act, it's his girlfriend not ... (read in full...)
Inquiry about female sexuality...
Q. what causes a female to have an orgasm? what hole in the vagina does the pre-come comes from? ...
A. 15 May 2008: Please tell me that you click on the wrong age bracket......... (read in full...)
Husband just packed up and left, anyone else had the same and can offer me advice?
Q. My husband says he no longer has feeling toward me. Does he means he no longer love me? Then why did he marry me in the first place? He says he is afraid to see me now. He does not know when and how to mend the crack in our relationship. Are all ...
A. 15 May 2008: It does sound like he's going through that 7 year itch that affects some marriages. He may or may not have another woman who has caught his eye. I think what you need to do is to try to stay calm, give him some room and time to think about things. ... (read in full...)
I want to give my wife a good reason to shave her pubic hair
Q. Hi Readers I have always wanted my wife to shave her pussy, she agrees whilst we are having sex but never gets round to doing it. so i can give her a good reason to do it, 'is there any good reasons or if anyone as any ideas...
A. 15 May 2008: Why don't you offer to do it for her?... (read in full...)
My wife cheated. Now she writes stories and poems about other men.
Q. My wife cheated on me while we were dating. I forgaveand forgot and we got married two years later. After we were married about 3 years she did it again with someone else (about a year ago). She came forward and appologised and asked for one last ...
A. 14 May 2008: Go ahead and ask her about her "works of art". See how she explains them. But if her explanation doesn't jell with you I think you have every right to demand she stops writing about her past lovers and their escapades together. This last chance ... (read in full...)
Spots, bumps, dark colouring, different sized labia - can someone give me some advice?
Q. Im worried because I know its normal that one of the inner labia is bigger than the other one (i only noticed it bigger about 6 monts ago) But anyway my problem is that they look strange like made from bumps. The very tip of the minoria is a very ...
A. 14 May 2008: Boy, that's a lot of time with the mirror! You sound perfectly normal to me, and you are concerned over nothing. Visit you doctor and get some peace of mind. This really is no biggie, honey.... (read in full...)
Female Orgasm question!
Q. Could someone please name and describe the different types of female orgasims?...
A. 14 May 2008: Well let's see...there's the Wowie Zowie, the ohhhh baby, the mmmmmmmmmm, and the I think I'll paint the ceiling beige...... (read in full...)
I am so horribly confused - I cannot bear to see him hurting so badly.
Q. Ralph and I were married in 2001 - then divorced in 2004 because he moved in with his ex-wife and daughter. Early 2005, he moved back in with me. We lived together as man and wife in all ways except the bedroom. We slept in different rooms and ...
A. 14 May 2008: I think as long as you are a shoulder to cry on he'll just keep the tears flowing. Best to stop all contact with him and let him sort himself out. The cruel to be kind sort of deal.... (read in full...)
My wife cheated. Now she writes stories and poems about other men.
Q. My wife cheated on me while we were dating. I forgaveand forgot and we got married two years later. After we were married about 3 years she did it again with someone else (about a year ago). She came forward and appologised and asked for one last ...
A. 14 May 2008: Bull crap, you've done plenty to keep this marriage going, time for her to step up to the plate if she wants it to survive. Let her do the understanding this time and cut out the stupid story writing. She can find her "muse" elsewhere OR ELSE.... (read in full...)
My wife cheated. Now she writes stories and poems about other men.
Q. My wife cheated on me while we were dating. I forgaveand forgot and we got married two years later. After we were married about 3 years she did it again with someone else (about a year ago). She came forward and appologised and asked for one last ...
A. 14 May 2008: Baloney, if what she is doing is causing you pain and discomfort, she should stop it. Pure and simple. I think you have done more than your share of understanding by just allowing her to have another chance. Tell her to knock it off.... (read in full...)
My wife cheated. Now she writes stories and poems about other men.
Q. My wife cheated on me while we were dating. I forgaveand forgot and we got married two years later. After we were married about 3 years she did it again with someone else (about a year ago). She came forward and appologised and asked for one last ...
A. 14 May 2008: Buddy you are the one getting something thrown in YOUR face. Tell her to knock this crap off or you'll show her the door. If she doesn't then do it.... (read in full...)
Is my boyfriend putting off proposing because he thinks I'm too young?
Q. I need some advice from people who have experience in this area and know what they're talking about. I am almost 23 and my boyfriend is 28. We have been together for quite a while now and i guess i am hoping for an engagement ring in the next coup...
A. 13 May 2008: Why can't you ask your boyfriend these questions? He knows the answers and we'd only be guessing.... (read in full...)
I am SO scared to have sex, I was raised to believe it is bad!!! My boyfriend has been waiting for me for years to express our love in that way, help!
Q. I am 24 years old and I am a virgin. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. I love him with all of my heart and want to marry him but I am so scared to have sex. I was raised in the church and to think that sex is bad. I am scared that I ...
A. 13 May 2008: Jeese Louise, you are worrying about nothing here. You need to chill, if sex hurt so bad nobody would do it and this site would be history. Relax, have a glass or two of wine and go for it. ... (read in full...)
Do you consider race a factor when choosing a partner?
Q. I'm a African-American male that likes all types of women. The women I used to be with are Latinos. I do not really care about ethnicity because if you look for someone that understands your needs and your strives, that someone may not be your color ...
A. 13 May 2008: Say EVERYTHING should be considered when looking for a partner, even bank accounts.... (read in full...)
Have any aunts/uncles here ever met up and got on ok?
Q. I was just wondering (seeing how everyone on here seems to know the rights and wrongs of everything and can give perfect answers to everyone) if anyone had met each other as agony aunts/uncles on here and were now in a successful relationship? ...
A. 13 May 2008: While I haven't actually met any of the aunts in the flesh, I do feel that we have formed successful relationships with regards to this site. I know which questions certain aunts are really good at answering and which ones are going to set some of ... (read in full...)
I know it is unfair for me but my heart has been ruling my head. What should I do?
Q. Hi everyone, I need your help. I believe you see clearer than me. It is a really long story. I have been here before. I once said I was and still am in love with this guy who twice my age and who is a divorced man with kids and an acoholic as well. ...
A. 13 May 2008: Let it go, do not contact him. This relationship has reached a dead end. Get busy with your young life.... (read in full...)
I'm feeling unbelievable lust for this man other than my husband. What are your thoughts on open marriage?
Q. Help! I am married to a wonderful man for 7 years now. We have 3 wonderful kids. I was out with my girlfriend and met this Brad Pitt look-alike from Brazil. He is so amazing in so many different ways. In the heat of the moment i shared with him a ...
A. 12 May 2008: An open marriage is an oxymoron. No such animal. ... (read in full...)
I am so horribly confused - I cannot bear to see him hurting so badly.
Q. Ralph and I were married in 2001 - then divorced in 2004 because he moved in with his ex-wife and daughter. Early 2005, he moved back in with me. We lived together as man and wife in all ways except the bedroom. We slept in different rooms and ...
A. 12 May 2008: So you'll take Ralph back because you guys share some bills together? I'd tell Ralph that before you consider getting back together he needs to clean up your finances. Once he does that then you'll have a better perspective on everything and ... (read in full...)
I don't love her as much, what should I do?
Q. What should i do if i don't love my girlfriend as much as i used to? Should i break up with her or just stay with her?...
A. 12 May 2008: Well if you can wait until her exams are over that would be a thoughtful thing to do. I wouldn't keep telling her lies about how much you love her however. Maybe even cut down on the together time as well. Just as soon as exams are over you need to ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend makes me do things I don't want to do
Q. my bf always wana let me do stuff i dont wanna do like sex and smoke i told him i dont wanna do these things but then we together again and he says he wont do it again but he just does and i realy love him what should i do cause we realy love each ...
A. 12 May 2008: Sound advice all around. Dump him.... (read in full...)
I don't love her as much, what should I do?
Q. What should i do if i don't love my girlfriend as much as i used to? Should i break up with her or just stay with her?...
A. 12 May 2008: At your age I shouldn't think you'd even want to be tied down. Be kind but firm and call it off. Enjoy your freedom.... (read in full...)
Does he love her or me?
Q. I need to know something, it's kind of 2 questions. Well, first is, I need to know if my ex really does love his girlfriend. He never really acts like he does, and he beats her. He's always cheating on her. And the other is, I need to know if ...
A. 12 May 2008: If you aren't interested in getting the louse back, what difference does make whether he loves somebody? Forget about it, consider yourself to be lucky you got away.... (read in full...)
My husband had an affair which resulted in the other woman falling pregnant. The child is almost due, what is the best way to handle this?
Q. This is complex - and difficult to write about succinctly...I'll give it a go! My husband had a year long affair. He tells me he tried to "end it" many times prior to me finding out - but felt guilty and like he owed the OW something. To make mat...
A. 12 May 2008: I'd get some legal advice on this so you can have a handle on the future. The child deserves to know his/her father but it can be on YOUR terms. RCN is absolutely right about the paternity test as well. Once you have determined that then support and ... (read in full...)
I am madly in love with a married colleague and I want him for me at any cost!
Q. I am married. It was love marriage. Recently i started working in an insurance company and there i met a guy named Rajan. He very warm, friendly and funny guy and i attracted towards him and fell in love with him. I'm madly in love with him ...
A. 9 May 2008: What do you want from us?... (read in full...)
He found out about my hairy armpits and now he's flirting with my friend
Q. I really like this guy but he found out i had hairy armpits and is really freaked out now he is flirting with my friend wat should i do...
A. 9 May 2008: So shave them already.... (read in full...)
Unusual sperm fetish? I even swallow sperm from used condoms..
Q. Hi, I have an unusual fetish. My thing is that I really enjoy having a guy ejaculate in my mouth. My friends think I am mad but I love the taste of sperm and have always allowed a partner to do this for me. I have not had a boyfriend for ...
A. 9 May 2008: Simply nonsense.... (read in full...)
My neighbor is allowed to kill my dog because my dog "murdered"? What the hell?
Q. hi everyone im gettin really agravated with my neighbor he lives 2 houses down from me and my dog lucy is a lab and a retriever mix n is 12 years old and is still very playfull but now shes to be confined in2 the house because of my dumb ass ...
A. 9 May 2008: Keep your dog in your own yard, whether by fence or leash. I know that I wouldn't want to mess with Animal Control.... (read in full...)
Should I leave my wife because our sex life is virtually non existent?
Q. Hi i'm thinking of leaving my wife, i like her in many ways but our sex life is virtually non exsistance. I've met a wonderful woman aged 18 who is beautiful and works as a model. The sex is absolutely fantastic. Do think there is a chance for us, ...
A. 9 May 2008: I hope you have lots and lots of money, you'll need it for the hefty bill your wife will be handing you and of course it will be the only way you'll be able to possibly hang onto the youngster. If you don't have lots of money then I think you'll end ... (read in full...)
My daughter is 19, unmarried and pregnant. Any pointers?
Q. My daughter is 19 and lives with her bf. I was against that decision, but she's grown. Now, she tells me that she is pregnant, I don't know how to handle the situation without alienating her. I don't approve because she is not married. It's not what ...
A. 9 May 2008: As a mother of three grown children, two of which are daughters, I can relate to your situation. My second daughter got married against her father's and my wishes, at 20 we thought she was too young. Her husband would drive us nuts and we were ... (read in full...)
Come on aunts and uncles stop dodging your resposibilities....
Q. I often hear the phrase 'it's not for me to judge'. If no one offers a judgement then how is right and wrong determined in society? Someone batters an old woman, 'it's not for me to judge'....Someone molests a child, 'it's not for me to judge'. Isn...
A. 9 May 2008: There is a heap of difference bewtween judging a person and judging someone's actions.
A right thing done for the wrong reason is wrong.
A wrong thing done for the right reason is wrong.
A wrong thing done for the wrong reason is wrong.
A ri... (read in full...)
I have cheated on him several times but we're still together. Do I really love him?
Q. Hi Everyone We have been dating for 2 yrs now, but sometimes i feel like i dont love him, and like he does not love me. I have cheated on him several times but we're still together, and he is the first longest relationship i have ever had. The o...
A. 9 May 2008: Doesn't sound like it to me.... (read in full...)
I told her I won't wait. Should I really walk away?
Q. Hi guys. Just a quick one after your views. Had a deep passionate emotional sexual affair with a women who was in a relationship with a man she feels no spark, attraction for, lasted a year and a half. She does however love him and he is like her ...
A. 8 May 2008: You will just be wasting your time and effort keeping this going. Cut your losses, when push comes to shove you'll be the one in the dust.... (read in full...)
My husband had an affair but seems to show little remorse!
Q. My husband had an affair but seems to show little remorse. He says according to Darwins theory he is just an alpha male and i should be glad to be with him, and he will continue to sleep with as many women as he can. I do love him but i find his ...
A. 8 May 2008: Well if you just find his attitude to be "strange" then fine accept his ridiculous behavior. According to MY theory he's a first class jerk and you could do a lot better. Watch out for what else he may bring home from his trysts besides soiled ... (read in full...)
How should I react to my 'best friend's' behavior and treatment of me?
Q. My best friend showed me her true colors, after she has started working, she has changed. It was her birthday, and I arranged for her surprise party. I had to coax her by saying that it’s her birthday and she must buy me lunch. She was so irritated ...
A. 7 May 2008: I simply never hang around anybody that makes me feel bad, period.... (read in full...)
Dear Cupid, this is the kinda stuff we want to hear.....
Q. Just a little light comic relief, some entertainment if you like - sort of based on some of the problems here on Dear Cupid. Feel free to lighten your load : ) I'll start by submitting 8 things that I think guys would 'LOVE' to hear from their ...
A. 7 May 2008: What's a menstrual cycle again?... (read in full...)
Can you catch diseases from lesbian love?
Q. hey i am bisexual and i have never had sex with a female..if i do then i was wondering if it transmits any sexual diseases..i am soory if my question is lame but i have no idea about the lesbian world...
A. 7 May 2008: Of course you can get and transmit diseases with lesbian sex, in fact lesbian sex can be even more dangerous because no condoms are used. It's very important that you know your partner extremely well and that hopefully she is honest about her ... (read in full...)
Romantic music for a wedding - ideas please.
Q. Hi, This is probably an unusual one! But I am looking for help in regards to picking out music for an upcoming wedding ceremony! I dont want anything too lonely as it will be lonely enough. But ideas of more romantic tone. The main one I am having ...
A. 7 May 2008: A nice rousing John Phillip Sousa selection should get you marching down that isle!... (read in full...)
Do you think he will say yes for going to our big dance? Answer fast please!!!!!
Q. I asked a guy out today, to our 8th grade dance and did not get a reply yet. Do you think he will say yes? I am in madly in love with him. I AM IN LOVE WITH HIM...i can't believe it - wow, what a way to get that off my chest. Here are some signs th...
A. 7 May 2008: I was going to answer this post but I type really really slowly.... (read in full...)
I didn't know he was still married! How can I get clarity?
Q. Over 1 year ago, I met a really great man, we got along wonderfully. A few months into our relationship, when asked about the length of time he had been divorced, he told me it wasn't final yet. I thought that within 6 months, it would most likely ...
A. 6 May 2008: Pay him a surprise visit at his house. I think you are being played. His job is to muddy the waters, you won't get clarity from this guy.... (read in full...)
Dear Cupid, this is the kinda stuff we want to hear.....
Q. Just a little light comic relief, some entertainment if you like - sort of based on some of the problems here on Dear Cupid. Feel free to lighten your load : ) I'll start by submitting 8 things that I think guys would 'LOVE' to hear from their ...
A. 17 April 2008: Three women: one engaged, one married, and one a mistress, are chatting about their relationships and decide to amaze their men....that night all three will wear a leather bodice style, stiletto's and mask over their eyes...After a few days they ... (read in full...)
Dear Cupid, this is the kinda stuff we want to hear.....
Q. Just a little light comic relief, some entertainment if you like - sort of based on some of the problems here on Dear Cupid. Feel free to lighten your load : ) I'll start by submitting 8 things that I think guys would 'LOVE' to hear from their ...
A. 14 April 2008: Under the circumcisions, I think you are better off, Big Sis!... (read in full...)
Dear Cupid, this is the kinda stuff we want to hear.....
Q. Just a little light comic relief, some entertainment if you like - sort of based on some of the problems here on Dear Cupid. Feel free to lighten your load : ) I'll start by submitting 8 things that I think guys would 'LOVE' to hear from their ...
A. 14 April 2008: The guy should be in a penal institute.... (read in full...)
I want to marry my 50-year-old boyfriend, but Mum thinks I should find a boy my own age!
Q. I'M 18 and love my 50-year-old boyfriend very much. We met five years ago at a family barbecue. He loves me and has asked me to marry him, so we've set a date this time next year. The problem is I don't always understand him and this has...
A. 29 May 2007: Sorry but he's getting the better end of this deal by far. He's had 50 years of having fun, going out with friends, getting an education, and just plain living. You on the other hand are just starting out, you will end up resenting him for your lost ... (read in full...)
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