Dear Cupid, this is the kinda stuff we want to hear.....
Q. Just a little light comic relief, some entertainment if you like - sort of based on some of the problems here on Dear Cupid. Feel free to lighten your load : ) I'll start by submitting 8 things that I think guys would 'LOVE' to hear from their ...
A. 7 May 2008: What's a menstrual cycle again?... (read in full...)
Dear Cupid, this is the kinda stuff we want to hear.....
Q. Just a little light comic relief, some entertainment if you like - sort of based on some of the problems here on Dear Cupid. Feel free to lighten your load : ) I'll start by submitting 8 things that I think guys would 'LOVE' to hear from their ...
A. 17 April 2008: Three women: one engaged, one married, and one a mistress, are chatting about their relationships and decide to amaze their men....that night all three will wear a leather bodice style, stiletto's and mask over their eyes...After a few days they ... (read in full...)
Can my sister be pregnant?
Q. Hi i have a 15 year old sister and she had sex for the first time on march 4 2008 and today is april 15 2008 she has not gotten a period but she says her period was irregular but then regular so my question is can she be pregnant?????...
A. 15 April 2008: Okay once again, to repeat the mantra...go to the store and buy a pregnancy test, cheap easy, accurate...go to the store and buy a pregnancy test, cheap easy, accurate...go to the store and buy a pregnancy test, cheap easy, accurate...go to the ... (read in full...)
I enjoy a lot of pain as I'm a sadomasochist, but will that stop my orgasm?
Q. Im a sadomasochist, so enjoy alot of pain but will me being in pain stop my orgasm? or stop me cumming?...
A. 15 April 2008: It sure would me, Buddy.... (read in full...)
My boyfriend sent me a very strange text that makes me think he is cheating. Is he?
Q. My boyfriend of the past year sent me a text message yesterday while he was with me. It read "I'm at my moms, call you in a minute". I asked him if he sent me a message and he said no. When I opened it and asked him why he sent me this message and ...
A. 15 April 2008: "story" dang it... (read in full...)
My boyfriend sent me a very strange text that makes me think he is cheating. Is he?
Q. My boyfriend of the past year sent me a text message yesterday while he was with me. It read "I'm at my moms, call you in a minute". I asked him if he sent me a message and he said no. When I opened it and asked him why he sent me this message and ...
A. 15 April 2008: I don't think you are missing a thing, sweetheart. He's dug a hole and can't get out. That's his sory and he's sticking with it.... (read in full...)
Please help, my boyfriend dumped me! How could he be so cruel?
Q. im really lost right now. my bf an i jst split a week ago i cant believe its over. we wer deeply in love but had our fair share of arguments. we had an argument an he dumped me an said he had enough. he was also ment to meet me friday 4 a chat. he ...
A. 15 April 2008: Some people just don't know how to break off a relationship. He's one of them. Maybe he didn't mean to be so hurtful but there it is. Time to pick yourself up and dust yourself off. Good luck, give it time, you'll be just fine.... (read in full...)
I enjoy a lot of pain as I'm a sadomasochist, but will that stop my orgasm?
Q. Im a sadomasochist, so enjoy alot of pain but will me being in pain stop my orgasm? or stop me cumming?...
A. 15 April 2008: I sure would me, Buddy.... (read in full...)
My fiance wants to be in cross-gender relationships, is this healthy for us?
Q. my girl friend who I asked to marry wants to be in cross gender relationships. Is this healthy for us ?...
A. 15 April 2008: If you have to ask then the answer is no.... (read in full...)
My Dad is setting me up with his friends!-Is he winding me up?
Q. im soo confused and just dont understand why my dad would want me to do this. well on monday we was watching thig programme on tv. me, dad, my friend who stayed over at mine and my dads friend. me and rachel went upstairs ont he computer just ...
A. 15 April 2008: I say this is baloney.... (read in full...)
Can I hide having sex at 13 from my parents? Is it advisable?
Q. i want to have sex but my mom doesn't know that.i'm only 13 and want to have a baby.but also i don't have a boyfriend.how do i get a boyfriend and have sex at the same time without my mom finding out?...
A. 15 April 2008: ...sigh...... (read in full...)
Do men know they are treating you badly?
Q. Do men know they are treating you badly? I have a feeling they do. For example the bf wouldn't call me for days and then call and act like nothing was wrong and I would start to pull away so then he would suddenly start doing the right things aga...
A. 15 April 2008: training, Training, TRAINING! Men must be trained on how to treat a lady, rarely do they instinctively know how. If his mother dropped the ball, you'll have to pick up the slack. If he is untrainable throw him back and find another puppy.... (read in full...)
I am afraid I will not be able to make a woman happy. I don't just mean sex, I mean in all aspects of life.
Q. Heh can't believe I will ask this but anyway... I'm a 22 year old guy who has never had sex, now big thing I fear is that a women I do find that I like I wont know how to really make them happy and I don't mean just in bed. I don't really care abou...
A. 15 April 2008: As you get to know someone you realize what makes them happy, what makes them unhappy, what makes them laugh, what makes them cry, and what makes them mad. Mostly you learn these things by trial and error, but it's lots of fun. You will find your ... (read in full...)
My boyfriend sent me a very strange text that makes me think he is cheating. Is he?
Q. My boyfriend of the past year sent me a text message yesterday while he was with me. It read "I'm at my moms, call you in a minute". I asked him if he sent me a message and he said no. When I opened it and asked him why he sent me this message and ...
A. 15 April 2008: Wheeee Doggies, did he ever step in it! Keep your eyes and ears open, looks like he may be cheating and that he's not very clever at it. Good luck, honey.... (read in full...)
What is the correct way to give a hand job?
Q. How do you give a hand job? Are you supposed to go up and down fast or slow? How tight should your hand be around his penis? I am afraid if you hold it too tight you maght yank it and that would be very painful! ...
A. 15 April 2008: I agree, no sex tips to children.... (read in full...)
Should I marry my cheating boyfriend? It's not like he gets away with it because I catch him every time!
Q. should i marry my boyfriend of three years? even though he cheated on me numberous times and lied about it and i caught him everytime....
A. 14 April 2008: If you want to keep playing this game for the rest of your life then go ahead and marry him, but please don't bring children into this world. Children need good role models.... (read in full...)
Dear Cupid, this is the kinda stuff we want to hear.....
Q. Just a little light comic relief, some entertainment if you like - sort of based on some of the problems here on Dear Cupid. Feel free to lighten your load : ) I'll start by submitting 8 things that I think guys would 'LOVE' to hear from their ...
A. 14 April 2008: Under the circumcisions, I think you are better off, Big Sis!... (read in full...)
I am getting tired of waiting for him to see that I am there for him, to notice that I have let him absorb my identity and my everything! It's confusing, what can I do?
Q. I've been in this relationship for past three years and it been wonderful but at the same time it has given me so much of sorrow that i feel like killing myself at times. I love this guy. For me it was love at first sight and he openly admits th...
A. 14 April 2008: You have wasted enough time on this guy. This is going nowhere real fast. Tell him to get lost and try to straighten yourself out. You need a true relationship that is balanced not one sided. You say you can't imagine life without him but I can't ... (read in full...)
Dear Cupid, this is the kinda stuff we want to hear.....
Q. Just a little light comic relief, some entertainment if you like - sort of based on some of the problems here on Dear Cupid. Feel free to lighten your load : ) I'll start by submitting 8 things that I think guys would 'LOVE' to hear from their ...
A. 14 April 2008: The guy should be in a penal institute.... (read in full...)
All pregnancy tests came up negative, so what other factors could cause a delayed period?
Q. Help. I haven't gotten a period since Feb 17. Meaning Its gonna be 2mths since I've gotten one. I thought maybe I could be pregnant. But I've taken 5 at home pregnancy test ( different weeks) and a blood test a couple days ago and they were all ...
A. 14 April 2008: Do you exercise a lot? Do you do long distance running for that exercise? Have you been under a lot of stress the last couple months? Have you been ill? There are lots of reasons why you have missed 2 periods. To allay your concerns schedule an ... (read in full...)
Possibilites of being pregnant after unprotected sex, several times...!? My body acts differently: exhaustion, stomachaches, loss of appetite...
Q. Wondering if I may be pregnant or the possibilities before I take a pregnancy test. Last month I had my period March 3-6 (four days - which is normal for me) but afterwards my boyfriend and I had unprotected sex almost everyday, if not, every other ...
A. 14 April 2008: Jezze Louise, when pregnancy test are: sold everywhere, and I mean everywhere,
are very cheap as well, why on earth are all these females wrting to Dear Cupid asking if they "might" be PG? I don't get it, someone explain it to me?... (read in full...)
How do I get out of my relationship with my girlfriend? I am married with kids.
Q. hello, how and what will i say to my gf that i want out to our relationship. i love her so much but i am married to another woman and with kids. my wife will commit suicide if i will choose my gf which i don't want to happen, we leave together and ...
A. 14 April 2008: Tell your girlfriend you apologise for leading her down the primrose path and have decided to behave yourself with a semblance of honor and integrity and will now start giving your wife and family the respect they deserve. Close the door, walk away, ... (read in full...)
Can I have anal sex while I suffer from hemorrhoids?
Q. can I have anal sex while I suffer from hemeroids? thank you...
A. 14 April 2008: If you have a really HIGH and I mean really high threshold for pain then go ahead. But I gotta say your question has me squeezing the cheeks together big time. Yeow!... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is 10 weeks pregnant but still smokes every day and drinks on occasions too.
Q. I'm totally in love with my partner - I love her more than anything in the world. She is 10 weeks pregnant and I am so happy and excited to be with her. However she continues to have a few drinks a week and I suspect more when I am not around her. ...
A. 14 April 2008: I "fink" people should look at the date on the post before they bother to answer.... (read in full...)
Was our sex good enough? Am I pregnant?
Q. Me and My boyfriend of 8 months decided to have sex for the first time last week. It was both of our first times and i enjoyed it but i feel that i have let him down as he is 2 years older than me. I feel that i have ruined it for him but he says ...
A. 14 April 2008: Without birth control you could be pregnant and STILL pissed yourself.... (read in full...)
Please help me out here, I am totally obsessed with my teacher!!
Q. I know there's tons of questions under this topic, but here its goes. I'm sixteen, and absolutely crazy about a teacher in my high school. It's become so bad, i's taken over my life. I can never stop thinking about him. It started about a year ...
A. 14 April 2008: If you want to to compare notes on obsession and impossible scenarios, by all means contact "Love_is_all_youu_need". She's been posting stuff about her crush on her teacher for over a year now. You won't get any real help but at least you can keep ... (read in full...)
Planning to tell him I like him so that he understands why I am avoiding him... my teacher...
Q. well I like my teacher a lot and im deciding whether I should tell him or not. I'm thinking telling him is the only way I'm going to stop liking him because its going to get rid of all the what if's going on in my head and I know it might make ...
A. 14 April 2008: Hate to burst your bubble but he most likely won't even notice if you distance yourself. You've a bad case of the school crush so do yourself a favor and keep your distance.... (read in full...)
I don't share his feelings, besides he is engaged. Should I stop talking to him?
Q. i have been talking to this dude but he has a girlfriend i met him at the club. he is a great guy but i really just want to stop talking to him should i do it? its not him its me i just dont think he is my type. he wants to spend time with me but ...
A. 14 April 2008: What's the deal? This is the USA, stop talking to him if you feel like it.... (read in full...)
My guy wants me to leave my friends. why?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been dating for 3 years and are still madly inlove with one another. The problem is that before him I dated guys who were just out to use me and had to break up with them, I was also into parties and the living my life as it ...
A. 14 April 2008: Red flag...control freak. He is way out of line and I'm afraid things will get worse. Put your foot down NOW. If he can't accept it, get rid.... (read in full...)
I love her and try to rebuild the trust in our relation, yet only end up lying again and again. Please help.
Q. i have been with my girlfriend for a year and six months. During that time i have lied to her several times. The first time i lied she said i would get another chance but i have zero trust and just when i start to bring my trust back up i lie again ...
A. 14 April 2008: Are you sure you love her as much as you say you do? If yes, it's kind of strange that you keep sabotaging yourself by lying. Maybe deep down you really want out? Do you feel unworthy of her? How are you in the self-esteem department? What exactly ... (read in full...)
After seeing my own daughter masturbating on a porn site I've become sexually attracted to her. It's so humiliating, how can I stop these feelings of lust for her?
Q. After seeing my own 19 year old daughter masturbating on an internet home-video porn site I've become sexually attracted to her and can't stop looking at her and thinking of her in that way. I haven't been with a woman sexually in a long time, may...
A. 14 April 2008: I changed my mind, it doesn't matter whether this is true or not or whether you are just looking for titillating responses...you need professional therapy any which way.... (read in full...)
She demands to know why I masturbated to porn. I DON'T KNOW why I did it! What should I tell her?
Q. recently my girlfriend caught me on a porn site and now she keeps telling me that i chose that girl over her when i could have masturbated to her but then she will say that all the times that i told her that she was perfect and beautiful was just a ...
A. 14 April 2008: Well you could try the line that you think masturbation is beneath the purity of the real love you have for her and you didn't want to sully her in your mind. Not sure she'll buy it but what have you got to lose?... (read in full...)
I told him to get out, and he did. But I want him back now!
Q. Hi My partner and I have been together for 4 years and living together for 2, recently we have been having financial problems and he lost his job. Soon after this I got very angry one weekend and told him to get out 2 days later he left and said he ...
A. 14 April 2008: You told him to leave, he did. You've told him you were sorry and asked him to come back, he didn't. He's not a yo-yo. Time to move on, he'll look you up if he changes his mind but I wouldn't count on it if I were you. Good luck.... (read in full...)
After seeing my own daughter masturbating on a porn site I've become sexually attracted to her. It's so humiliating, how can I stop these feelings of lust for her?
Q. After seeing my own 19 year old daughter masturbating on an internet home-video porn site I've become sexually attracted to her and can't stop looking at her and thinking of her in that way. I haven't been with a woman sexually in a long time, may...
A. 14 April 2008: If this is true and you aren't just looking for titillating responses...Professional therapy is definitely called for.... (read in full...)
He no longer uses porn but I still cannot accept the fact that for my husband sexual arousal was possible with other women, strangers!...
Q. have a problem that I realise will seem very silly to some but I honestly am at a loss as to what to do. I love my husband greatly and in the past we have had issues with him using porn. We have been to couples therapy and our relationship has ...
A. 14 April 2008: Okay this all boils down to whether you'd be better off WITH him or WITHOUT him. This is a big question and requires a lot of thought. If the minus of his using porn in the past out weighs all his plus's then I guess you'll have to separate and ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my teacher that I love him?
Q. i dont know if i love my teacher, its probably just a crush but i cant stop thinking about him. i think he knows by now i like him, because i sent him an email and said i think you're amazing and the best teacher i've ever had, and then yesterday he ...
A. 11 April 2008: You and your friend SHOULD go together and tell him how much you love him. It will give he and his wife something to laugh about all weekend. Very thoughtful of you to provide such humor to the loving couple. And trust me this is not the first time ... (read in full...)
Having a relationship with my dad's friend, should I tell my parents?
Q. Hi, i am 17 and my dads friend (who is 42) has told me he has had feelings for me for a long time, we have kissed on a few occasions and have been away on a weekend together where we had sex which i really enjoyed. I really like him, but i think ...
A. 11 April 2008: I think you are going to be very sorry you continue going down this path. He isn't quite right in the head. I'd tell my parents about what's going on if I were you. And by the way, this guy is NOT your father's friend.... (read in full...)
What is rainbow kissing? Should I try it?
Q. I might sound really stupid asking this but what does rainbow kissing mean? My current boyfriend is pretty kinky and like trying everything out. I was a virgin when we got together so he's taught me everything i know. He asked me at the weekend ...
A. 11 April 2008: I kinda just threw up in my mouth...... (read in full...)
Do young woman say 25 to 35 usually find men say 50 to 58 old and sexually unattractive?
Q. Do young woman say 25 to 35 usually find men say 50 to 58 old and sexually unattractive? I find myself interested in a woman 35 but am not sure if she really feels anything for me sexually or is just being nice as a friend?...
A. 11 April 2008: Do you have a lot of money? That sure can grease the skids for you.... (read in full...)
My best friend just wont hang out with me, why?
Q. I have a friend that I've known since high school 10th grade. We used to always hang at her house and we've been to the mall ONCE out of our entire friendship. Whenever I call her up and say, "let's hang out or go to a restaurant" she always come...
A. 11 April 2008: If she doesn't like hanging out then find a new friend, what's the big deal? People change and friends come and go, just remember you have to be a friend to make a friend.... (read in full...)
How can I tell a stranger her husband is a cheating rat?
Q. I'm kinda new to my area and a few doors down is a married couple, thing is i no her husband is cheating on her, and of what i have seen its been going on for while, they are out together during the day, he comes home at 5,6 in the morning, she ...
A. 10 April 2008: Maybe they have an open marriage, maybe the wife already knows, maybe that's his sister and they are a very close family....it really doesn't matter because it's none of your beeswax. Don't become the noisy neighbor.... (read in full...)
Why can't I get pregnant..Could there something wrong with me?
Q. Hi, i'm 18 and i want to know if there is a disease or disorder as to why i can't stay or get pregnant? Or if there's something wrong with my boyfriend?. Please help me is there something humanly wrong with me?...
A. 10 April 2008: You need to seek medical help not an online advice site. Nobody here can possible know why you can't conceive.... (read in full...)
My brother is a bully and my parents are away
Q. my brother is a bully. he is terrible, horrible and he hurts me. my parents are in holiday so they can't see that. i do not want to go to police of course because its my brother. please help me!...
A. 10 April 2008: Is there a friend or family member you can stay with until your folks come home?... (read in full...)
My girlfriend is 10 weeks pregnant but still smokes every day and drinks on occasions too.
Q. I'm totally in love with my partner - I love her more than anything in the world. She is 10 weeks pregnant and I am so happy and excited to be with her. However she continues to have a few drinks a week and I suspect more when I am not around her. ...
A. 23 April 2007: This is a tough one, you can't make her quit but it is your baby too. The alcohol can affect the baby's brain, smoking affects the baby's birth weight both can be very dangerous if the baby has any other problems. She really is being very ... (read in full...)
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