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writes:My wife and i have past 2days we had sex she dry before start and then she went to work when she come back when I feel her she was wet as she just finished having sex or may be cheatin Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 April 2008): please trust me when i say it has nothing to do with being turned on at times. women produce discharge on and off all day long it's something that happens for no reason at all depending on the time of the month, dont worry and try not to let your suspicions ruin your marriage x
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reader, ::it was an honest mistake::  +, writes (26 April 2008):
 lmfao, Phil.
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 April 2008): Phil!! Lol.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008): Maybe she applied some K-Y Jelly to stop her squeaking while she walked? There's nothing quite so embarassing as that.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (25 April 2008):
 Tish is right as rain (as usual), It's all a matter of gravity. And quit grabbing her crotch when she walks in the door, try a sweet kiss on the lips instead.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (25 April 2008):
 Er, hate to be clinical here, but if you ejaculated inside her, she may be having the normal discharge following that, it sometimes takes a day or two for things to drain out, so to speak.
Also, women have varying rates of vaginal discharge depending on where they are in their normal cycles. Some days are pretty dry, some days can have a completely normal gooey discharge.
I wouldn't fly off the handle unless you really had suspicions other than the interesting greeting you are giving her!
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008): First, I find phiatiger response funny "how has the situation got to you touching her down there to see if she is wet or not after work?? Is that your greeting" LOL
All good answers. We all have cycles. Certain times of the day, thoughts we may have, like getting off work and thinking about our mate and what we could do with them could get me hard (which it has while driving), and get her wet, which is the mostly likely reason. For the affair, you should lift right hand, and quickly hit the right cheek of your face. Never ever go there! Okay?!
If she is dry, she is not aroused. Her mind might be ready, but the rest of the body isn't, so perform foreplay. If winky won't rise, then you to need foreplay to get aroused.
Take care!
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reader, Sandman +, writes (25 April 2008):
 A few things:
-She might not be in the mood when you're ready for sex - which is why she might be dry when you touch her. Remember, if you want sex and she isn't in the mood but is willing to have sex with you, you need to GET her in the mood through foreplay. Make sure she is wet enough for sex before attempting sexual intercourse.
-Like the first answerer stated at the end, she might be wet when she comes home because she has been thinking of you all day. Which would be the optimal time to engage in sex with your wife. It could also be that this is the time when she is most aroused. For example, some people say that they like having sex first thing in the morning. Others state they like having sex in the afternoon. Others state they like having sex in the evening/night hours. Others (like me) don't really care when they have sex as long as they are having it!
-Lastly, this could be a sign that your wife is cheating. But this information you have isn't enough. You will need to obtain hard evidence to prove her infidelity. And like the second answerer stated, women get wet at different times of the day - just like you and I get erections for no reason at all during the day. So before you think your wife is cheating, you need to start talking to her and let her know that you are concerned about what's going on and maybe she has some issues she might want to share with you too.
Hope this helps.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008): Females bodies (after a while with the same man) dont respond the same anymore... just like guys, you might have gotten hard just from looking at your wife in the beginning but now it takes some stimulation... same for your wife... if shes dry before you have sex it just means that shes not aroused yet, but with the proper physical stimulation she will get wet eventually.If she's more readily aroused after work, that just means its the right time of day for her. she might not be cheating, she probably isnt... Is there someone you have in mind for her affair partner? Or are you jumping to conclusions? It could be that there's a guy at her job that she is attracted to but as long as she channels all the sexual tension in your direction then you get the benefits.Maybe the past 2 days she has been tired or stressed and unable to get wet immediately, but then after work she felt better and was more in the mood? Maybe she was just sweaty or maybe it was vaginal discharge? There are lots of things to consider.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008): Im thinking...how has the situation got to you touching her down there to see if she is wet or not after work?? Is that your greeting followed by accusations? I would have to advise talking, just ask her. You do know that a womans body does get wet down there sometimes for no reason at all, its just the way we work, the only way you will know is to ask her to be honest or catching her in the act.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 April 2008): Hi. Have you any reason other than this to believe she is cheating? Have you noticed any other changes in her? Are you having other difficulties in your relationship.
It's not very clear from your post if she's dry all through sex, or only at the begining before she's aroused.
Maybe I've misunderstood your question, but if your having sex with her before work, maybe she stays aroused all day thinking about you and your one lucky man.
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