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male
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:I am hoping that some of the aunts on this site can help me with my problem. I am an extremely handsome, smart and funny 28 year old male. I have an excellent job and earn a very substantial sum of money indeed. I have two Ferraris and live in a seven-bedroom house in a very affluent area of my home city. I have three degrees, am highly intelligent and very fit. I also excel at sports - so much so that people often wonder why I never played rugby professionally. I work out every evening and have a body to kill for. And I have never had any sort of difficulty with women before. Women love me. I can attract any type of woman I want and they always want to sleep with me. In fact, many of my ex-girlfriends still write to me telling me how wonderful I was to them and how they wish their current partners were even half as delightful to be around. In recent months, I have been dating an attractive blonde lady. She is easily as good-looking as any supermodel and I am satisfied with her physique. However, she has one bad quality that is causing no end of grief. She does not believe in sex before marriage. While I understand that many people share her silly, superstitious beliefs, I am not willing to marry her and wish to make love to her soon. Many beautiful women would pay to even see me naked and yet this woman refuses to sleep with me. How can I convince her to see the error of her ways? Life is too short for her ridiculous antics. Our relationship is at stake if she does not correct her behaviour
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008): I must have you now. It's anyone's guess why there isn't a Hollywood blockbuster about you on the cards. Don't let this self absorbed woman and her 'ridiculous antics' bring you down, what odds is it to you if she won't part her legs - one word from you and God would surely part the seas.
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (28 April 2008):
 I tried living in a fantasy world once, but it just gave me the munchies.
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (28 April 2008):
 Sounds like he should have the bat up his ar** loosened. Stop fighting them off Phil, you know you want it!!! he!he!
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (28 April 2008):
 And I'd just poured a fresh cup, too! Do you use a cricket bat or baseball bat to fend them off?
To the poster, sounds like she thinks you've got crap taste in cars!
Now I'm off to brew a fresh cup...
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reader, BigSis +, writes (28 April 2008):
 "A male {Union Jack} age 36-40, anonymous writes":
"I am an extremely handsome, smart and funny 28 year old male".
Does your 'Pinnochio willy' grow when you tell porkies too?
: )
xXx
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008): Oh mate!!!!!!!!!!!!!Coffee keybourd thats all im saying XXXXXXXX
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008): I know exactly how you feel, it's so darned difficult to be humble when you have all these attributes. I find it's very difficult to fight all these supermodel types off. Even I am only human and can manage no more than five of them at any one time, as much as I would like to accommodate more of them. Apart from that, six writhing bodies on a king size bed is about as many as it will take. Sadly, the rest of them will just have to wait their turn.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008): Hi Hunny
With your Curriculum Vitae sweetheart you should join stud muffins are us!!!!!! Shame you ding dong isnt long enough you could bonk yourself then you would be truely happy TAKE CARE SWEETPEA LOVE MANDY XXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXXX
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reader, TELLULAH +, writes (28 April 2008):
I dunno!!! you sound a bit wingy (british for complete twat) to me. If your so fantastic why do you have so many ex's then? Maybe this lady can see you for what you really are, just a user for sex.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008): Could anyone possiably love you any more than you love yourself? Im all for self confidence but geeze you strike me as arrogant!
As for this beautiful lady that you are with at this time, surely you should respect both that she has not been with anyone before you and also that she has some respect for herself by saving herself for marriage....of course you are thinking this is a ploy to get you to marry to her then she can claim you as hers officially and will also have entitlement to large sums of your money when you get bored of her. Well if she is as shallow as you sound then perhaps thats exactly what she is doing, I suggest in this case that you let her go to keep herself pure for marriage and find yourself someone that you dont have to change, someone that can give you all that you expect without having to sacrifice what they believe in....someone that will pay you maybe. ha!
I mean I think no sex before marriage is a crazy idea but I do respect that it is important to other people and that is completely their choice.Perhaps its not changing her that is needed, perhaps you could open your mind to the word 'respect'.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008): So basically, you're ridiculing & belittling her beliefs in attempt to make her more open to your ideas about things?
Good luck with that one.
I smell an overinflated ego that's enticed by a challenge for once.
I think you need to stop trying to "achieve" her like you're used to doing with everything else in your life, and start seeing her as a whole person to be respected. She is someone who might have something to teach YOU once in a while. Maybe her willingness to do something sexual with you cannot be earned with a sufficient body shape, nor a bank account, nor even with sufficient attention & effort lavished on her.
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reader, Collaroy  +, writes (28 April 2008):
 Oh good grief, this is a joke post.
Nobody is this self absorbed in the real world.
Nice try dude.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008): Lol, dude why are you trying to convince US that you're so hot? Let me tell you I've modeled before, weigh 200 lbs but can still bench press 355 lbs. That often equates to sleeping with alot of women. But you're a fool if you think you can sleep with any woman you wanted! The best ones aren't superficial & won't sleep with right away. I'll concede that the "no sex before marriage" thing is a little old but woman often say that just to make you wait. My fiance wouldn't sleep with me right away & it drove me crazy because I wasn't used to waiting. Stop relying on your looks & stop being upset that she won't have sex with you. Most women like this don't need to wait for marriage, they just need to wait for love. She isn't going to love you for your body so you need to use your personality. It certainly sounds like your ego needs some work (you should know in my experience woman hate men who think like you are now). Just be kind with this girl. It won't take as long as you think if you do it right. Its worth it....
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (28 April 2008):
 Salvation is right. If she doesn't want to sleep with you, you can't force her.
I would also suggest that you review your way to understand people. You say that her not wanting to sleep with you is "an error". It is not; it is her option. She's not wrong for not wanting to sleep with you. This is not behavior that needs correction.
Would you care to give me this girl's address? If she's that hot, no sex before marriage is a price I can pay.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 April 2008): And you are so conceited! Get over yourself. You ARE not gods greatest gift to woman.Respect her for she is - if you can't - get someone else who share the same shallowness you have in abaundance - possesions, and looks are not the only thing that attract woman.You have posted a CV here that spell why woman should choose you, yet in my eyes - you are shallow and insecure and that is why you need to tell us just how great you are and why she should have sex with you. You are trying to validate yourself.Get over yourself!
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reader, salvation +, writes (28 April 2008):
hey if she doesnt want to you cant force her if she doesnt want sex before marriage thats her choice and you should respect that not try and change it sex isnt everything and for her its something very special so her behaviour does not need correcting
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