What's a husband supposed to do?!! My wife is dressing very sexy- can I get her to practice more discretion?
Q. My 38-year-old wife is beautiful woman, and is a devoted wife and mother. We've been very happily married for nine months, and our love life is great. This is our second marriages. My wife's first marriage was sexually unfulfilling and her ex was ...
A. 23 April 2008: Okay, after your last response I think you are right. She does need some counseling. She is a grown woman and should be able to control herself, especially in public. I think there are some issues she needs to work out. Sounds like you may have a ... (read in full...)
My brother is a bully and my parents are away
Q. my brother is a bully. he is terrible, horrible and he hurts me. my parents are in holiday so they can't see that. i do not want to go to police of course because its my brother. please help me!...
A. 10 April 2008: Is there a friend or family member you can stay with until your folks come home?... (read in full...)
My mother the tart! She's lied to my face and has a new sexy image- this has to be an affair!
Q. I think my mother is having an affair, I found txts and stuff on her phone and its awful and devestating to think of it. I love my parents and am very close to my dad so its killing me. I tried to confront her but she just yelled and then lied to my ...
A. 10 April 2008: I agree with the aunts that think this is none of your business. It's not, it's between your mom and dad. Leave to them to deal with all of it. Focus your attention on the new house and get it ready for your baby.... (read in full...)
How do I apologise to my teacher for causing problems?
Q. This is another of those teacher/pupil situations... Please don't lecture me, because the damage is already done! Basically I've been obsessively crushing on a teacher for over a year now, I got very depressed last year - I even considered givin...
A. 9 April 2008: This poster doesn't really want any advice, she never has listened to any of it in the past posts she's written and trust me she's written many. Might as well move onto others who really want some help.... (read in full...)
Troubled soon to be Ex Wife!
Q. Me and my husband have been together for 10 years (5 off and on dating and 5 years married as of June 19). As of December 9th 2007, my husband told me we are done because of my Ex-Boyfriend stays where my sister lives. At the beginning of our ...
A. 9 April 2008: "arrangement"... (read in full...)
Troubled soon to be Ex Wife!
Q. Me and my husband have been together for 10 years (5 off and on dating and 5 years married as of June 19). As of December 9th 2007, my husband told me we are done because of my Ex-Boyfriend stays where my sister lives. At the beginning of our ...
A. 9 April 2008: This is confusing, Why exactly does your husband object to the ex-boyfriend's living arragement? Do you no longer want your marriage to work? More details please.... (read in full...)
10 wks pregnant after an affair with an older man who wants nothing to do with it, pleasde help me?
Q. 10 wks pregnant. Been stupidly having an affair with a man for 5 yrs who is twice my age who and is in a relationship....and also has an 11 yr old son. His partner has found out in the past about us...and the majority of the country know, and tota...
A. 9 April 2008: He has no choice whether he wants the baby or not, he is responsible for child support. You BOTH were irresponsible not to use birth control. Check with a lawyer and see how soon you can start getting the support he owes you. As far as your affair ... (read in full...)
I met a wonderful older man! He is a sex offender but I don't judge him! What do you think?
Q. I recently started seeing a man somewhat older than me. So far, I find him wonderful! We enjoy each others company, we share the same values and ideals, we are both happily independent. He is an absolute gentleman, very well read, and very ...
A. 9 April 2008: 3 years in the joint and 3 years probation, he was obviously convicted of a VERY serious crime. You are right, you have no idea what you are getting into. Your experience with the negative judging of your actions is no way similar with judging his ... (read in full...)
I'd love everyone to be fair with eachother. by Naza
Q. I'd love everyone to be fair with each other. Have the respect as well. Thank you ...........Naza...
A. 8 April 2008: There is only one place where people are like that, it's called Heaven. Here on earth all we can do is for each of us to try our best to be fair to others and hope there is a chain reaction. ... (read in full...)
What is a high maintenance woman?
Q. What really describes a high maintenance woman? I have heard this a lot lately and was wondering, is it just about spending money? ...
A. 8 April 2008: It can also mean a woman that needs lots of compliments, constant reassurance of her worth, constant phone calls, constant "I love you's" just plain constant attention.... (read in full...)
Has anyone had any success with threesoms or group sex. Does the outcome always seem to be negative?
Q. Has anyone recently been involved in threesome activity or group sex? Does the outcome always seem to be negative or do some of these situations work out ok with little or no consequences? I am contemplating investigating how to meet up with ...
A. 8 April 2008: Are you looking to be the third guy or are you married looking for another female? If married, is your wife as gung ho on the idea as yourself? Personally I respect my wedding vows but it's a free country. Just make sure you think this through and ... (read in full...)
What do dearcupid readers think about online dating?
Q. I get very nervous around girls, and thats why I prefer online dating; I was just wondering what the readers of this site think about online dating?...
A. 8 April 2008: It's so easy to be a totally different person online so you just have to hope you aren't wasting too much time on a loser. Good luck, maybe it will help your shyness but sooner or later you are going to have to have a REAL date you know.... (read in full...)
How is an abortion done?
Q. I need an abortion, but words can't explain how worried I am.. Could anyone explain what happens when you first step into the hospital/clinic and onwards? Thank you so much....
A. 8 April 2008: I'm sooooooooo sorry, honey. Just let the tears flow for awhile. It will take some time but each day will be a bit easier. You've just experienced one of life's harsher moments but you will ultimately be stronger for it. Give yourself time to ... (read in full...)
My lack of confidence is keeping me stuck in a rut. How can I live the life I want to live?
Q. I have a rather annoying habit of destroying practically anything good in my life because I question and analyse everything. For example, I rejected my last girlfriend because I had a hard time figuring out how I felt about her and came to the ...
A. 8 April 2008: There are all kinds of techniques on how to build one's self-esteem and self-confidence, google it and read up on the subject. You'll find a method that works for you I'm sure. You could get some guidance from a counselor if you want to go that ... (read in full...)
What's a husband supposed to do?!! My wife is dressing very sexy- can I get her to practice more discretion?
Q. My 38-year-old wife is beautiful woman, and is a devoted wife and mother. We've been very happily married for nine months, and our love life is great. This is our second marriages. My wife's first marriage was sexually unfulfilling and her ex was ...
A. 8 April 2008: What's a husband to do?
Not a damn thing, Buddy. I repeat, ENJOY!... (read in full...)
I've had a nice time with a married man, he's now like stranger to me.
Q. I have had a nice time with a married man, he's now like stranger to me. Told him that i can see that he doesn't like me anymore and he hasn't spoken to me since i said that. We were good. What can i do?...
A. 8 April 2008: I for one don't believe you.... (read in full...)
Is it cheating to masterbate over pictures of your wife's sisters?
Q. Is it cheating because I masturbate over pictures of my wife's two sisters?...
A. 7 April 2008: Yikes buddy! You had better have a really safe hiding place for those pics and make sure the door's locked while you are pulling your pud. Your wife will definitely see it as the ultimate betrayal even if you haven't actually had contact with the ... (read in full...)
I've had a nice time with a married man, he's now like stranger to me.
Q. I have had a nice time with a married man, he's now like stranger to me. Told him that i can see that he doesn't like me anymore and he hasn't spoken to me since i said that. We were good. What can i do?...
A. 7 April 2008: ah yes and on one of those cold , wet, and dreary Ireland winter's night thirty years from now, you'll be sitting alone huddled on your sofa and he and his wife will be cuddled up on theirs oohing and aahing over the lastest pictures of the grand ... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 7 April 2008: A man went into a pharmacy and asked to talk to a male pharmacist. The woman he was talking to said that she was the pharmacist and that she and her sister owned the store, so there were no males employed there. She asked if there was something ... (read in full...)
How soon after conception will my breasts start hurting?
Q. Just wanted to hear from the ladies who has been / are pregnant. How soon after conception did your breasts start hurting? I know it differs from woman to woman, and i have also been pregnant twice before. Thanks....
A. 7 April 2008: If you have been pregnant twice then go by your own body. When did your breasts become sore? It does differ between women.... (read in full...)
Should I go to Australia and be with the man I love, or make a go of my marriage?
Q. I'm really desperate for advice - sorry this is a long story. A couple of years ago I separated from my husband (of 12 years marriage - total 18 year relationship). Our relationship had deteriorated to such an extent that we had not had sex for ...
A. 7 April 2008: Buy your tickets today. I agree with Laura, you really have nothing to lose. Check out Australia. I'll bet your visit will convince you to trade your miserable marriage for a real chance for happiness. Good luck, keep us posted.... (read in full...)
How can I find a man for my wife?
Q. How can I get my wife to have a threesome with another man?...
A. 7 April 2008: What? MAKE your wife have a threesome????? Dang Dude, you need to get a grip.... (read in full...)
Was he just goofing around or is he genuinely interested?
Q. there is a man i work with and i don't know what to make of his behavior. i want to know if he is just goofing off, relieving some boredom making our day a little interesting, or if he is really interested. he has been looking down my shirt and i ...
A. 7 April 2008: I don't think your husband or his wife would consider this to be harmless flirtation. I think you both have a screw loose somewhere. What kind of behavior is this? Show some class and stop this nonsense.... (read in full...)
How can I trace my father?
Q. I was born in 1977 and my father never acknowledged me. I was adopted by who I call my real father when I was 2. My mother wont give anything away but iv had my gran tell me his name and where he was from at the time. I dont know what to do...
A. 4 April 2008: All in all, good or bad, you have a right to know and once informed you can decide whether you want to look him up or not. Just having a medical history can be a great help to your own health. I say you have a nice, calm, talk with your mom.... (read in full...)
How do I know for sure if hes used me?
Q. i feel used my partner only wanted a so called stable homelife for his kids but now hes got them hes changed...
A. 4 April 2008: Changed how? More info will get you better responses.... (read in full...)
How can I trace my father?
Q. I was born in 1977 and my father never acknowledged me. I was adopted by who I call my real father when I was 2. My mother wont give anything away but iv had my gran tell me his name and where he was from at the time. I dont know what to do...
A. 4 April 2008: Your mother is not playing fair here. You have every right to know all about your biological father, half of your genes are from him for crying out loud. Does your mother give reason for keeping this important information from you?... (read in full...)
Have been involved with my boss, now he promoted me his personal assisstant, does this mean he wants more?
Q. I really don’t know what to do….. recently (in the past week) I had ‘relations’ with my boss…. Today, I got promoted to his ‘personal assistant’, and that means that I’m in his office 24/7, running errands for him and in contact at all times… hes a ...
A. 4 April 2008: Yes it was a sympathy act, sympathy for his johnson. You best be very careful because if he tires of you, you may be looking for a new job. Office romances are full of pitfalls. Beware.... (read in full...)
Should my boyfriend pay rent when the mortgage is in my name?
Q. My boyfriend of 2 years will be moving in with me soon and I'm not sure if he should pay 'rent' because the mortgage in my name only. I don't like the idea of him paying 'rent' but it would be nice it he contributed some. Is that fair? I'm not ...
A. 3 April 2008: He definitely should pay rent, he'd have to pay it anywhere else so why not in this case?... (read in full...)
Partner leaving because I won't discard my children from my previous marriage... Advice please?
Q. I have 3 children with my ex-wife of 10 years. I left her in 2003 because of her adultery (3rd time) and in 2005 I met my present gf. We have gone on to have a further 2 children. I used to see my first 3 children every week but this proved to ...
A. 3 April 2008: Hang tough Buddy! Like I said before I think you'd be more miserable with her than without her. Keep us posted, you might be able to help other guys who write have similar problems so stop in often.... (read in full...)
I find it difficult to go from talking everyday to nothing... how to cope?
Q. three weeks ago I found out who I was with had found someone else which was bad enough but we have known eachother for two years and he hasnt spoken 2 me for 2 weeks. I know its probably a clear indication that he doesn't want to but we used to talk...
A. 3 April 2008: He's okay, let it go. Pick yourself up and brush yourself off. ... (read in full...)
I have had post-natal depression and my partner left me, how do I get him back?
Q. i have a 13month son, and have been suffering with postnatal depression. my partner, has left us. saying that we no longer get on as i'm not the same person anymore. how do i get him back ...
A. 3 April 2008: I think a little more information is need here. Are you being treated for your depression? Are you feeling better? Was he aware that you were suffering from Post-natal depression? Was it clinically diagnosed?... (read in full...)
He has problems with condoms and I have problems with the pill, are there any alternatives?
Q. My boyfriend and I have been together for over a year and we've been having sex for about 5 months. At first we used condoms eveytime but a lot of the time he would go soft just after he put one on. We stupidly did it a few times with him pulli...
A. 3 April 2008: Check with your doctor, the dosage might need to be adjusted. You could try the patch or maybe get an implant. There are other options, talk to your doctor and see what he/she recommends.... (read in full...)
Partner leaving because I won't discard my children from my previous marriage... Advice please?
Q. I have 3 children with my ex-wife of 10 years. I left her in 2003 because of her adultery (3rd time) and in 2005 I met my present gf. We have gone on to have a further 2 children. I used to see my first 3 children every week but this proved to ...
A. 3 April 2008: Well at least you found out before you wasted anymore time on her. I hope your studies go well and you can improve your income. Good luck.... (read in full...)
I accidentally ran over my potential boyfriends foot. Where to go from here????
Q. Hey aunts, I really need your help, advice and wisdom here. It's complicated, but basically there is this guy I'm seeing/dating. We've been seeing each other for about a month now. Last night we went out for Saint Patrick's day. It felt like we ...
A. 3 April 2008: Ummm Mike? You ok there Buddy?... (read in full...)
We love spending time together but her parents are restrictive...
Q. I've been dating this girl for 3 months now,realy like her she's cool and all,we both love spending time together.but lately i been getting really frustrated cause her parents wont let us spend time together or mess up what ever plans we usually ...
A. 3 April 2008: How old is your girlfriend? Her parents may just be doing their job.... (read in full...)
Do you think he may be gay??
Q. Hi guys I have a guy friend who is a little more than a friend but he is different than most guys I met. He likes to put lotion all over his body after a shower and keeps his place really clean....he also likes to clean his house and keep everything ...
A. 3 April 2008: Why does it matter? ... (read in full...)
My bf had sex with his own mom!!Ughh..How should I react?
Q. My boyfriend had sex with his own mother. And that is really embarassing like I can't even look at his mother anymore. I even have a kid with him and is under his name. Right now,,I feel like this family I got into doesn't seem like a good family ...
A. 3 April 2008: Is this for real? If it is please, please stop reproducing and spreading this gene swamp all over these great United States.... (read in full...)
Partner leaving because I won't discard my children from my previous marriage... Advice please?
Q. I have 3 children with my ex-wife of 10 years. I left her in 2003 because of her adultery (3rd time) and in 2005 I met my present gf. We have gone on to have a further 2 children. I used to see my first 3 children every week but this proved to ...
A. 3 April 2008: Sorry but your girlfriend sounds like a whack job to me. She is way way out of line. Looks like you have no choice here BUT to move on, I feel you'll be happier in the long run, however. The girlfriend probably will make any man miserable.... (read in full...)
They wont talk to me after I lost the plot in a store!
Q. Just want to make one thing clear before I tell you my problem ... I’m not a female despite what It says at the top of the answer, If fact, I'm using my daughter's account. About a week ago my son-in-law, granddaughter and I where in the supermar...
A. 3 April 2008: What's the big deal? Apologise to the offended parties and don't do it again when you are shopping with them. They'll get over it.... (read in full...)
Why do my parents know so much about my private business?
Q. Ok this is a really weird problem and I'm gonna sound so paranoid but I really think my parents are spying on me. There have been more than a few instances where I've walked out of my bedroom and caught one of them listening at my door or "casu...
A. 2 April 2008: Look for the camera but also set a trap and call them out on it. They are right it is their house but you also have a right to your own privacy. I think if you find the camera you need to have a nice chat about what their motives were for installing ... (read in full...)
Sex before marriage?
Q. Sex before marrige? ...
A. 2 April 2008: True love before either.... (read in full...)
Is my husband gay?
Q. My husband is 34 and we have been together for 4 years and we have a baby boy,for the past 2 years i have caught him on gay websites many times!and he allways say he hasnt been on them..I know he has. he is gay....
A. 2 April 2008: Are you asking whether we think he is gay because he views gay porn or are you saying he is gay?... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 1 April 2008: I'll never change...too lazy... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 31 March 2008: Pink Elephant recipe
1 splash grenadine syrup
2 oz gin
Pour grenadine into a brandy snifter, and swirl so that it coats most of the surface of the glass. Pour out the grenadine briskly, and add gin.
... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 26 March 2008: Everybody sing...When the swallows come back to Capistrano...... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 24 March 2008: If I bring up butt plugs again I'll be TOAST!... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 24 March 2008: Just in case I get trouble....How many democrats does it take to screw in a light bulb? None, they like being in the dark. whacca whacca... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 24 March 2008: There's a word for people in the states who do not have a sense of humor/humour... they are called "republicans".... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 18 March 2008: Listen here mr/ms anonymous, we aunts need to relieve our stress on occasion so nix on the lecture Okay?! The poster DID get her answer straight off...(stomping off to find butt plugs)... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 17 March 2008: hey TELLULAH...so What's New Pussycat??... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 17 March 2008: I love Tom Jones...... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 13 March 2008: Zeke and Brandon will keep that old bird a rolling for us!... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 13 March 2008: And you called ME a scamp! ... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 13 March 2008: Tisha you need to let me know when Zeke has restocked the BP's I have to bring some to Irish's party.... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 13 March 2008: That's a Navel orificeR! ... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 13 March 2008: I'm looking that up in our manual for you Uncle Phil...humm let's see...it just says "yes" I guess cause a navel is just an orifice with a permanent plug.... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 13 March 2008: hee hee...I hope...snort...Andrew doesn't...ha ha...get pissed off at us...(wipes eyes)... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 13 March 2008: Threesomes is right after spit-roasts in the manual, I think. We should ask Irish to fire up her backyard BBQ!... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 13 March 2008: This poster is now asking about threesomes....yikes... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 13 March 2008: Thanks Uncle Phil I'll add yet another page to the Dear Cupid Sex for Dummies manual!... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 13 March 2008: Of course Birdy! If you plug up all the female orifices after nasal sex, pregnancy is bound to result! Sex education is sooo easy, isn't it?!... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 13 March 2008: This just in...When performing nasal sex if you remove your butt plug first the semen will flow right out of you without the possibility of pregnancy, however you must remain in an upright position at all times. FYI... (read in full...)
Can you becoming pregnant if you swallow?
Q. Can you become pregnant if you swallow cum? I was just wondering. Thank you very much....
A. 13 March 2008: Please do not reproduce...ever.... (read in full...)
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