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anonymous
writes:Hello,my question is how can I cure my shyness?I am very shy and, my main problem is I just don't know what to talk about. I know it seems weird, but when I see someone I just say hello and I'm really stressed about what I should say next.I keep on imagining myself in the future with a girlfriend, not knowing what to say next :'(Please help me,~ Anonymous ~
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reader, BlondeBabe x  +, writes (28 October 2008):
 Believing in yourself i think its a good cure, as i used to be really shy and have no convidence.
But i started to believe in myself and have a positive attitude and has my i became happier with myself my convidence grew and my shyness slowly started to go away.
Well Good Luck!
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reader, dinosaurexx  +, writes (27 October 2008):
 i'm also very shy and i had no idea what to do about it.
so i thought of something the most UNshy people would do, and i signed up for the school play.
it helps you realize that not everyone is watching you and constantly judging you, and alot of the time they have nice things to say.
it worked for me :)
just try new things and try not to care what they'l think of what you say.
hope i helped at all :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 October 2008): Yes babes, there is a technique to hide shyness, I use it all the time. People don't believe that I am shy, but I really am. I learned a long time ago to hide my shyness. What I do is ask questions, I ask questions about people, and they love to talk about themselves. People say I'm interesting, but I'm not, they never realize, that they told me all their secrets, they did the talking, I kept quiet, all I did is ask a few questions. Maybe you could also try this, it worked for me, and I fool people all the time by using this technique...
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (27 October 2008):
 Part of your shyness is due to your age so that will fix itself down the road. However if you get involved with school activities, sports, clubs you'll start feeling more confident and that will help with your shyness right away plus you'll have more to talk about when you do meet that special young lady.
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