How do I avoid putting myself in a vulnerable position?
Q. I am anxious about sex and don't know what to do about it. I've always been nervous about it, because my family is somewhat strait-laced. Then, when I was a teenager, an old man once grabbed me in the market and kissed my cheek. That completely ...
A. 28 July 2009: Honey, you need to speak to a professional therapist about this fear. This is serious and is affecting your quality of life. Therapists are really easy to speak with they are trained to deal with these things. Perhaps if you found a female therapist ... (read in full...)
How do people move on when they still love each other?
Q. Just a quick question. How do I move on from a relationship when the person I love cant be with me? We were together for nearly 2 years and have always been very close although we have had arguments about our situation. Its breaking his heart to...
A. 28 July 2009: Sorry but if there's a will there's a way. Sounds like your relationship is a tad one-sided if the married party won't separate themself from the marriage.... (read in full...)
I'm dying to talk to my girlfriend but her mother has taken her phone away!
Q. its been like a week since i talked to my girlfriend and i'm already dieing to talk to her, her mother took away her phone from her and "i have no idea when she would get it back or if she would get it back" so what should i do ??...
A. 28 July 2009: One more question to help clear up the situation, how old is this young lady?... (read in full...)
Help - I've had limited experience, and I'm attracted to an older woman.
Q. I'm 24 and attracted to a 36 year old woman. just recently moved to a new city. We were introduced by a mutual friend. She is incredibly attractive, went to an ivy league college, and has an amazing journalism career. We went to the movies the other ...
A. 27 July 2009: Daniel you get the biggest cookie and the biggest glass of milk. ... (read in full...)
Am I bi? Should I just decide one or the other?
Q. Hi again. Ok, so these last few days have been a rollercoaster ride to say the least. I've now fallen out of love with a guy i've longed after for years, and i'm kinda happy about it! I've told a friend i'm a bit confused about my orientation, and ...
A. 27 July 2009: Sorry poster, my bad.... (read in full...)
What will happen to my boyfriend if I get pregnant?
Q. Ok..I am 14 and I have a 17 year old boyfriend..and all last week I was over his house and half of the time while I was there we had unprotected sex but everytime he is about to "bust" he take it out for awhile and we start again, while we were ...
A. 27 July 2009: What are you nuts having unprotected sex with this guy? I'll tell you what I hope will happen to your boyfriend if you get pregnant: jail time. And I'll also tell you what will happen to you: if you keep the baby your friends will be too busy to ... (read in full...)
My sister's been very disrespectful and I resent my mother for her reaction!
Q. I dont even know where to start.....I'am worried that i might be heading for unhapinness for ever. ok so this is the deal. I am 22 with alot on my shoulders, not because i have to but because i choose to. i have 2 jobs. so this sat i came home very ...
A. 27 July 2009: Tell your mom that you are leaving because of the way your sister treats you and that you are taking your paychecks with you. If you are helping support the family then your mother acted inappropriately in my opinion. Consider this to be that push ... (read in full...)
Help - I've had limited experience, and I'm attracted to an older woman.
Q. I'm 24 and attracted to a 36 year old woman. just recently moved to a new city. We were introduced by a mutual friend. She is incredibly attractive, went to an ivy league college, and has an amazing journalism career. We went to the movies the other ...
A. 27 July 2009: Being an old broad I've gotta say that being with a young stud would probably make me feel older not younger I'd probably would just get out the milk and cookies...sigh... (read in full...)
Hoping for a positive!
Q. Hi, i'm 23 yrs. old and i'm thinking I might be pregnant again. I have a two yr. old and have recently had a missed abortion. My fiance' and I have been trying for another one and I had a period in the beginning of last month and at the end. This is ...
A. 27 July 2009: "have recently had a missed abortion." What does that mean exactly?... (read in full...)
I'm dying to talk to my girlfriend but her mother has taken her phone away!
Q. its been like a week since i talked to my girlfriend and i'm already dieing to talk to her, her mother took away her phone from her and "i have no idea when she would get it back or if she would get it back" so what should i do ??...
A. 27 July 2009: Why does her mother not want you to go out with her daughter? She must have a pretty good reason if she is willing to put up with the whining and moaning I'll bet she is getting from her daughter right now!... (read in full...)
Am I being too sensitive when I expect my boyfriend of one year to invite me to family events?
Q. Am I being too sensitive when I expect my boyfriend of one year to invite me to family events? I have met some family members and he has met some of mine, so I don't understand why he does not invite me to cookouts, dinners, etc when he is with his ...
A. 27 July 2009: Does his ex attend any of these family events?... (read in full...)
I'm dying to talk to my girlfriend but her mother has taken her phone away!
Q. its been like a week since i talked to my girlfriend and i'm already dieing to talk to her, her mother took away her phone from her and "i have no idea when she would get it back or if she would get it back" so what should i do ??...
A. 27 July 2009: You are only going to fan the flames if you try to contact her. You should have known that sneaking around was a bad idea, you always get caught and that just makes matters worse. Why did you have to sneak around anyway?... (read in full...)
Am I bi? Should I just decide one or the other?
Q. Hi again. Ok, so these last few days have been a rollercoaster ride to say the least. I've now fallen out of love with a guy i've longed after for years, and i'm kinda happy about it! I've told a friend i'm a bit confused about my orientation, and ...
A. 27 July 2009: q Big Sis is looking for you... (read in full...)
Help - I've had limited experience, and I'm attracted to an older woman.
Q. I'm 24 and attracted to a 36 year old woman. just recently moved to a new city. We were introduced by a mutual friend. She is incredibly attractive, went to an ivy league college, and has an amazing journalism career. We went to the movies the other ...
A. 27 July 2009: Sorry I hate it when that happens...just too impatient... (read in full...)
Help - I've had limited experience, and I'm attracted to an older woman.
Q. I'm 24 and attracted to a 36 year old woman. just recently moved to a new city. We were introduced by a mutual friend. She is incredibly attractive, went to an ivy league college, and has an amazing journalism career. We went to the movies the other ...
A. 27 July 2009: Let the old bitty do your leg work for you. Sounds like a deal to me.... (read in full...)
Help - I've had limited experience, and I'm attracted to an older woman.
Q. I'm 24 and attracted to a 36 year old woman. just recently moved to a new city. We were introduced by a mutual friend. She is incredibly attractive, went to an ivy league college, and has an amazing journalism career. We went to the movies the other ...
A. 27 July 2009: Let the old bitty do your leg work for you. Sounds like a deal to me.... (read in full...)
Why does this young girl act this way? Why do I let it bother me?
Q. I never thought that I'd ask such a question, but here goes...this is a friendship question, not a relationship question. I live in a trailer park with my mom. I play games outside with little kids sometimes such as board games like scrabble, Life, ...
A. 27 July 2009: One has to be very very careful when dealing with other people's children especially if you aren't a teacher or licensed caregiver. I know I would have been very concerned if there had been an adult in my neighborhood who "played" with my kids. Be ... (read in full...)
Why does this young girl act this way? Why do I let it bother me?
Q. I never thought that I'd ask such a question, but here goes...this is a friendship question, not a relationship question. I live in a trailer park with my mom. I play games outside with little kids sometimes such as board games like scrabble, Life, ...
A. 27 July 2009: Sorry but this whole thing sounds like grade school to me. If you truly are a grown woman why on earth are you hanging around little kids all the time "playing" with them? And why would you care what a bunch of little kids say about you anyway? Play ... (read in full...)
Do I tell my wife I haven't really ended the affair?
Q. I have recently separated from my wife after I had an affair, I told my wife that I was no longer seeing the other woman, to save her any further upset, but I am still seeing her and want to be with her, my wife sends me malicious emails, texts and ...
A. 27 July 2009: Is this a same sex "marriage"? Just wondering since you posted as a female.... (read in full...)
I've been married 15 years and am having an affair
Q. I thought maybe it could have been just a one time incident, but now we have had sex three times sneaking away about once ever three weeks. I have been married for 15 years and never thought I would do this. I have always had men find me ...
A. 27 July 2009: Exactly right Sincerely Yours, to the poster, what do you want from the aunts? Affirmation or castigation? And by the way, this scenario is very familiar...perhaps it's a re-posting?... (read in full...)
Life has too many curve balls...so unsure of what to do!
Q. Oh where to start with my ordeal. About 8 months ago I split up with my Ex Fiance. For about 6 months before we broke up I had a suspicion that her and a co-worker had something going on. Between the constant phone calls daily and the texts between ...
A. 27 July 2009: yeaaaaa Granny Clampet alive and well!... (read in full...)
Life has too many curve balls...so unsure of what to do!
Q. Oh where to start with my ordeal. About 8 months ago I split up with my Ex Fiance. For about 6 months before we broke up I had a suspicion that her and a co-worker had something going on. Between the constant phone calls daily and the texts between ...
A. 27 July 2009: Hey sis, you SURE it was dead and not just playing...possum?... (read in full...)
He says he wants to be with his family but calls his mistress every chance he has!
Q. help me! i was with my ex husband for 37 years and during that marriage he had a mistress for 30 years . when he left me the last time i got the divore . he had left me 3 times before! i believed the words of god (only on to him) and look what ...
A. 27 July 2009: You have to accept that he will never commit to just you. If you can accept this then fine, take him back, but if you can't then don't let him back into your life. Out of your thirty seven year marriage you only had him (and that's iffy too) for ... (read in full...)
Help - I've had limited experience, and I'm attracted to an older woman.
Q. I'm 24 and attracted to a 36 year old woman. just recently moved to a new city. We were introduced by a mutual friend. She is incredibly attractive, went to an ivy league college, and has an amazing journalism career. We went to the movies the other ...
A. 27 July 2009: He's got a mother? LOL... (read in full...)
Help - I've had limited experience, and I'm attracted to an older woman.
Q. I'm 24 and attracted to a 36 year old woman. just recently moved to a new city. We were introduced by a mutual friend. She is incredibly attractive, went to an ivy league college, and has an amazing journalism career. We went to the movies the other ...
A. 27 July 2009: opps that's HOW... (read in full...)
Help - I've had limited experience, and I'm attracted to an older woman.
Q. I'm 24 and attracted to a 36 year old woman. just recently moved to a new city. We were introduced by a mutual friend. She is incredibly attractive, went to an ivy league college, and has an amazing journalism career. We went to the movies the other ...
A. 27 July 2009: He's a wascully wabbit, but he knows hwo to make good gravy...just ask him...I dare anybody... (read in full...)
Help - I've had limited experience, and I'm attracted to an older woman.
Q. I'm 24 and attracted to a 36 year old woman. just recently moved to a new city. We were introduced by a mutual friend. She is incredibly attractive, went to an ivy league college, and has an amazing journalism career. We went to the movies the other ...
A. 27 July 2009: ...he certainly has a way with words doesn't he!!!!... (read in full...)
Why does he want to marry me if he treats me so badly?
Q. I have been dating a man for about a year and a half. He has had a very tough year due to unemployment and has become very discouraged in just about every aspect of his Life. In order to try and provide what I can for solidarity to the relations...
A. 27 July 2009: Two of the wisest aunts responded with excelent advice. Let me add my humble opinion...whatever you do DO NOT MARRY this guy. Verbal abuse is usually the beginning of the spiral down to physical abuse.... (read in full...)
What DearCupid means to me
Q. I wanted to take the time to say a bit about how Dear Cupid has had a positive impact on my life. Well, I first joined this site in April. I had some free time on my hands, as I had to give up my demanding college course so I could focus on r...
A. 27 July 2009: That was sweet. Now get back to work...so many postings, so little time. :P... (read in full...)
Why does he want to hang out with me when he has a wife, a kid, and another on the way?
Q. hey everyone. i am a 17 year old girl and im having an issue. I like this guy named Tony who is 26 years old and he used to work as a security guard for my school. When he was working for my school i used to skip class andhang out with him and we ...
A. 27 July 2009: Well then it's obvious what you have to do. Tell him to look you up after he gets his divorce. This is NOT a friendship by the way, this is grooming a lover. Don't waste anymore of your time with someone else's husband.... (read in full...)
Why does this young girl act this way? Why do I let it bother me?
Q. I never thought that I'd ask such a question, but here goes...this is a friendship question, not a relationship question. I live in a trailer park with my mom. I play games outside with little kids sometimes such as board games like scrabble, Life, ...
A. 27 July 2009: Are you really 22 or older? Are you on medication? Are you a troll?... (read in full...)
He whispered another woman's name during sex
Q. My husband had been sleeping soundly for several hours when I came to bed late. He initiated sex and during the course of having sex he whispered another woman's name. I think he was having an erotic dream. I didn't recognize the name, when I a...
A. 27 July 2009: This happened to me after I was first married, not the sex part but my husband whispering another female's name in his sleep. He whispered "Suzie...Suzie...Suzie" and then he kind of chuckled like he was enjoying himself. I was soooo upset, I didn't ... (read in full...)
What do you buy for a 4 year old who has everything?
Q. My 4 year old son is soon to graduate from his private nursery school,and as you can imagine its going to be a very emotional event especially for mums and dads but not for his dad as he is very reluctant to take any real interest in his son`s life ...
A. 27 July 2009: Wait I have another idea, why not donate money to your local food bank in his name? That way he can help some other 4 year olds that go hungry everyday.... (read in full...)
My BF says if I loved him I would have sex with him
Q. I'm 19 and my boyfriend is 39. he said he loves me and if I loved him I would have sex with him. what should i do?...
A. 23 July 2009: It's blackmail, don't be a sucker.... (read in full...)
What do you buy for a 4 year old who has everything?
Q. My 4 year old son is soon to graduate from his private nursery school,and as you can imagine its going to be a very emotional event especially for mums and dads but not for his dad as he is very reluctant to take any real interest in his son`s life ...
A. 23 July 2009: Maybe a nice frame for his diploma?... (read in full...)
Why put on a dating website "just looking for friends"?
Q. So, I have a profile on a dating website. I found a really interesting guy so I messaged him. We messaged back and forth for a while, until I noticed his relationship status was "unknown". So it turns out he has a girlfriend and is just looking for ...
A. 23 July 2009: You don't go to the ice cream shop when you are shopping for shoes.... (read in full...)
I need a man I can call my own!
Q. hi i am with a married man but the thing is that he an his wife lives 1000 miles apart 4 the summer an christmas they hook up an i am left on the back burner till i see himm again i do love him an i no he loves me but i cannot handle being the ...
A. 23 July 2009: Cut bait and move to another fishing pond, one that has only single fish.... (read in full...)
After 11 years he left me for another woman but I don't think he knows what he wants!
Q. my boyfriend left me just before christmas after 11 years he moved straight in with her after only knowing her for 3 weeks and this is true as she told my ex sister in law that they been together for that period so i know its true. she has a 8 year ...
A. 23 July 2009: I think I would change my locks and then continue to stay busy. He really doesn't sound like much of a prize to me. Do you honestly think having back would make you happy? He most likely will pull this stunt over and over again.... (read in full...)
What do the labia look like?
Q. this is libia question when one of my friends puts on a bathing suit there is a little lump..kinda like an arch stretching down. i think it is her libia. does this happen to all girls? and What is it? [Moderator note: the following question w...
A. 22 July 2009: You posted this yesterday and Tish gave you a great response and even a website to check out. I think you are asking just to ask.... (read in full...)
Should I call the maths teacher I'm in love with?
Q. I am 17 and in college. I am in love with my Maths teacher, we talk all the time, I feel so much love for him its untrue. I think he has feelings for me too. We have finished college for the summer and he gave me his mobile number and home address...
A. 22 July 2009: If you want him to lose his job then by all means, go round, text him, call him. Or you can do him a huge favor and just hang with your friends this summer.... (read in full...)
I gained a baby but lost my period. Is this a problem?
Q. my pregnancy end it a year ago a got a healthy 1 year old baby but up to now i did not get my period back. there is any problem with me? ...
A. 22 July 2009: or girl...I need a drink....... (read in full...)
I gained a baby but lost my period. Is this a problem?
Q. my pregnancy end it a year ago a got a healthy 1 year old baby but up to now i did not get my period back. there is any problem with me? ...
A. 22 July 2009: Oh and congrats on your bouncing baby boy!... (read in full...)
I gained a baby but lost my period. Is this a problem?
Q. my pregnancy end it a year ago a got a healthy 1 year old baby but up to now i did not get my period back. there is any problem with me? ...
A. 22 July 2009: Trust me I know from experience, even though you are nursing and are not having periods, YOU CAN STILL GET KNOCKED UP! Ask any Catholic. Talk to your doctor.... (read in full...)
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