A
female
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:my boyfirend made a comment the other day about my weight. He said I looked so good when I was skinny. The other night I was eating a piece of chocolate and he said your never going to lose weight if you keep treating yourself to sweets. He used to be so nice to me when I was skinnier now he doesn't even comment if I'm wearing something nice. He used to grab me playfully too but not now he doesn't even smile at me anymore. I'm so heartbroken
View related questions:
heartbroken, lose weight Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
female
reader, MonicaC  +, writes (31 August 2009):
 If the person you are with is treating you like crap because of your size, then you are doing yourself no favors by staying with that person. Life is brief. It is so brief that you almost can't believe it. And, for my money, nobody on this earth has enough time to waste with someone who doesn't love them for exactly what and who they are. The thing is, girlfriend, you have got to be woman enough to tell him to piss off. And, that is EXACTLY what you should do.
A
male
reader, Ifyoudontmind +, writes (31 August 2009):
Weight gain is tricky. I mean, being overweight it difficult. Maybe he is saying it not only for physical attraction, but most likely for your well being as well.My fiance has been gaining weight , and she hates it, so together we both started to work on it and we are so happy with it. Maybe join a gym together, thats what we are doing and its fantastic. It makes me more fun, its working together plus seeing the results is fantastic!She compliments the differences and when I see them in her I do the very same. I let her know how amazing she looks. Try it out!good luck-iydm
...............................
A
female
reader, jessycat +, writes (31 August 2009):
 this is so sad .. you poor girl .. you dont deserve to be treated like this because of your weight ..
something i read on here the other day is .." if you find yourself in love ..ask yourself if you would still love this person if thier face was ripped off ..if you can answer yes to this ..your really in love "
.. Looks fade .. people gain weight .. and if someone truly loves you none of this should matter !! stay true to yourself !!
...............................
A
female
reader, r0ckah0l1c +, writes (31 August 2009):
As women age their bodies change, unless you're 20lbs overweight I would talk to him about how the things he says affect your self esteem. Maybe still eat what you like, but in moderation and count calories. Women over 25 need no more than 1600 calories a day with plenty of fruits, vegetables, and fiber.
...............................
A
female
reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (31 August 2009):
 Just curious, how much weight have you gained? Are you healthy?
...............................
|
