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If a girl says 'thank you' after you've been on a date, does it mean it's over? And how do I ask a girl from school out?

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Question - (31 August 2009) 5 Answers - (Newest, 31 August 2009)
A male age 30-35, anonymous writes:

[Mod note - two seperate questions were from the same poster, so I have combined both]

Q1:

im gonna ask this girl out. im 15, shes 16. I know her from school. Ask her out

at school? If I do ask her out

at school it cant be nothing super huge or fancy.

what are some tips on exactly how to approach her and what to say?

i want it to be really cute.

Q2:

If a girl says thank you after a date, its over, isn't it?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2009):

Q 1) Get her alone, make a little small talk and then hit her with the "we should go out some time, watchu doing on friday'' line. Be confident, witty and just plain charming. SHE IS SIXTEEN SO BE MATURE. Oh and yeah coffee is bad, forget age, do you what that will do 2 your breath! Cinema is okay but walk her home after because you barely get any talk time when watching a movie.

Q2) It means thank you. DON'T over think something like that because not everything she says is a secret code...good luck

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A female reader, jessycat United States +, writes (31 August 2009):

jessycat agony auntCoffee?? at this age lol !!

no ask her to a movie .. and i do agree with eyes wide open to do it alone :) that way no one gets embarassed..

if a girl says thank you it doesnt mean its over .. it means she had a good time .. and she just wants to thank you for the date :)

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (31 August 2009):

eyeswideopen agony auntQ2 Saying Thank You after a date means she has manners. It's just being polite it doesn't necessarily mean the kiss of death.

Q1 Try to get her alone when you ask. Don't be so cute that you come across as being looney. Just ask her to go out for some coffee.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2009):

I wouldn't ask this other person out just yet. If the girl you had a date with, said thank you afterwards, it sounds to me like she had a good time, appreciated it, and may like to do it again.

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A female reader, kahlan United Kingdom +, writes (31 August 2009):

kahlan agony auntQ1.First make sure shes on her own and not with a group of her friends.Just ask her if she fancies going out sometime.If she says yes, i dont know,Is there somewhere quiet and nice where you could take her.Make up a wee picnic or something.I would have liked that at her age.Only try not to take her to a local make out point or whatever you call it, so she doesnt think you are after her for just one thing.

Q2.Maybe the girl said thank you meaning she had a nice time.

Hope this helps, Kahlan.

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