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Why has my bf started calling me by my surname?? I find it a little odd!

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Question - (1 September 2009) 7 Answers - (Newest, 1 September 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

my boyfriend has started calling me by my surname - like 'alright smith' - just think its a little funny - what does that mean?!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2009):

Hahah...I've got that surname actually, I get it too sometimes :) it can be annoying but I just ignore it, because they don't mean to offend me or anything! If he knows it winds you up then he's just teasing you :)

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A female reader, TasteofIndia United States +, writes (1 September 2009):

TasteofIndia agony auntI call my fella by his last name. It's just the nickname I have for him... and while I call him "snugglemuffin" in the occasional moments, his last name is his favorite pet name that I call him. So to me, it's a very sweet nickname.

If it really bothers you, why not say something like, "why so formal, Johnson (insert his last name there)? That's what teachers call me, not my boyfriend!" or something far more clever...

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A reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2009):

Ok smith, lol! My mum does it to me (masterson) when she's in a witty mood. That could be what it is with him.

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A female reader, Emilysanswers United Kingdom +, writes (1 September 2009):

He's just playing, taking the micky and being friendly.

If you are so insecure about your relationship that you have to come to problem pages hunting for deeper meaning in something this small then I think you need to take a look in the mirror and chill out.

Good Luck!! xx

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A female reader, Msblessed United States +, writes (1 September 2009):

Msblessed agony auntIf you don't like it just let him know

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A female reader, eyeswideopen United States +, writes (1 September 2009):

eyeswideopen agony auntHe probably heard somebody do this and thought it was cool, if it bugs you then tell him to knock it off.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2009):

I do it to people i am close as it suggests a familarity that others may not have - but perhaps thats just me :)

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