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writes:My mom has been married 4 a while now and i never liked the idea of marrying some one other then my dad soo now its been 9 years and i have gottten over it but now i feel my stepdad is cheating on my mom and don't no 4 sure but it sure does seem like it soo what should i do just stay out of it or try 2 find outt if he's cheating or nott Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 June 2017): You should find out...... Ask him if you could see his phone to call your auntie or cousin then go through his messages then you will find out..
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 September 2009): if you do not have concrete proof you need to get it. maybe your mum is walking around with blinkers regarding her husband, and slowly you need to bring it to her attention. maybe a little word here or there. question discretly.
far too aften we tell kids not to get involved. however when the sh1t hits the fan and kids lives are destroyed we still expect them to butt out. this is not fair on them. kids have a voice and they have to be heard. so if you suspect something, you owe it to your mother to tell her.
but whatever you do, just be SURE that he is cheating. or else the trust will be gone bet your mum and yourself. also don't let her hb know that you are checking up on him.
girl, if you don't look out for your mum, who will?
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (31 August 2009):
 It really is none of your business, it's strictly your mother's and step-dad's. Wives have an uncanny ability to feel that "cheating spouse" vibe. Sometimes for their own reasons they ignore it. If indeed your step-dad is cheating and your mother is choosing to ignore it, your bringing it up could possibly force her into doing something she isn't ready to do just yet. Your wisest move would be to keep your mouth shut and let the chips fall where they may.
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 August 2009): find out! It seems that you have nothing to found your suspicions on!
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reader, Perspicacious +, writes (31 August 2009):
What is it that makes you think that he is?
If it's just a feeling then it would be best to keep it to yourself for now. It would be unwise to cause problems in their marriage without having a very good reason to do so!
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