I gained a baby but lost my period. Is this a problem?
Q. my pregnancy end it a year ago a got a healthy 1 year old baby but up to now i did not get my period back. there is any problem with me? ...
A. 22 July 2009: or girl...I need a drink....... (read in full...)
I gained a baby but lost my period. Is this a problem?
Q. my pregnancy end it a year ago a got a healthy 1 year old baby but up to now i did not get my period back. there is any problem with me? ...
A. 22 July 2009: Oh and congrats on your bouncing baby boy!... (read in full...)
I gained a baby but lost my period. Is this a problem?
Q. my pregnancy end it a year ago a got a healthy 1 year old baby but up to now i did not get my period back. there is any problem with me? ...
A. 22 July 2009: Trust me I know from experience, even though you are nursing and are not having periods, YOU CAN STILL GET KNOCKED UP! Ask any Catholic. Talk to your doctor.... (read in full...)
I know we can work things out but he wants to throw in the towel, how do I put things right?
Q. How can I even attempt to move on with my life without the man I love so much, the father of my child and the man who has been a great stepfather and friend to my other children whom they all have love and respect for? The man who my family also res...
A. 22 July 2009: Sorry but if he isn't willing to work things out then what can you do? Once he leaves perhaps he may come to realize what he's given up but it is his decision whether to stay or go. As long as you have discussed this all with him, you really have no ... (read in full...)
Sister-in-law is showing she's very insecure by flirting.
Q. My sister-in-law has asked me out for what I thought was gratitude for taking care of her child some time ago. We have gone out twice. The last time instead she floored me claiming relationship problems she's having with my brother. That he's in ...
A. 22 July 2009: Very wise.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has feelings for her boss, but I wont accept three people in this relationship!
Q. I have been in a ten year relationship, a month ago my girlfriend told me she had developed strong feelings for her boss, he makes her have butterflies and all that stuff, she hasnt dared to tell him, but found out it was mutual, I told her to make ...
A. 22 July 2009: This thing your wife has for her boss sounds more like a crush rather than "love". I think a counselor will be able to point this out for her and help her deal with it. Sometimes it just takes an impartial outsider to put things in their proper ... (read in full...)
I know stuff will happen in my hot tub on Thursday, how do I know what to do and how do I control myself?
Q. heyy. i'm really nervous. i've got this guy coming round mine on thursday. we're going in my hot tub. i know stuff is going to happen and im so nervous about it. how do you give a blowjob? i dont want to do it wrong. this is really important. ...
A. 21 July 2009: Yikes he's not even your boyfriend???Just some guy????... (read in full...)
I want to continue my friendship with my teacher but I want it to work romantically too!
Q. I love a teacher of mine. I wasn't even sure what the feeling was until my mom identified it. (I talk about him with her; my age difference with my teacher is the same as my mom's with my dad.) He's 12- 13 years older than me, but even so, we conn...
A. 21 July 2009: If you have read all the teacher crush postings and none of them helped then I guess you are SOL because we've had a gazillion of them and the aunts and uncles pretty much advise the same thing. You will look back on this and have a good laugh some ... (read in full...)
I know stuff will happen in my hot tub on Thursday, how do I know what to do and how do I control myself?
Q. heyy. i'm really nervous. i've got this guy coming round mine on thursday. we're going in my hot tub. i know stuff is going to happen and im so nervous about it. how do you give a blowjob? i dont want to do it wrong. this is really important. ...
A. 21 July 2009: Exactly, honey. Uncle Phil and I don't want you to rush into the world of sex at such a tender young age.... (read in full...)
How do I come clean to my mum that the condom she found was mine and my boyfriend's?
Q. my mom found a condom that me and my boyfriend used but i couldnt find any excuse but to tell her that it was one of my friends from work that put it in my bag but i find it hard to believe that she believed me and im 16! i dont know how to tell her ...
A. 21 July 2009: Trust me, she already figured everything out. I love how teenagers think their parents are just so stupid,heh heh. However she probably would appreciate you telling her the truth, it will show her you are gaining some maturity.... (read in full...)
Boyfriend's blue balls.....he says if I don't give him head he will leave me!
Q. My boyfriend says every time we hang out he gets blue balls and is in pain for hours, even days. It causes him headaches and muscle cramps too. I do plenty of sexual things for him almost every time we hang out. He's tried masturbating beforehand, ...
A. 21 July 2009: Three thing you can't escape in this life...
death, taxes, and some idiot guy trying out the blue balls story on some trusting sweet young thing. Trust me doll, if guys really suffered from this dread disease, you'd see guys curled up in the feta... (read in full...)
I know stuff will happen in my hot tub on Thursday, how do I know what to do and how do I control myself?
Q. heyy. i'm really nervous. i've got this guy coming round mine on thursday. we're going in my hot tub. i know stuff is going to happen and im so nervous about it. how do you give a blowjob? i dont want to do it wrong. this is really important. ...
A. 21 July 2009: Exactly. I think you are totally uncomfortable about this whole thing. Definitely not ready.... (read in full...)
How do we stop fighting over every little thing?
Q. Hello Cupid, I've been with my online boyfriend for 14 months. A big problem is that fight constantly!!! We fight about the smallest things ever but we still love each other just as much. We are very jealous people, and we tell each other to bl...
A. 21 July 2009: Jeeze Louise, what's wrong with this sentence..."We get along wonderfully when we're not fighting." and this one "it causes us to fight constantly."? I really don't see a way for your relationship to get healthy. It's only an online relationship ... (read in full...)
Is sending jokes with sexual innuendo to other females a sign of something more?
Q. Do you think that sending jokes with sexual innuendo by email or text to another woman is a sign that my husband is having an affair? One of the text jokes he had already sent to me and I said how funny it was then caught him out forwarding it to ...
A. 21 July 2009: Is this post yours scrambled brain?... (read in full...)
Questions abot the female form!
Q. i feel weird asking this this but does the libia of the vagina "stick out". because a few people when they are in their swim suits something sticks out a little and i was wondering if it was her libia...and what is a hymen?...
A. 21 July 2009: One can only hope Uncle Phil...... (read in full...)
I know stuff will happen in my hot tub on Thursday, how do I know what to do and how do I control myself?
Q. heyy. i'm really nervous. i've got this guy coming round mine on thursday. we're going in my hot tub. i know stuff is going to happen and im so nervous about it. how do you give a blowjob? i dont want to do it wrong. this is really important. ...
A. 21 July 2009: Ask your mom where you can get some condoms I'm sure she can steer you to the right place.... (read in full...)
Sister-in-law is showing she's very insecure by flirting.
Q. My sister-in-law has asked me out for what I thought was gratitude for taking care of her child some time ago. We have gone out twice. The last time instead she floored me claiming relationship problems she's having with my brother. That he's in ...
A. 21 July 2009: You've gotten excellent advice. You are treading on very thin ice Buddy. Don't end up losing a brother over this.... (read in full...)
My partner wont divorce his wife!
Q. I have been in a relationship for over 2 years now I am 52 and he is 62, i was married when i was 19 and left my husband 5 years ago, this is my first proper relationship since then, I was wary at the beginning about going into a relationship, but ...
A. 21 July 2009: He pays his wife to clean his house??... (read in full...)
How do I let him know that I am ready for a serious relationship?
Q. i'm a 18 year old guy, im fed up of sleeping around and really want to settle! theres this guy i want to try a relationship with, we have known each other for 4 years and he is just turning 20 in a few months. the only problem is he thinks ...
A. 21 July 2009: Tell him the proof is in the pudding. Ask him to give it a try.... (read in full...)
Do girls like guys that write poetry?
Q. hey im 14 and i hate to boast but im quite a poet. i also write songs and i have even wrote a book. but the problem is i was wondering do girls like this in a guy or do they think that it is stupid? please help me because i dont know....
A. 21 July 2009: FYI that should be "I have even WRITTEN a book".... (read in full...)
I know stuff will happen in my hot tub on Thursday, how do I know what to do and how do I control myself?
Q. heyy. i'm really nervous. i've got this guy coming round mine on thursday. we're going in my hot tub. i know stuff is going to happen and im so nervous about it. how do you give a blowjob? i dont want to do it wrong. this is really important. ...
A. 21 July 2009: You must be able to hold your breath for a really really really long time! A blow job in a hot tub sounds like a potential drowning to me. I'd be nervous too if I were you.... (read in full...)
How do I let him know that I am ready for a serious relationship?
Q. i'm a 18 year old guy, im fed up of sleeping around and really want to settle! theres this guy i want to try a relationship with, we have known each other for 4 years and he is just turning 20 in a few months. the only problem is he thinks ...
A. 21 July 2009: So tell him already. What's the big deal?... (read in full...)
I hate smoking more than I love him.
Q. I had always known my boyfriend smoked when he went out to pubs and clubs but it didn't bother me. Now 6 years later he has changed jobs to an outdoor job and seems to be smoking here and there. I'm gutted cos i thought our relationship was ...
A. 21 July 2009: You've answered your own question, my dear. You hate smoking more than you love him. There you go.... (read in full...)
My girlfriend has a past which I find hard to deal with, any help will be great.
Q. hello im 15 in a great relationship with a girl my age , shes a lovely person and beautifully looking but it hurts me sometimes when i think of her past because she has slept around and sent dirty pictures to alot of my friends, i wan to get over ...
A. 20 July 2009: All I can say is how sad it is to hear that a girl your age could possibly even have a past! I very much doubt you will ever be able to see her as anything else but damaged goods. We get posts from guys in your situation all the time and try as we ... (read in full...)
We didnt use a condom, could I be pregnant?
Q. hey, Me and my boyfriend had sex without a condom about 2 weeks ago, I know we should have used a one we normally always do, it was just a spur of the moment thing. He didn't cum inside me but I'm worried I might be pregnant but I haven't had any ...
A. 20 July 2009: Just wait until you miss your next period then take a pregnancy test. Speaking of tests wouldn't be nice if everybody had to pass a test on human reproduction before they started screwing around?... (read in full...)
My new boyfriend wants to meet my ex! I'm very nervous about this...
Q. So, my boyfriend of about 15 months wants to meet my ex-boyfriend. I dated the ex for 8 years and we have a 6 year old together. The ex-boyfriend caused some major drama in the begining of the relationship which I did "sugar-coat" some things....... ...
A. 20 July 2009: Sorry but that still doesn't make sense. He's going to have to put up with your ex since you have a child together. Your boyfriend just has to accept this and learn to live with it, and he will if he truly cares about you. What possible good will ... (read in full...)
My new boyfriend wants to meet my ex! I'm very nervous about this...
Q. So, my boyfriend of about 15 months wants to meet my ex-boyfriend. I dated the ex for 8 years and we have a 6 year old together. The ex-boyfriend caused some major drama in the begining of the relationship which I did "sugar-coat" some things....... ...
A. 20 July 2009: Why does he want to meet the ex? Does he need a credit reference? I mean come on, this sounds rather weird to me.... (read in full...)
Is there an instrument that detects infidelity?
Q. if i have sex with another man will my husband know? i hear there is an instrument which detects that on this date you had sex with another man is it true? please assist?...
A. 20 July 2009: All I can tell you is if someone is trying to sell you this "instrument"...don't buy it.... (read in full...)
Having an affair with a married man and don't know what to do. I just want to be happy!
Q. I am sitting here with a very heavy heart . I have fallen for a married man and don't know what to do . To be honest I'm not sure if you'd say I was " in love " with him .... but very much " in like " . We have been friends on and off for years ...
A. 20 July 2009: Who said anything about "winning"? Not me certainly. I'll even go so far as to say this, everyone involved in an affair is a loser. But there is only one victim.... (read in full...)
Having an affair with a married man and don't know what to do. I just want to be happy!
Q. I am sitting here with a very heavy heart . I have fallen for a married man and don't know what to do . To be honest I'm not sure if you'd say I was " in love " with him .... but very much " in like " . We have been friends on and off for years ...
A. 20 July 2009: "If I hadn't allowed my work to come between me and my wife, she may never have sought another man's affection." Ahhh but she DID choose didn't she?! You can blame yourself and make excuses for her bad decison if you want to but lots and lots of ... (read in full...)
Having an affair with a married man and don't know what to do. I just want to be happy!
Q. I am sitting here with a very heavy heart . I have fallen for a married man and don't know what to do . To be honest I'm not sure if you'd say I was " in love " with him .... but very much " in like " . We have been friends on and off for years ...
A. 20 July 2009: Sorry...but all parties in an affair are victims? Baloney. The cheaters CHOSE to cheat. I'm a firm believer in human volition. There is only ONE victim and that is the person who was cheated upon. Pure and simple, over and out.... (read in full...)
My ex is now pregnant with my dad's baby!
Q. My ex-girlfriend and I lived together for about three years. We ended up having a son together, and then we broke up shortly after. She has custody of my son, while I pay support and visit him on weekends. The weird thing is she is now my dad's ...
A. 20 July 2009: Wow, definitely talk to a lawyer about this Jerry Springer-like situation. Most certainly not a healthy environment for your son.... (read in full...)
My dad won't let me and my boyfriend sleep in the same bed, and he keeps checking on us! What can I do?
Q. I am 19, my boyfriend is 19, we have been together for 5 years. the problem is: My dad wont allow us to sleep together in the same bed! i have been respectful towards my dad for years always going to sleep on the couch a couple times a week ...
A. 20 July 2009: I only wish there were more parents like your father. He has my respect that's for sure. One day you'll see where he's coming from.... (read in full...)
My ex has a new girlfriend, how do I get him to date me again without being the reason they break up?
Q. ok so my ex who im really not over called me a few days ago and said he hates his gf and needs help on breaking up with her. i said ok?? but the thing is he has called every night since then. and i always answer and he always says i love you. so the ...
A. 20 July 2009: I agree with Satin, this is totally infantile. If you are confused you'd best go get yourself some ginkgo biloba I heard it can improve one's cognitive abilities.... (read in full...)
I'm pregnant...but who is the father??
Q. i am 10wks and 6days pregnant, i broke up with my boyfriend on the 15th may 2009 but we continued sleeping together unprotected, however, on the 21st may 2009 i slept with another guy, i used a condom and no splits or tears were noticable but i am ...
A. 20 July 2009: After the baby is born do a paternity test. Either guy could be the father. ... (read in full...)
Help! I'm in love with a guy 7 years older than me!
Q. it all started when he became a youth leader for my youth club we chatted and stuff and it was fun. then i started going to the church their with my friend who also feels she is in love with him. he helped me convert my life to become a christian ...
A. 20 July 2009: I'm sure he doesn't consider you to be more than a friend. I know you are crushing on him but try to control your vivid imagination. Enjoy the great times with all the kids in the youth group!... (read in full...)
Should we just have sex to get it over with?
Q. Should we just have sex to get it over? I am married and he is in a relationship. We are long for each other for almost a year now. He is going crazy because I try to avoid him and I am suffer from trying to do the right thing....
A. 20 July 2009: If you think you are suffering from doing the right thing, I can guarantee you will be in agony for doing the wrong thing with this guy. Stay smart.... (read in full...)
Do girls love long necks?
Q. Do girls think a long neck is sexy? My neck is 5 1/4 inches long and I have a nice tan on it. I am the only one in my family to have such a long neck. ...
A. 20 July 2009: I like long necks on my beer bottles, keeps the beer cold.... (read in full...)
How do you know if he is single or taken?
Q. how can you know if a guy is single or taken without asking them?is there a way to find out their relationship status?if you have any idea,please answer....
A. 15 July 2009: No other way, especially at your age, except to ask.... (read in full...)
Would you date someone who was the wrong star sign?
Q. would you avoid dating someone that was the wrong starsign? im seeing a man whose supposed to bethe worst match for me yet we love each other to bits, yet i keep thinking if we were together full time we wouldnt work..any views on this?...
A. 15 July 2009: Been happily married for 34 years to the "wrong sign".... (read in full...)
I went to far with my adoptive sister while drunk and now she hates me
Q. i cant believe im doing this, but here goes. Well, when i was 5, my dad was an alcoholic. He killed himself after he killed my mom. A year after the funeral i was adopted. I guess my childhood memories made me who i am right now. Im an alcoholic, im ...
A. 15 July 2009: Start attending AA meetings. Maybe once she sees you are trying to get your life under control and are off the sauce, she will forgive you.... (read in full...)
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