Does he like me, or just the idea of someone liking him?
Q. Theres this guy who works with my dad that i think is really cute and funny and i think he knows i like him but he never seems interested. Hes normally very shy but recently hes been talking to me on the internet and hes asked for my number and he ...
A. 7 October 2009: Well you made the first baby step by asking him to the party. Next up you will just have to find the courage to speak to him. Take a deep breath and walk over and say hi. Things will be much easier once the ice is broken. You can do it, Sister. Be ... (read in full...)
How can I convince my mum and dad to allow me to spend time with my boyfriend alone?
Q. My mum and dad wont leave me and my boyfriend alone. Hes 17 and im 15. We do love each other. But were not aloud to be on our own in a house together and were not aloud upstairs. I want my mum and dad to stop worrying so much about it. I just want ...
A. 11 August 2009: It would make me very nervous seeing my daughter walk out the door and get into a car with a kid who has barely been driving a year. But I'd let her take the dog for a walk with the guy. Maybe you can ask your parents nicely and promise it would be ... (read in full...)
Trying to survive the family
Q. My entire family (sisters and their husbands/partners, nieces, nephew, father, etc.) is descending on me in a few days. There has been some tension because of how my mother's last days/months were handled, and other things. Now we will bury her ashe...
A. 11 August 2009: They will be leaving soon...They will be leaving soon...They will be leaving soon....They will be leaving soon...... (read in full...)
Are there risks in marrying a man whose never even kissed anyone else?
Q. Hello I was just wondering if there is any risk in marrying a man who hasn't even kissed or been with another woman sexually? Is there more likelihood for cheating and/or divorce? Thank you =)...
A. 10 August 2009: Threesomes and you aren't even married yet? Nice breeze from that flag waving in the wind, isn't it?!... (read in full...)
I'm In a terribly sad place in my marriage, and want to leave, but I don't know if it's the right thing to do
Q. I am in a terribly sad place and am looking for any advice from people who may have been through something similar. I was married in 1991 when I was 24 to a woman that is a few years older. Since then we have had 2 wonderful kids and lived a ...
A. 10 August 2009: I can't say whether she'll change or not but if you separate for awhile it may put some things in perspective for her as well as yourself. I wouldn't consider it to be walking out on your marriage just yet. And if you do decide to dissolve your ... (read in full...)
Do guys prefer slim girls to chubby girls?
Q. i wonder if guys like skinny girls more than chubby or fat ones?like one day it was this guy and he was in the restaurant sitting down then he will look at all the skinny girls and say hi and stuff.but when a fat girl went pass he didnt say ...
A. 10 August 2009: Yep and I'm for world peace too.... (read in full...)
Are there risks in marrying a man whose never even kissed anyone else?
Q. Hello I was just wondering if there is any risk in marrying a man who hasn't even kissed or been with another woman sexually? Is there more likelihood for cheating and/or divorce? Thank you =)...
A. 10 August 2009: It's all a matter of honor and integrity, both of which are not dependant on sexual prowess or the number of sexual encounters. They are character traits that are very valuable and crucial to good marriages.... (read in full...)
What are lube bottles?
Q. what are lube bottless?...
A. 10 August 2009: Just that, bottles with lubricant in them. There are personal lubricants, skin lubricants, automotive lubricants....... (read in full...)
I'm In a terribly sad place in my marriage, and want to leave, but I don't know if it's the right thing to do
Q. I am in a terribly sad place and am looking for any advice from people who may have been through something similar. I was married in 1991 when I was 24 to a woman that is a few years older. Since then we have had 2 wonderful kids and lived a ...
A. 10 August 2009: You need to separate from your wife for a while. It would be good for both of you to have some time apart to think things over. Consider it to be a trial separation if that will make it easier. It may end up being permanent but I think you will both ... (read in full...)
I want to run away with my boyfriend because my parents wont accept him!
Q. hi everyone i wrote a few weeks ago about my parents not accepting my boyfriend. and me and my boyfriend have decided that we want to leave except ill be running away from home but his parents will know im scared and there is something that is hol...
A. 10 August 2009: I can't tell what country you are living in but unless it's some third world country your parents can't legally force you to return home if you don't want to go.... (read in full...)
How can I convince my mum and dad to allow me to spend time with my boyfriend alone?
Q. My mum and dad wont leave me and my boyfriend alone. Hes 17 and im 15. We do love each other. But were not aloud to be on our own in a house together and were not aloud upstairs. I want my mum and dad to stop worrying so much about it. I just want ...
A. 10 August 2009: The sister is right, your parents are just doing their job. You should be grateful you have such caring parents and if you don't see it that way right at the moment, some day I know you will. Enjoy the security they are giving you.... (read in full...)
Trying to survive the family
Q. My entire family (sisters and their husbands/partners, nieces, nephew, father, etc.) is descending on me in a few days. There has been some tension because of how my mother's last days/months were handled, and other things. Now we will bury her ashe...
A. 7 August 2009: When my family decends on me I find solice in drugs and alcohol. Just kidding, sort of... Anyway, I recommend you just keeping saying to yourself, "they will be leaving soon...they will be leaving soon". Hang in there, dear.... (read in full...)
If we are around each other for more than a few hours all we do is fight!
Q. i"m with my girlfriend for the last four years it used to be wonderful had great laughs really enjoyed each others company but now if we around each other for more than a few hours we do nothing but fight. i am hooked on golf i love the sport i am ...
A. 6 August 2009: You have to ask yourself the age old question, Are you better off WITH her or WITHOUT her? Once you decide that you will know what direction you need to go.... (read in full...)
Why is he putting his new girlfriend before his kids?
Q. Hi everyone, my partner of 20 yrs recently left me and our children for another women, what i'm finding really hard is that he is putting her needs before his childrens an example is that my kids wanted to see their father on a tuesday night bu...
A. 6 August 2009: The LAW says he has to pay child support, he isn't doing it because he's such a nice guy. Tell the idiot to clean out his own damn car and fork over the money or you'll take him to court.... (read in full...)
For women 50 and upwards, I need ideas for a fragrance for my partner!
Q. ..... For the attention of women between 50 upwards.... What sort of fragrances do you think you like to wear in the evening? Other than "Lilly of the Valley", I would like to get my partner something a bit more different....
A. 5 August 2009: I like BenGay. Makes me feel all warmy and fuzzy.... (read in full...)
I know what I want but I hate that I'm hurting my husband.
Q. Well, I've been writing on this same topic for 3 years now...for background read my other 2 posts... It is now 2009. A lot has changed in my life. I am still very much in love with my soul mate. However, he has now left the state. Before he moved ...
A. 5 August 2009: Have you started the process?... (read in full...)
Why is he putting his new girlfriend before his kids?
Q. Hi everyone, my partner of 20 yrs recently left me and our children for another women, what i'm finding really hard is that he is putting her needs before his childrens an example is that my kids wanted to see their father on a tuesday night bu...
A. 4 August 2009: Selfish people only think of themselves, and right now he's being very selfish. Try not to bad mouth him to his kids, you can only hope he will come around. I hope you are not in too much pain and can be strong while all this gets sorted out. Keep ... (read in full...)
I know what I want but I hate that I'm hurting my husband.
Q. Well, I've been writing on this same topic for 3 years now...for background read my other 2 posts... It is now 2009. A lot has changed in my life. I am still very much in love with my soul mate. However, he has now left the state. Before he moved ...
A. 4 August 2009: If you are positive your marriage is over then you need to separate from him and file for divorce. Leave your "soulmate" alone, totally alone. Let him either dissolve or try to rebuilt his own marriage. In other words let him decide ON HIS OWN what ... (read in full...)
Having sex outside - is this legal?
Q. Hi The thought of sex outdoors really turns me on and i really want it. However is it legal to have sex outdoors what would happen if we got caught? Thanks...
A. 3 August 2009: Do you have a tent?... (read in full...)
He wont have phone sex with me!
Q. So, this may be a silly question but it has been bugging me for a while now. I'm in a long distance relationship and have been for a while now. My boyfriend is my best friend and he's never been anything short of amazing to me. It hurts that he is ...
A. 3 August 2009: I personally don't think phone sex is weird but it sure falls way short of the real thing and I probably would feel uncomfortable doing/having it. Is the long distance between you a short-term condition? How often do you guys see each other? Why ... (read in full...)
We had sex and he ignored me. Now he trys contacting me. What to do?
Q. Theres a guy that i meet in janaury, we wasnt seeing each toher but we always spoke on facebook and text and we went cinema a few times and meet up. (Although i always felt like i was making the effort) But we got on so well. six months down the ...
A. 3 August 2009: He comes sniffing around every once in a awhile because he's horny and knows you've put out in the past so it's worth a try to schmooze you. Once he gets what he wants he'll be gone with the wind until he feels the urge to merge again. Don't be a ... (read in full...)
What can I get my mom for her birthday?
Q. todays is my moms b day.what do i gift her ?please and thanks in advance...
A. 3 August 2009: Find a picture of the two of you, any age, and get a nice picture frame. Mom's love that!... (read in full...)
Since my aunt and uncle found out about the bikini I wore in secret, they ridicule me and treat me like dirt! I don't know what to do...
Q. It all started because i wanted to try wearing a woman's one piece bikini which i purchased on the net, I would wear it only in the house, I live downstairs in my aunt and uncles house and pay very little rent and don't have very much money and not ...
A. 3 August 2009: You are a big boy, get a second job and move out. It's just plain nuts to stay there, at your age especially. It's a free country, check it out.... (read in full...)
We used to talk every day, and now it doesn't seem to bother him that we no longer speak! What the hell was that?
Q. Ok...I met a dude on myspace we talked for about a week then I told him I was gay he didnt seem very surprised..he just said he already was thinking that. I asked him if he minded and he said that he didnt really care much he said he was open minded ...
A. 3 August 2009: Forget about him, he's not interested.... (read in full...)
2 years without my ex and I still miss the relationship we had. Do I just need more time?
Q. Even after 2 years without my ex, I'm struggling to forget my feelings for her. I'm desperate to move on, and after all this time, I suppose I'm still trying to believe I will find someone better. My ex was very attractive, and for the two years I ...
A. 3 August 2009: Aww Sweetheart, I'm so sorry you are still suffering. Because you haven't contacted or seen her for so long perhaps she is becoming somebody more than human. You might be putting her on a pedestal and all her flaws are hazy all you see now if this ... (read in full...)
How do you pash?
Q. Hello. I'm 14 and I haven't pashed a guy. Well, I've had this one guy who lives cross the road from me try to pash me several times but for some reason I back away, I wanna pash him, but I'm scared for some reason. What do I do ? ...
A. 30 July 2009: I have a pen poised over the DC manual, somebody define please.... (read in full...)
2 years without my ex and I still miss the relationship we had. Do I just need more time?
Q. Even after 2 years without my ex, I'm struggling to forget my feelings for her. I'm desperate to move on, and after all this time, I suppose I'm still trying to believe I will find someone better. My ex was very attractive, and for the two years I ...
A. 30 July 2009: Is this you Andrew?... (read in full...)
Any advice on why she is acting crazy?
Q. What is worse - being cheated on by the man who said he wants to marry you, or having him accidentally break your nose during an argument? I want to be with my girlfriend more than anything in the world but she just doesn't understand me so...
A. 30 July 2009: I fervently hope that while you are visiting the folks in Italy she packs her bags and completely disappears from your life. Without a trace.... (read in full...)
Is he doing it to spite me
Q. Why do exes ignore you and avoid you at all costs after they have said we can be mates? . .. My ex has recently got together with a chick it broke my heart knowing he's moved on but it hurts a lot more that he's out of my life ..after we broke up he ...
A. 30 July 2009: I wouldn't waste any more time wondering about this guy. Time to focus on you and your life. Most people can't remain friends with their ex's especially after a painful breakup. It's over.... (read in full...)
Messy breakup is leaving me out of pocket!
Q. I just got dumped badly from my girl after 11 years. I am 29. We purchased an appartment 2 years ago and the home loan is in both our names. Her parents gave us $60000 towards the place when we bought it. She now wants to sell and her lawyers sent ...
A. 29 July 2009: Talk to a lawyer but it certainly sounds like you are screwed to me. This is exactly why couples should always keep their finances separate unless they are legally married. But in reality don't you think she should be entitled to money since it was ... (read in full...)
Does he like me, or just the idea of someone liking him?
Q. Theres this guy who works with my dad that i think is really cute and funny and i think he knows i like him but he never seems interested. Hes normally very shy but recently hes been talking to me on the internet and hes asked for my number and he ...
A. 29 July 2009: Ask him out for some coffee.... (read in full...)
An innocent flirtation, two months of fighting
Q. My girlfriend of two years won't let me go to an old job because she found out I flirted with a customer once. She found out looking through my emails at a message I sent to another friend, in which I told them the full story and even admitted that ...
A. 29 July 2009: Your girlfriend needs to take a chill pill. In these tough times you can't be too picky about jobs. Check it out they may not be hiring but if you can get work your girlfriend should be happy. She sounds rather controlling don't you agree?... (read in full...)
How can I help my mum with her depression?
Q. my mum just told me that shes really depressed and she has just gone onto anti deppressants. i dont know what to do. help?...
A. 29 July 2009: Be as good as you can, help out with the housework, maybe do some cooking, in general just be helpful. Depression once dianosed can be controlled and treated. Best of luck to both you and your mum. Things will get better.... (read in full...)
Does he like me, or just the idea of someone liking him?
Q. Theres this guy who works with my dad that i think is really cute and funny and i think he knows i like him but he never seems interested. Hes normally very shy but recently hes been talking to me on the internet and hes asked for my number and he ...
A. 29 July 2009: How old is this guy? Sounds kind of fishy if he doesn't speak to you in person or if Dad is around.... (read in full...)
Why does he keep pushing me away for other girls when we get on so well?!
Q. I really like this guy who I am friends with but hes not interested in me. Ive twice slept with him in the past but he made it clear he did not want a relationship so I left it at that but I stayed friends with him as we got on so well. Ive noticed ...
A. 29 July 2009: Sweetie Pie this relationship is never going to get off the ground. Stay friends but I think you need to accept that it will never be more.... (read in full...)
We want to have sex with another couple, is it fair to go ahead without the other husbands permission?
Q. i am 35 years old married person and my wife is 29 years beautiful and charming lady. actually we both like sex very much and we have sex almost daily. now we are feeling to change some the partner for sex not permanent just for change only. we both ...
A. 29 July 2009: What a devious plan, Uncle Phil! Hummm...might just work though. Of course if it doesn't work and this poster goes ahead and has sex with the wife's pal he may be risking the wrath of Khan from the lady's husband. I'd wear a bullet-proof vest just ... (read in full...)
My First Time
Q. So your first times suppose to be special, right?. You dream about finding that one lad who will sweep you off your feet and make all your dreams come true? WRONG. I was 15, gulliable and young.So innocent.The only time i'd ever mentioned sex wa...
A. 29 July 2009: Thanks for posting this! It is a great summation of sex at 15 or younger. Not the hearts and roses that young girls envision. However,you don't mention the other repercussions that can happen such as STDs, pregnancies, and of course the dreaded ... (read in full...)
I think I have some anger issues
Q. okay well i am 13. i been told i need to chill and that i have anger issues.. i dont get mad easily but sometimes the simplest things you say would make me want to punch you in the face.. i was in my room and i was feeling perfectly normal and...
A. 29 July 2009: I think that the only issue you may be suffering from is called puberty. Your body is going through some very drastic changes and hormones are surging and ebbing constantly. It is a very unsettling time in a person's life. I suggest you talk to your ... (read in full...)
What does he mean by saying they have a great 'personality'?
Q. Hi Everyone I would like to know: My husband (been married almost 10 y) always says the same thing... What does it mean?When he sees a naked woman, on TV or in the newspaper or in a magazine, he looks her up and down, and says: she looks like s...
A. 28 July 2009: My husband will fart and blame the dog, it bugs me big time. I've given up however and just painfully smile back at the goofy gus.... (read in full...)
Help its my first time today!
Q. okay..today is the day i have sex with my boyfriend and i'm scared because i don't know what to do with him and he wants me to be on top and i don't know anything about sex and he does not want to be on top of me because he is going to be tried and ...
A. 28 July 2009: He's going to be tried? For sex with a minor?... (read in full...)
Tips for New Parents!
Q. One of our agony aunts is going to have a baby soon, so I thought it might be nice to send her our best wishes and our tips, the practices on parenting that we have learned from our experiences! I'll start the ball rolling - - If you don't want a...
A. 28 July 2009: When dealing with a toddler's temper tantrum lower your voice so he/she has to turn down their screaming in order to hear what you are saying. Works like a charm.
Put a little sugar on the tip of a spoon or pacifier and touch baby's tongue t... (read in full...)
I keep having fantasies about my cousin, what do I do?
Q. For the past 2 years, i keep thinking about my cousin. I like him soo much!! i have fantasies from dating to sex. He's my 3rd cousin and he was adopted. And everytime i see him, i get nervous and i always want to be around him. Sometimes, i catch ...
A. 28 July 2009: How old is this cousin?... (read in full...)
Do men think about their female friends when they masterbate?
Q. I have this male friend who used to be a lover. Now we just hang out and occasionally kiss or touch each other. I pretty sure he used to masturbate thinking about me but it makes me curious if he still does. And I'm just curious in general if guys ...
A. 28 July 2009: Or in my case never trust a sneeze....... (read in full...)
What is a womans perspective on a threesome? Why does my girlfriend want one?
Q. What is my girlfriend looking for in a threesome? My girlfriend and I have been going out for over a year. We are very close, and have a really good relationship. My girlfriend asked me if we could try a threesome with another guy (no g...
A. 28 July 2009: If anyone doesn't know what "spit roasted" means, it's in the DC Manual after "butt plugs". Just FYI. To the poster, ask her if you can do a threesome with another female first. I'm just curious as to what her reaction would be.... (read in full...)
Is he lying about watching porn?
Q. I have been going out with my boyfriend for a while now, and think that i have caught him for the second time watching porn. The first time, i caught him in the action, however, the second time, i looked at his computer history and found some recent ...
A. 28 July 2009: You can't MAKE him stop, you can ASK him to stop. You also can walk away if he doesn't. If this is a deal breaker for you then you will just have to look for the rare fellow who doesn't enjoy porn now and again. Good luck.... (read in full...)
How do I avoid putting myself in a vulnerable position?
Q. I am anxious about sex and don't know what to do about it. I've always been nervous about it, because my family is somewhat strait-laced. Then, when I was a teenager, an old man once grabbed me in the market and kissed my cheek. That completely ...
A. 28 July 2009: Honey, you need to speak to a professional therapist about this fear. This is serious and is affecting your quality of life. Therapists are really easy to speak with they are trained to deal with these things. Perhaps if you found a female therapist ... (read in full...)
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