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... Send *indyCares a private message | | | *indyCares's profile:Hi everybody. I am an Italian woman currently living in Italy but I spent many years in England and USA. I hope my English is still decent but in case it got a little rusty, please be lenient.
My age ? Let say that I am way past the stage when you cry if the boy you like takes your best friend to the prom, and young enough to remember how awful that feels.
What qualifies me to help people- well, let me show off just a bit and mention that I studied Psychology 4 years in college, and, even if then I graduated in a different subject, I never lost my interest in psychology and kept reading a lot about this subject. Yet that does not really qualify me for anything because intellectual knowledge is not the same as real life experience. So let's say I feel I can advice people because I have lived a lot, travelled a lot, met a lot of people from all backgrounds , races and religions- I have loved a lot, and I have also been dumped a lot :)
Plus, I am really fascinated with people and their stories. Not in a gossipy way. I just find that every person is a whole new world that I am excited to discover.
Right now I am single- and happily so. I realized- better late than never - that rather than waiting for Prince Charming I should first become a Princess myself. You can't love anybody unconditionally, if first you don't love yourself unconditionally, and this is what I am learning to do.
Looking forward to hear from all of you..
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19 August 2014: Yeah I know : ultimately love is a mystery, not an exact science. There's always an element of sheer luck, of serendipity, of magic in it. Some times you do everything right, by the book, you are the perfect gf / wife / lover .. and you still get ...
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A. 28 July 2014: So the OP does not need therapy and telling her to seek professional help is " judgemental ".
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A. 20 July 2014: Are you really surprised ?...You said you've seen the BU coming for ages- your bf was distant, disrespectful and lived to make you miserable. He acted as if he hated you and showed he did not give a flying fuck.
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A. 19 July 2014: @ eric troy. Sure that at 19 the OP is / should be old enough to
" hold her drink ". When I was her age, to use your metaphor, I was not just " holding my drinks ", I was chugging them down with gusto, satisfaction and competence :).
Personal... (read in full...)
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A. 18 July 2014: Then tell him to go be an extra on a Woody Allen's movie set, it was Woody Allen who said " 80 % of success is showing up ". Case in pont, Woody Allen was not that great of a husband , at least for his first 2 wives.
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Why would my sexy sext stranger mention marriage, of all things?
Q. A guy I met online (from far faaar away) and I have been texting/sexting for about 2 and a 1/2 weeks now. I'm new to sexting and find that I'm enjoying it immensly - we seem to be very compatible. However I don't expect anything more of this. It's ...
A. 18 July 2014: Because it turns him on.
" like saying that if we were close he'd have to marry me to do so and so to me ".
You can bet he's having the most perfect wanks of his life over your texts, because they are like the captions oto a defloration fantasy-... (read in full...)
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A. 18 July 2014: Yeah, I am curious too to know HOW you will show him that you are not putting up with this.
What does it mean exactly , what will you do ?
Cry ?, sulk ? slam doors ? Go on a sex strike ?... Empty his bank account ?...
Whatever it is, it is cl... (read in full...)
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A. 18 July 2014: Because " healthy " is not necessarily one and the same with " esthetically outstanding, visually exciting ".
If you are , say 5'3 and 140, even 150, pounds, you are healthy- you are not obese, not much risk of coronary disease or joint dama... (read in full...)
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A. 18 July 2014: It makes lots of sense. At least from his point of view.
"Peace and relaxation " "Peace and quiet ". Anxiety and stressful job.
Haven't you noticed how the accent was heavily on these things ?... He comes to you for peace and relaxati... (read in full...)
I can't get a Bf, but is it because I think boys judge girls on their looks?
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A. 17 July 2014: Round of applauses for Fatherly Advice, I feel he is SO right.
I don't think any woman in their right mind would reject a guy BECAUSE he is nice and BECAUSE he is polite. I don't recall any woman yet,right off the top of my hat, who'd see bein... (read in full...)
My parents cant stand my relationship with my much older B/f. Should I even invite them to my wedding ?
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A. 17 July 2014: I respect the OP's opinion , and Chigirl's opinion,- it's Ok to have different opinions, and I stand by mine. We are talkng parents here !, not just some pesky neighbours next door.
Nothing ( always IMO of course ) denies the point of my firs... (read in full...)
What should I do? I have a tight family and this sort of falling out will be a huge deal but I'm also not going to give up on someone because of someone elses problem
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A. 17 July 2014: I agree with Janniepeg , I fnd a bit curious that a relative you only see twice a year should even be informed about the details of your love life, leave alone being so involved in it as to feel entitled censuring it. There's being a tight ... (read in full...)
They say I would have been rocked by a tree stump. Do they have a point?
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A. 17 July 2014: I am not sure I got the gist of your question. If you are strictly talking about the quality of his sexual performance and your enjoyement of the same, - what would your friends KNOW about it ? they weren't there , and they aren't you. You know ... (read in full...)
My parents cant stand my relationship with my much older B/f. Should I even invite them to my wedding ?
Q. My parents have never been supportive if my relationship with my older boyfriend. We have been dating for three years and he is 19 years older then me and was also a family friend before we started dating. Once we started dating they but me out o...
A. 17 July 2014: Of course you should, - that's just beng civil. They may not like your bf, but after all they are the people who have fed you and sheltered you and put clothes on your back so that you could be ALIVE long enough to meet your boyfriend.
If they... (read in full...)
I'm absolutely miserable at my job, what should I do when there are no tasks needing doing?
Q. I've been working a 9-5 summer internship/job for the summer - I do get paid, but on the downside, I'm absolutely miserable. I ask my supervisors for work, but they really don't have anything for me to do. When they give me work, I accomplish it, ...
A. 17 July 2014: You are only 18-21, you have no job experience, no special skills, and you get PAID. Not much, I guess, but you get PAID- a luck and a luxury for people in your age range in many countries of the world- including certain areas of yours.
And you ... (read in full...)
How to control rage issues, that have cost me my marriage?
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A. 16 July 2014: Counselors are human, they not always get it right at the first try. Your counselor might have thought in good faith that your problem had been solved and you did not need more counseling, but , obviously she was wtong. You do.
As for her not ... (read in full...)
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A. 16 July 2014: I think that the reason for going out is NOT, and should not be, just to find a boyfriend/ relationship or to get laid ! I think that man is a social animal, and everybody to some extent would enjoy / benefit from a variety of social, ... (read in full...)
Why do some men think porn stars are magical being?
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A. 16 July 2014: Why do some girls fall in love with / feel attracted to -men who think that porn stars are magical ?
Sorry, if it happens once is random, if it happens twice uhm, curious, if it keeps happening, then it's YOU.
Somehow you feel inclined only tow... (read in full...)
Why do "nice" guys complain that girls never want them when what the problem REALLY is, is that they keep going for the same type of girl?
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A. 16 July 2014: Lol, OP, then I must be an ass too then, because I have written here more or less the same many times...
As soon as a poster complains " girls won't give me a chance just because I am not tall, dark nd handsome and I do not have a six pack / a ... (read in full...)
Should I have sex to keep my boyfriend?
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A. 16 July 2014: Well, I would not know about the " legally chldren for 4 years " thing, I would not play it up. If anybody bothers to read my posts, they'll know that I am no big fan of underage sex, I think that having sex under 18 is unwise, and under 16.. ... (read in full...)
Been hiding my pregnancy for 5 months. How do I announce it to my family?
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A. 15 July 2014: Not to twist the knife into the wound, do not be surprised if you get negative comments from your father, beside his being old fashioned - the reality of the matter is that you are unemployed ergo, I suppose, incomeless and live off your older ... (read in full...)
My wife of 20 years invites a man to stay the night at our home? Is this weird?
Q. Hi, Is it strange that my wife of 20 years invites another man to stay the night at our house? She apparently arranged this visit several weeks back, but didn't let me know about the plans, ask for my opinion, nor tell me until a few days bef...
A. 15 July 2014: Call me stupid, but I think it COULD be innocent. When you travel you often make " travel friendships ", at some pont it's fatal that you let slip out, in conversations, "I am from Okefenokee, if you ever come to our neck in the woods, come and ... (read in full...)
We had an amazing weekend connection but now I haven't heard from him. Do I call?
Q. I met this really good looking guy at a friends BBQ last weekend. We hit it off instantly and chatted for hours. We ended the night by kissing. We live in different states and he spoke of me visiting him. We even talked about sex and how he wasn't ...
A. 15 July 2014: Lackluster explanation, but... a few drinks too many maybe ?. Or simply, a few drinks. Some people become very expressive and affectionate with a little social lubricant inside them, great plans are made, great instant connections are felt, ... (read in full...)
Was she reasonable to accuse me of emotional cheating?
Q. Here we go on the merry-go-round once again. Our relationship started to go down hill. I had been married before, and I admit to cheating, so I vowed not to make that same mistake again. So when I met V, I took my time and listened, when she said...
A. 15 July 2014: I'd say it depends , OP. It is true that it is also a matter of subjective perception , but in lack of a scientific, etched in granite definition of emotional cheating, there are common sense, rule of thumb , general social codes , which can't ... (read in full...)
Are people more likely to speak their minds when they are drunk?
Q. So ive got the inevitable question. Are people (espeically guys who are kinda of shy but just in general as well) more likely to tell their true feelings, and speak their mind when they're drunk or after even drinks? Is it true what they say th...
A. 15 July 2014: No. When they are drunk people are more likely to speak, period. It's not necessarily their mind. It's a fleeting, on the moment, impulsive thought or sensation, generally widely magnified by alcohol. Many drunks tend to be very effusive and ... (read in full...)
I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?
Q. I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...
A. 14 July 2014: OP, you must be pulling our leg, right ?, I can't believe you are serious.
I made the experiment for you, I googled "San Francisco escorts " and it gives : 5.400.000 results. I checked the first listing and it's an escort agencies ' dire... (read in full...)
Should I leave this FWB?
Q. We've now known eachother for 5 five and have been FWB for four. In the beginning, I was instantly attracted to her but due to certain anti-social qualities, I didn't want to be in a relationship. She was also attracted to me as well so she wanted ...
A. 14 July 2014: Yes. If she ONLY contacts you when she needs something from you, and does not even want to have sex with you ( not that I would approve of repayng favours with sex, from a moral standpoint , but at least, you'd get something out of this ! ) ... (read in full...)
Why do I have to be my own mother? What do I do with my real one?
Q. I cannot live with my father because of legal issues between my siblings. I have moved out of there and into my mothers house. She has cheated on my father and continues to have this affair which includes extremely late nights where i cannot reach ...
A. 14 July 2014: I agree with the others OP, time to grow up.
You don't have to live with your mom if you don't like it there, you can live alone, with friends, with relatives, with roommates, with a boyfriend... If the hygienic standards of the household do not ... (read in full...)
I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?
Q. I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...
A. 14 July 2014: OP ! You live in USA, not in the jungle ! Does it necessarily have to be THAT site ? How hard can it be to find escorts in a location reachable to you ? I figure it would be enough to enter " escorts in or around ( name of location ) " and you'd ... (read in full...)
Am I too manly?
Q. My whole life I have been into sports. I love sports, I love games I love things normal woman don't. I grew up an only child for 12 years and I was basically my dad's son. But I've also been hurt many times by men in my life. So to protect myself I ...
A. 14 July 2014: Without recanting anything of my first post, ( I still think that it's all about your Bf's RJ and insecurity ) I must say that after reading Mark's post, I can see he brings up very valid points.
If you act like a buddy, talk like a buddy, send... (read in full...)
Am I too manly?
Q. My whole life I have been into sports. I love sports, I love games I love things normal woman don't. I grew up an only child for 12 years and I was basically my dad's son. But I've also been hurt many times by men in my life. So to protect myself I ...
A. 14 July 2014: You had fuck buddies " just like a man "?- lol, if he said that he said one of the silliest and most illogocal things I have read on DC.
Because... men have fuck buddies, right ?...
And WHO are their fuck buddies ( in case of hetero guys, of... (read in full...)
I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?
Q. I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...
A. 13 July 2014: You know, once a college mate of mine, early 20s, was bragging that he had bedded more than 60 women. I did not say anything but must have made a strange face, because the guy was really non descript, far from an Adonis... and he was quick to ... (read in full...)
Is it possible to find any handsome and confident guys that are not assholes?
Q. It seems that every descent looking guy I come across ends up being a total asshole! They turn out to be liars and cheaters and users and honestly I'm sick of it. They think that just because they are good looking they can step all over peoples ...
A. 13 July 2014: I think what you lament is in good part age related. Really, not much to do about it , except than understanding how things work and adjustng your expectations accordingly.
So, imagine you are a young male 18-21 who's the body / face of a Gree... (read in full...)
Do girls REALLY fondle each other to attract male attention?
Q. There is this guy at work, who I will call "John". John is a real chick magnet. Every girl, whether workmate or customer, is attracted to him. E.g. while I am talking to a female customer, she snatches looks at John, and many times smiles to him. ...
A. 13 July 2014: Let me start by saying that often... fondling is in the eye of the beholder, I mean, women are more physically expressive, tactile and affectionate than men, you don't see hetero men walking around hand in hand or arm in arm, women do it , my ... (read in full...)
I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?
Q. I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...
A. 13 July 2014: Your mind is made up, OP, so,what to say ?... enjoy :).
I just fail to see how getting laid ONCE ,against payment ,will solve your problems with women and with socialization, I mean , if ever you want to date , have a gf, ... or even get laid... (read in full...)
I thought our date went well--why has she blocked me on social media?
Q. There's this girl that I have a bit of a history with (albeit a couple of make out sessions a long time ago) and we both wanted to go to a theme park, and so we went; as friends. At first we got on well with conversation flowing, and then when we ...
A. 13 July 2014: Eh yes, do not be too upset, these sort of things happen, and they happen a lot in your ( and her ) age range.
She had a good time with you, she was enjoying herself that day- and maybe she is the flirty/ cuddly / tactile tyoe that can get you ... (read in full...)
I don't get wet before sex and I don't know if I've had an orgasm
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A. 13 July 2014: Consult your OB/GYN and get tested for hormonal levels.. Such a stubborn vaginal dryness is rather common just before , or during ,menopause, ( or also, pregnancy and breastfeeding ) and it is caused by insufficient levels of estrogen in your ... (read in full...)
Should I take back my ex? He had casual fling during a brief split.
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A. 12 July 2014: It will sound as a lame advice but perhaps is less lame than it sounds . You should not row again and / or split up again, and if you do- that's it, take it as a sign that you are not compatible , move on and make it a permanent split, don't embark ... (read in full...)
Is my husband gay? straight? or just curious?
Q. I'm questioning whether to believe my husband when he says he's not gay or bi after I confronted him about knowing he watched/chatted with a couple trannies this one time that I know of. There were also females he watched/chatted with as well. He ...
A. 11 July 2014: Yes, but... he should not be " capable of beng faithful and loyal ", he should be faithul and loyal, period. He is married.
I don't think he is " confused " more than other hundreds , thousands of married men are confused- trannychasers are noth... (read in full...)
Ex Blocked me on Facebook, but won't tell me why?
Q. OK, brief story…at 30 years old, I met my first real love. He moves around a lot for his job, so he admitted to me that he had never been “in love” before either. He had, had his heart broken at a young age, and always shied away from real ...
A. 11 July 2014: Control. He does not want you to talk to him, but he wants to be able to talk to you if so it strikes his fancy of doing ( who knows, maybe the day that all these exes are busy ... or get fed up of his airs and graces as you should too).
He does... (read in full...)
How long to withold sex in a LDR when you meet your significant other?
Q. I just met a guy through a mutual friend here in the states that I really like but he lives in Europe. We have been chatting everyday both on the phone and all other messaging means. He really likes me as a matter of face he loves me and claims I am ...
A. 11 July 2014: Yes , OP, your post is a bit confusing, it sounds to me that you need to make peace with your own brain.
First you say that you have decided to save yourself for marriage, then you know you can't wait for the 3rd visit. So, you alreday KNOW you ... (read in full...)
Am I being toyed with or is this something I should hold out for?
Q. This is probably an obvious answer but I still feel confused about the situation. A little over a year ago I was chatting with a girl on an online dating site. She seemed very lovely, is a psychologist, pretty, nice, funny. We messaged back an...
A. 11 July 2014: Maybe the second one ? hey I did not call you an idiot, you did ....
Well, actually is not about idiocy, it's about expectations - the root of all evils :).
It sounds to me like, deep down, you are sort of hovering around her just in case she... (read in full...)
I bent over backwards to make it work, but he still dumped me!
Q. My bf, of 4 years, and I just broke up like 20 mins ago. I saw it coming for months now. Since January nothing had been the same. He was distant, disrespectful and basically seemed to live to make me miserable. I tried to work things out for the ...
A. 11 July 2014: OP, this will sound patronizing maybe, but I wonder : if this is his usual M.O.- ignoring you for a week or more, then sending you a " cum fuck me " text on a weekend late night... rinse and repeat ... has not ever dawned on you that most probably ... (read in full...)
Is my husband gay? straight? or just curious?
Q. I'm questioning whether to believe my husband when he says he's not gay or bi after I confronted him about knowing he watched/chatted with a couple trannies this one time that I know of. There were also females he watched/chatted with as well. He ...
A. 11 July 2014: Funny, your husband has a story of being inappropriate and disloyal, and might be cheating / have cheated on you, and you worry not about having married a cheater, but about his basic sexual orientation ?,... A cheater is a cheater, whether he ... (read in full...)
How long to withold sex in a LDR when you meet your significant other?
Q. I just met a guy through a mutual friend here in the states that I really like but he lives in Europe. We have been chatting everyday both on the phone and all other messaging means. He really likes me as a matter of face he loves me and claims I am ...
A. 10 July 2014: " I feel in my heart that I have found him " ( your future husband ).
Uhm. Pardon me , but if you really felt this way, what would be the point of your post ?.
You will only have sex with your future husband. You feel sure in your heart th... (read in full...)
How long to withold sex in a LDR when you meet your significant other?
Q. I just met a guy through a mutual friend here in the states that I really like but he lives in Europe. We have been chatting everyday both on the phone and all other messaging means. He really likes me as a matter of face he loves me and claims I am ...
A. 9 July 2014: One should wait as long as she has decided to wait.
If for reasons of yours you have made your mind up to abstain from sex till marriage- well, then this exactly how long you should wait : till marriage - regardless of how many visits and how ... (read in full...)
I bent over backwards to make it work, but he still dumped me!
Q. My bf, of 4 years, and I just broke up like 20 mins ago. I saw it coming for months now. Since January nothing had been the same. He was distant, disrespectful and basically seemed to live to make me miserable. I tried to work things out for the ...
A. 7 July 2014: Yeah well, surely a long, heated, emotional confrontation after just seven days from a BU would not win the prize for most effective, coherent No Contact of the year, but so be it. One can always go back on track.
You 've got to be honest with... (read in full...)
I bent over backwards to make it work, but he still dumped me!
Q. My bf, of 4 years, and I just broke up like 20 mins ago. I saw it coming for months now. Since January nothing had been the same. He was distant, disrespectful and basically seemed to live to make me miserable. I tried to work things out for the ...
A. 4 July 2014: " suck my dick for helping you ? " ...Is he mentally ill ?...
Back to ignore ignore ignore, and mean it this time. It does not matter if he is the Wizard of Oz, or has the secret to save mankind from a worlwide catastrophe-do not ask him anyt... (read in full...)
I bent over backwards to make it work, but he still dumped me!
Q. My bf, of 4 years, and I just broke up like 20 mins ago. I saw it coming for months now. Since January nothing had been the same. He was distant, disrespectful and basically seemed to live to make me miserable. I tried to work things out for the ...
A. 4 July 2014: What do you do ?... sigh... you start all over again. The moving on process and the ignoring. And try harder this time. This, if you are serious about wanting to STAY broken up.
It's like following a diet, or quitting smoking. You fall off the ... (read in full...)
I bent over backwards to make it work, but he still dumped me!
Q. My bf, of 4 years, and I just broke up like 20 mins ago. I saw it coming for months now. Since January nothing had been the same. He was distant, disrespectful and basically seemed to live to make me miserable. I tried to work things out for the ...
A. 2 July 2014: Fair is fair :).
He writes you " fuck me "... you write him back " fuck you " and you are even.
No, don't , actually. Just kidding. Keep ignoring him. You are doing good, and soon you'll be fine .... (read in full...)
I'm a 27 year old virgin, should I go hire an escort to experience sex?
Q. I’m 27 years old and will be 28 years old this summer and not being able to me intimate with anyone in my life is just making me feel frustrated. I have tired date few Chinese women but all they do is want to be friends or we never talk again. ...
A. 5 March 2014: OP, it's a game of numbers.Practice makes perfect, and you need to practice as much as you can. You need to approach beyond your standards , and within your standards , and ( slightly ) below your standards ( as long as you don't find them ... (read in full...)
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