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... Send *indyCares a private message | | | *indyCares's profile:Hi everybody. I am an Italian woman currently living in Italy but I spent many years in England and USA. I hope my English is still decent but in case it got a little rusty, please be lenient.
My age ? Let say that I am way past the stage when you cry if the boy you like takes your best friend to the prom, and young enough to remember how awful that feels.
What qualifies me to help people- well, let me show off just a bit and mention that I studied Psychology 4 years in college, and, even if then I graduated in a different subject, I never lost my interest in psychology and kept reading a lot about this subject. Yet that does not really qualify me for anything because intellectual knowledge is not the same as real life experience. So let's say I feel I can advice people because I have lived a lot, travelled a lot, met a lot of people from all backgrounds , races and religions- I have loved a lot, and I have also been dumped a lot :)
Plus, I am really fascinated with people and their stories. Not in a gossipy way. I just find that every person is a whole new world that I am excited to discover.
Right now I am single- and happily so. I realized- better late than never - that rather than waiting for Prince Charming I should first become a Princess myself. You can't love anybody unconditionally, if first you don't love yourself unconditionally, and this is what I am learning to do.
Looking forward to hear from all of you..
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19 August 2014: Yeah I know : ultimately love is a mystery, not an exact science. There's always an element of sheer luck, of serendipity, of magic in it. Some times you do everything right, by the book, you are the perfect gf / wife / lover .. and you still get ...
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Am I being selfish? Or is my reluctance to share information with her due to her need to compete with me?
Q. Hi everybody, I am a nursing student soon to qualify and I have decided that I want to go down the route of medicine. I have researched the course and contacted the university. I have paid for the upcoming GAMSAT examination and started ...
A. 30 July 2014: I have a slightly different take on this than the other posters.
Of course you are not obliged to tell anything to anybody , friend or foe - so if you do not want to tell her , don't tell her, on the other end, why having to watch your step and ... (read in full...)
My family ignored my repeated requests to have a homemade card for my birthday. I"m hurt and disappointed!
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A. 30 July 2014: As you say, I don't know the background story, but without it, yes, it feels you are majorly overreacting, for a series of reasons.
First, when my son was a child I used to make him specally decorated Easter eggs, it would take me even 2 hour... (read in full...)
How do I get my BF to take the next step?
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A. 30 July 2014: I agree with the other posters, do NOT push, do not manipulate, that's not the way a marriage proposal should happen if you want to STAY married.
Only, I am a bit more suspicious than them, tbh I would not bet the family farm on him ever bein... (read in full...)
How can I get him to work out problems in our relationship with me?
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A. 29 July 2014: I'll have to be a bit vague and generic ; you don't say how often you argue, and about what , and this would help.
Anyway- I've got the feeling that you won't like my answer :).
But, I have also got the feelings that there's a high level of... (read in full...)
My grandparents play favorites and I'm fed up!
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Mother-in-law's name for the baby's middle name?
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This child too... she may not carry on t... (read in full...)
Mother-in-law's name for the baby's middle name?
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Well.. start saving up, OP:). It may really be worth it.
And, get proactive - check. Check on line, or non profit associations, local councils... (read in full...)
How many times a week should I cycle? And for how long each day?
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I really want her to feel appreciated and loved.
Q. Ok. So my girlfriend went to stay with her best friend last week. They have been close for 5 years and it turns out last week he told ger that he was in love with her. We have been together for 7 years and when she came back there was a huge...
A. 28 July 2014: Really ? personally I'd feel VERY appreciated if somebody were willing to work his butt off ( which he does not have to do ) to put me through MY medical school ( which is not his responsibility ).
I'd prefer it to working MY butt off and havi... (read in full...)
We found out our close friends gave us a recycled gift as our wedding gift! Would you mention that you know to them?
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A. 28 July 2014: Another couple of thoughts here.
First, never assume that you can make calculations of what other people have got in their pockets. I am going to a wedding in a month or so, and this couple too asked for money toward their honeymoon. I am very... (read in full...)
My B/f's having a relationship with another girl who I was led to believe was his ex, I snooped though his texts and guess what I found?
Q. Hey all so I've been dating this guy going on 3 months we started dating while he was in another relationship. The relationship was serious he and the girl he was with had been together a year and 3 months and they lived together. Any way I was so...
A. 28 July 2014: I had started reading this post from the end- from Chigirl's answer, and was thinking to myself, come on, Chigirl, give her a break, the girl is 18-21 and inexperience leads to mistakes.
But then I read your post, OP, and frankly, I am amaz... (read in full...)
Why do some men think porn stars are magical being?
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A. 28 July 2014: So the OP does not need therapy and telling her to seek professional help is " judgemental ".
By this token, it is also judgemental to tell a person with chewing problems to see a dentist. Or a person with debilitating joint pains to see an o... (read in full...)
The families' demands are ruining my wedding experience
Q. I need some advice on whether we should allow our families to take control of our upcoming wedding or just tell them that everything they want is far from what we want. We have been together for five years and we have a three year old. We have bee...
A. 28 July 2014: I'd take the approach suggested by one of the anon readers : nod and smile, smile and nod. And keep doing exactly just what you want.
Try not to take things so at heart . It's sort of normal, you know ? It's nearly like an inescapable law of natu... (read in full...)
I'm gutted that my boyfriend canceled our getaway weekend and went out with friends instead!
Q. Hi everyone, Me and my boyfriend have been together for 4 and a half years. Things have always been good. Recently we've both been busy with work but I've found I'm seeing my boyfriend less and less. He plays football for a local club and trains ...
A. 28 July 2014: ... Because he is overcommitted, overextended, overworking and is tryng to fit everything in his life and make everybody happy. Including his friends and himself, why not. His gf is important ( and he did made the effort to spend your whole ... (read in full...)
I want him to meet my extended family but he says he has to work!
Q. My boyfriend is a football coach in an academy he works 6 days a week which includes every weekend. Is it unreasonable for me to want him to have a Saturday off for my aunt and uncles 40th wedding anniversary so he can meet my extended family? He's ...
A. 27 July 2014: It is not unreasonable as in " whoah, you are looney -bin crazy ! ", and it is not unreasonable that you feel disappointed, but he is not unreasonable either. I can perfectly see his point.
He would have to take time off work, - so he won'... (read in full...)
I'm worried I'll be intruding on private family grief!
Q. My girlfriend granddad is dying in hospital. She wants me to take time off work to be with her and her family in the hospital. I'm happy to do so and so are work but i'm not sure if should just leave it as it's a family thing. Her cousin's b...
A. 27 July 2014: You are thinking also on behalf of your gf , but you do not need to, because she has her own brain.
If she said she wants you there to comfort her in her moments of grief, either she knows for a fact that her family would be comfortable with... (read in full...)
Is there any point in pursing a relationship? Does he fancy me or not?
Q. I met this guy about three months ago. We got along so well, straight off the bat, and we've both admitted to each other, that we find the other hot. We used to flirt all the time, but whenever the conversation got deeper, he shut off. He even ...
A. 27 July 2014: Pardon the bluntness, but personally I think you should not even bother to be friends with him, not because he's a bad guy, but because a guy who invites you to come an join him for a while, and share his bed- it's not friendship and deep convos ... (read in full...)
He likes me! But am I over thinking? What if I do later change my mind about having children?
Q. Hello dear cupid'ers! I'm head over heels in love and it's absolutely wonderful, this guy is officially the cats pyjamas. We have been in a relationship for around 9 months now, and we are looking at getting a place together. I know we make eac...
A. 27 July 2014: No, yours is a reasonable concern. At 26 , it is a bit early to say " never " ( Now that I think of it - probably, at any age is too early to say never - I said so many "nevers ", that punctually I disattended some years down the road. So, ... (read in full...)
Should I tell my wife that I'm considering a visit to see a prostitute?
Q. Yes, this is a weird question to ask. However, my wife of 20 years will not have sex with me and has not for more than 10 years. It is something we have talked about many, many times but nothing ever changes. She doesn't want to divorce me and I...
A. 27 July 2014: I would not do it. It may come back and bite you .
Suppose that your wife says, sure, darling, go ahead, have fun... just to change her mind the first time that you piss her off; have you followed by a private eye, or get copy of " strange " pa... (read in full...)
I'm trying to forgive him and make the marriage work, but friends and family don't undertand why!
Q. My husband and I have been married for 7 years and we have 4 kids under the age of 5. A month ago he told me that he had an affair with a coworker. It happened in April and last three weeks, during those three weeks they were together 4 times. H...
A. 27 July 2014: Funny that your family does not accept as a good enough reason to try and work things out : " I have got 4 kids all under 5 years of age and I am reluctant to make them grow up away from their dad just because dad misguidedly decided to scratch a ... (read in full...)
I have to tell him I am moving, but I'm worried he might see it as a big complication!
Q. I apologise in advance for the long post. I've been dating this guy for about a month now, and things seem to be working out fine. We haven't yet defined what the relationship is, and I'm afraid of asking, because I don't want to seem desperat...
A. 27 July 2014: I second Chigirl's opinion. I can't see that 70 minutes from 50 minutes would make such a difference for someone who is interested.. As for the added costs, ditto, it is a complication but not an epocal complication, someone who is ... (read in full...)
We are of different faiths and he says I don't appreciate him enough.
Q. I'm 22 and my boyfriend is 25. We've been together for about 2.5 yrs now. Im muslim and he's not too religious, but since his father is Jewish, he tends to identify as a Jew. Anyways, we were friends before we began dating, but when we got serious, ...
A. 27 July 2014: It does not seem you have many restrictions though, if you are dating ?! That's still something rather unusual even for the most Westernized , third generation Muslim girls , those who dress Western style, drive, work, study , practice sports ... (read in full...)
I am concerned about my job ..... should I mention it to my boss?
Q. Hi I am just looking for advice or suggestions- I recently found out that my boss (I am a nanny working in the UK) has just put their house on the market (no sign outside of house) but I saw it in the agency that it is selling with- how do I g...
A. 27 July 2014: I would not bring it up at all !, unless you are particularly close , been ages with your employers and become part of the family , stuff like that ( which at 18-21 I doubt you had time to do ), it is really none of your business.
If your empl... (read in full...)
All of a sudden I have an urge to change my appearance ....
Q. Hi..so I am a relatively not girly person. I don't like wearing skirts or dresses and wear baggy t shirts. I usually have thick eyeliner and my hair is pixie cut short, almost boyish cut. But suddenly out of nowhere I am feeling the uncontrollable ...
A. 27 July 2014: Don't make this a problem. It is normal, age related, and healthy too. I mean, you would not want to be obliged , or to oblige yourself, to show the world ALWAYS the sam persona with the same attire same accessories same style etc.... for the rest ... (read in full...)
Did I miss the boat? Should I reply to his message brushing me off?
Q. I'm not sure what to do about this. I contacted a guy last night. I only met him once and it was a while ago. I had a night out with a friend and I met him then. I sent a friend request last night and sent him a message just asking if he remembered ...
A. 26 July 2014: Let it go. Din't answer. You may not see anything wrong in keeping in touch with someone you kissed already and feel very attracted to, as long as the messages are not improper. But his Gf would not necessarily see it this way !, it may bother ... (read in full...)
How can I get him to work out problems in our relationship with me?
Q. I have been with my boyfriend for 3 years now and I'm still just as much in love with him as when I first met him. I really want to spend the rest of my life with him and we often talk about having a future together but it's hard to see whenever a ...
A. 26 July 2014: I'd say a lot depends from how often something similar happens, and WHY.
It's true that it only takes seconds to say : I am going to be busy for the rest of the day, but for doing that you need both the possibility and the will to plan in adva... (read in full...)
Why are some straight guys so scared to try something new?
Q. I got a question, i'm a gay guy and I love straight men, especially buff or frat guys. I can't get enough of them. Why are some straight guys so scared to try something new? ...
A. 26 July 2014: And why are you not out there right now experimenting new cunnilingus techniques ? Are you scared ?... ... (read in full...)
He had a girlfriend but I let him take my virginity ....
Q. I met this guy almost a year ago, we became friends and started talking a bit. I started liking him but found out that he has a girlfriend so in my head I kind of labeled him as well just a friend even though I liked him. One day I dont even rem...
A. 26 July 2014: Pardon me, ...what mixed signals ?
The signals are loud , clear and unmistakeable .This guy has a girlfriend, has cheated on her with you, and he'll do it again if you help him- discreetly, NSA and at hs convenience. He does not even care if you ... (read in full...)
I'm already prepared to put my marriage on the line, that's how sick of his family I am. What should I do?
Q. In a few weeks time I am due to go and stay at my husbands parents house, they are a muslim family. I have not met them before only spoken to them by phone and skype. His mother seems to be boss and interfering and has already made som comments that ...
A. 25 July 2014: It depends from which Muslim country you are going to, and if you are 100% sure that you could go back , even on your own, without your husband, if you decided you had enough . If it is a country under the shari'ah ( Islamic law )- don't go. You ... (read in full...)
I'm driving myself insane with jealousy!
Q. I'm driving myself insane with jealousy over the way my boyfriends family are with his ex girlfriend, but my friends say that the way they act isn't right and I have every right to be annoyed. It started at the beginning of the year when my boyfr...
A. 20 July 2014: I don't see what you could say- the sisters have the right to be friends wth whomever they want, and , consequently, to invite their friends at their social events.
Unluckly, it's not just because you have been dating their brother for the last... (read in full...)
Newlyweds and embarrassment of dealing with hair "down there"
Q. How do newlyweds deal with hair "down there"? I mean, doesn't it get uncomfortable with the roughness of hair growing back or the embarrassment of ingrown hairs? I'm getting married soon and have never been intimate with anyone before. I'm anxious ...
A. 20 July 2014: Anon female who says it's not cultural, just preference.
You are assuming that because the OP's flag says UK, the poster is a white Anglo Saxon.
In UK though there's a massive presence of Muslim immigranrs, and descendants of immigran... (read in full...)
Will he still like me if I wear something different?
Q. I met this guy a few weeks ago and we have been on quite a few dates. The first time we met I was wearing a skirt with a slip underneath. As he told me then and keeps telling me since, that he loves me wearing such clothes, I have always dressed ...
A. 20 July 2014: Yes, you should test the waters. It's normal if he has fashion preferences and he likes a certain outfit more than others, but if he only likes you when you are wearing one style, then he is not into you but into the " persona " you represent, ... (read in full...)
I bent over backwards to make it work, but he still dumped me!
Q. My bf, of 4 years, and I just broke up like 20 mins ago. I saw it coming for months now. Since January nothing had been the same. He was distant, disrespectful and basically seemed to live to make me miserable. I tried to work things out for the ...
A. 20 July 2014: Are you really surprised ?...You said you've seen the BU coming for ages- your bf was distant, disrespectful and lived to make you miserable. He acted as if he hated you and showed he did not give a flying fuck.
So , if now he seems not to give... (read in full...)
What are some good ways to rekindle friendship with a friend from school, where we have lost touch with each other?
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A. 19 July 2014: You mean, technically ? You send her a message through Facebook. I am no expert, but I know you can send her a message also if she is not in your list of friends, she gets it in her " Others " folder.
But no, I guess you weren't asking this... (read in full...)
Socially and emotionally Ostracised at home. Need to feel better about me and find a job so I can move out. How can I cope better?
Q. In short details: I'm 18. No friends (I have no way to work on that until September; I only have a couple of online friends). No family except mum, dad and sister. Emotionally neglected at home for eleven years. Seen three counsellors but ...
A. 19 July 2014: OP, would you mind to specify a bit more what do you mean with emotional neglect, and what actions you'd want them specifically to take to show you they care ?
I am asking this not because I am saying " oh it's all n your mind ", but beca... (read in full...)
Why would my sexy sext stranger mention marriage, of all things?
Q. A guy I met online (from far faaar away) and I have been texting/sexting for about 2 and a 1/2 weeks now. I'm new to sexting and find that I'm enjoying it immensly - we seem to be very compatible. However I don't expect anything more of this. It's ...
A. 19 July 2014: @ eric troy. Sure that at 19 the OP is / should be old enough to
" hold her drink ". When I was her age, to use your metaphor, I was not just " holding my drinks ", I was chugging them down with gusto, satisfaction and competence :).
Personal... (read in full...)
He's a great guy but I don't feel any physical attraction
Q. Hi everyone, I have a little bit of a situation, please for years now I have been out of relationships because basically I would meet only "bad guys" or really incompatible people. Recently I have met this younger guy and it seems like we really g...
A. 19 July 2014: Let him go. If there's absolutely no spark, absolutely no physical attraction, no matter how much you wish there was...this is not gong to end well. If you have to force yourself to make do somehow , to reward him for being such a great guy... ... (read in full...)
Should I give it time to develop? I feel confused about my Online long distance friend. I really like her.
Q. Hi everyone Sorry, new to this site so not exactly sure how it works but I'll just ask away. Well basically I'm in a sort of confusing position with this girl who is my best friend. She's from Taiwan and we've been talking (online) for at ...
A. 19 July 2014: All what Janniepeg says, plus , sorry if I rain on your parade, but I have a different reading on this :
" I don't know if I like you as more than friends ..." means " No, I don't ".
She cares about you as a friend, does not want to push you... (read in full...)
His temper is threatening to spoil this relationship!!
Q. I'm so stuck with this. I don't know if I'm being over picky or if I'm being sensible. My partner of 2 years is brilliant. No, better than that, he's incredible! We met a few years ago through mutual friends and he made it obvious he liked me but ...
A. 19 July 2014: I admit that I don't quite get the logic of your post.
Your bf is abusive ( and potentially dangerous ) and scares you s...less. ( BE afraid. Be very afraid ). Of course he is not abusive all the time, not even a criminal maniac would be abus... (read in full...)
I think a man who wants woman will not let her go!
Q. I met a man and everything fell together so seamlessly. We were both crazy about each other and he told me he saw a future with me, and very quickly was telling me he was in love with me (within a month). I am weary of people falling too quickly ...
A. 18 July 2014: Then tell him to go be an extra on a Woody Allen's movie set, it was Woody Allen who said " 80 % of success is showing up ". Case in pont, Woody Allen was not that great of a husband , at least for his first 2 wives.
I think you are idea... (read in full...)
Why would my sexy sext stranger mention marriage, of all things?
Q. A guy I met online (from far faaar away) and I have been texting/sexting for about 2 and a 1/2 weeks now. I'm new to sexting and find that I'm enjoying it immensly - we seem to be very compatible. However I don't expect anything more of this. It's ...
A. 18 July 2014: Because it turns him on.
" like saying that if we were close he'd have to marry me to do so and so to me ".
You can bet he's having the most perfect wanks of his life over your texts, because they are like the captions oto a defloration fantasy-... (read in full...)
I think a man who wants woman will not let her go!
Q. I met a man and everything fell together so seamlessly. We were both crazy about each other and he told me he saw a future with me, and very quickly was telling me he was in love with me (within a month). I am weary of people falling too quickly ...
A. 18 July 2014: It makes lots of sense. At least from his point of view.
"Peace and relaxation " "Peace and quiet ". Anxiety and stressful job.
Haven't you noticed how the accent was heavily on these things ?... He comes to you for peace and relaxati... (read in full...)
Why do some men think porn stars are magical being?
Q. Why do some men think pornstars are magical beings? My ex and my first boyfriend were just like that. My ex said "a pornstar works in my office" in a voice as if he had achieved something. My first boyfriend used to call them by their names...
A. 16 July 2014: Why do some girls fall in love with / feel attracted to -men who think that porn stars are magical ?
Sorry, if it happens once is random, if it happens twice uhm, curious, if it keeps happening, then it's YOU.
Somehow you feel inclined only tow... (read in full...)
I bent over backwards to make it work, but he still dumped me!
Q. My bf, of 4 years, and I just broke up like 20 mins ago. I saw it coming for months now. Since January nothing had been the same. He was distant, disrespectful and basically seemed to live to make me miserable. I tried to work things out for the ...
A. 11 July 2014: OP, this will sound patronizing maybe, but I wonder : if this is his usual M.O.- ignoring you for a week or more, then sending you a " cum fuck me " text on a weekend late night... rinse and repeat ... has not ever dawned on you that most probably ... (read in full...)
I bent over backwards to make it work, but he still dumped me!
Q. My bf, of 4 years, and I just broke up like 20 mins ago. I saw it coming for months now. Since January nothing had been the same. He was distant, disrespectful and basically seemed to live to make me miserable. I tried to work things out for the ...
A. 7 July 2014: Yeah well, surely a long, heated, emotional confrontation after just seven days from a BU would not win the prize for most effective, coherent No Contact of the year, but so be it. One can always go back on track.
You 've got to be honest with... (read in full...)
I bent over backwards to make it work, but he still dumped me!
Q. My bf, of 4 years, and I just broke up like 20 mins ago. I saw it coming for months now. Since January nothing had been the same. He was distant, disrespectful and basically seemed to live to make me miserable. I tried to work things out for the ...
A. 4 July 2014: " suck my dick for helping you ? " ...Is he mentally ill ?...
Back to ignore ignore ignore, and mean it this time. It does not matter if he is the Wizard of Oz, or has the secret to save mankind from a worlwide catastrophe-do not ask him anyt... (read in full...)
I bent over backwards to make it work, but he still dumped me!
Q. My bf, of 4 years, and I just broke up like 20 mins ago. I saw it coming for months now. Since January nothing had been the same. He was distant, disrespectful and basically seemed to live to make me miserable. I tried to work things out for the ...
A. 4 July 2014: What do you do ?... sigh... you start all over again. The moving on process and the ignoring. And try harder this time. This, if you are serious about wanting to STAY broken up.
It's like following a diet, or quitting smoking. You fall off the ... (read in full...)
I bent over backwards to make it work, but he still dumped me!
Q. My bf, of 4 years, and I just broke up like 20 mins ago. I saw it coming for months now. Since January nothing had been the same. He was distant, disrespectful and basically seemed to live to make me miserable. I tried to work things out for the ...
A. 2 July 2014: Fair is fair :).
He writes you " fuck me "... you write him back " fuck you " and you are even.
No, don't , actually. Just kidding. Keep ignoring him. You are doing good, and soon you'll be fine .... (read in full...)
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