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... Send *indyCares a private message | | | *indyCares's profile:Hi everybody. I am an Italian woman currently living in Italy but I spent many years in England and USA. I hope my English is still decent but in case it got a little rusty, please be lenient.
My age ? Let say that I am way past the stage when you cry if the boy you like takes your best friend to the prom, and young enough to remember how awful that feels.
What qualifies me to help people- well, let me show off just a bit and mention that I studied Psychology 4 years in college, and, even if then I graduated in a different subject, I never lost my interest in psychology and kept reading a lot about this subject. Yet that does not really qualify me for anything because intellectual knowledge is not the same as real life experience. So let's say I feel I can advice people because I have lived a lot, travelled a lot, met a lot of people from all backgrounds , races and religions- I have loved a lot, and I have also been dumped a lot :)
Plus, I am really fascinated with people and their stories. Not in a gossipy way. I just find that every person is a whole new world that I am excited to discover.
Right now I am single- and happily so. I realized- better late than never - that rather than waiting for Prince Charming I should first become a Princess myself. You can't love anybody unconditionally, if first you don't love yourself unconditionally, and this is what I am learning to do.
Looking forward to hear from all of you..
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A. 10 August 2014: I don't think it is important.
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Why is that ?:
two possible reasons that I can think of... (read in full...)
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Two different accusations of him "trying it on"
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Am I being a bitter twisted step mum?
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Now , OP, either I have totally misunderstood what you say ( which is quite possible ! It's a hot summer here, it may have affected my m... (read in full...)
People keep walking out of my life, and I don't know how to deal with it any more. Advice?
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A. 7 August 2014: I don't know if you'll " get " my answer, and I am sure you won't like it, but, FWIW,...
people CAN " pick you up and drop you " when they want,to some extent. It IS fair. They are allowed to. Within limits,of course.
I'll try to explain.... (read in full...)
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A. 6 August 2014: I suppose you aren't familiar with a reality show called " Gandia Shore " ... It's like Jersey Shore, only in some Spanish vacation hot spot instead... Don't watch it !, it would give you nightmares :)..
Your worries are ... half justified , I ... (read in full...)
Am I being a bitter twisted step mum?
Q. I'm not sure if I'm being completely pathetic or not about this situation so I think you in advance for any views on this matter I'm married to a man and we have 1 child together we both have 2 older children from previous marriages, my hb was the ...
A. 6 August 2014: All costs have gone through the roof in the last ten years ? ( not really,btw. UK inflation has always been between 0.95 % and 2 % in the last ten years , and the total makes for roughly an increase of cost of living of about 17 % )
Don't say it t... (read in full...)
My girlfriend's father caught us fooling around and now I'm invited to dinner? I have no idea how to act!
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A. 6 August 2014: Oh poor OP,lol ! I hear you , how I would not want to be in your shoes !
Take heart, though. If they have invited you, it may only mean that his father got over the accident , and that you are out of the doghouse. You have been forgiven, he must... (read in full...)
Am I being a bitter twisted step mum?
Q. I'm not sure if I'm being completely pathetic or not about this situation so I think you in advance for any views on this matter I'm married to a man and we have 1 child together we both have 2 older children from previous marriages, my hb was the ...
A. 6 August 2014: OP, I feel awkward following up to your update, I don't what you to think that for some mysterious reason of mine I WANT to lunge at you and chew you up,... but, although on a simply human-to-human level I am sorry that you feel distressed and ... (read in full...)
My girlfriend doesn't want me to masturbate. How do I handle this?
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A. 6 August 2014: I think you are both a little bit kookoo :) , she for forbidding you masturbating, and you a ) for even listening to her and b) for feeling guilty.
Masturbation, unless it becomes compulsive which it's clearly not your case, is healthy and perf... (read in full...)
I love her but having a normal relationship with her is impossible
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A. 6 August 2014: I guess this relations was just born still-born or barely alive ... and grew up accordingly.
FIVE days after breaking up with someone, she gets together with you ? that has gor REBOUND written all over it. Then, she kept you around as her safe... (read in full...)
Am I being a bitter twisted step mum?
Q. I'm not sure if I'm being completely pathetic or not about this situation so I think you in advance for any views on this matter I'm married to a man and we have 1 child together we both have 2 older children from previous marriages, my hb was the ...
A. 6 August 2014: Sorry if I can't be very sympathetic to your predicament, but... I can't.
When you met this man, he was already divorced, already had two kids , his child support and alimony payments had already been established, his house had already been left... (read in full...)
Much younger man has no interest in sex. Could it be medical or is it something else?
Q. I'm looking for an answer.. I am in love with a man that is 18 years younger. He says he loves me too. But we are having a problem in the bedroom. He has came up with every excuse possible. Stress, his dad dying, his ex. He only has one kidney. Low ...
A. 6 August 2014: I guess it simply means that he is just not that into you.
He must have done his calculations, weighing pros and cons, and decided that a relationship with you is convenient for him. But among the pros, an intense sexual attraction is not ther... (read in full...)
Husband is taking off to our honeymoon destination with friends before we get to go, how do I react?
Q. Hi aunts and uncles. So my husband and I are married, but postponed our honeymoon, due to finances and the birth of our first baby. We have our honeymoon-vacation planned. So, I was looking forward to it. My husband just informed me that one of his ...
A. 6 August 2014: Maybe I am not romantic enough but personally I would not be upset that he gets to see your honeymoon destination before you. I mean, the intent ,purpose and general atmosphere , general feel of a trip, and the specific spots you visit and ... (read in full...)
Do I try to reconnect? I don't want anything sexual or a relationship, I just want Pete back in my life!
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A. 6 August 2014: For someone who loves he bones of her current bf, you are a bit too taken with this Pete. If you believed in soulmates Pete would be yours....wait a minute, if you believed in soulmates, shouldn't YOUR BOYFRIEND be yours ?...
You describe a crus... (read in full...)
My Boyfriend is shaming me and my sexual preferences! Am I in the wrong? Have I pushed him too far? Or am I really that disgusting?
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A. 6 August 2014: I think he was using " nasty " in the sense of "obscene ", " indecent " " morally corrupt ". Dirty, but as in "a dirty mind "- not that you don't wash yourself enough.
Whoa. To react like this, yes, I guess you have pushed HIM too far. Note : HI... (read in full...)
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A. 5 August 2014: But you live in Europe , Chigirl. Europeans are equally opportunity bushers, they allow you freedom of bush choice :).
In USA - not so much. Americans like their sex to be like their packaged food- hygienized, sanitized, odourless, tast... (read in full...)
Are we crazy for moving in our son's girlfriend, to help keep her away from her abusive father?
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A. 5 August 2014: Actually, I did not say it's the boy's parents 'job to " push " birth control on this girl.
It's the boyfriend 's job ( their son ). If he wants to be sexually active with this, or any other girl, yes, he must " push " birth control on her.... (read in full...)
I need ideas for a vegetarian meal for our upcoming party
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A. 5 August 2014: I don't see why you could not have VEGAN burgers - seitan burgers, or tofu burgers. Perfect for the barbecue .
Just google " seitan burgers " or " tofu burgers " and you'll find plenty of recipes.
Or else, prepare vegetable skewers ( tomato, ... (read in full...)
My ex lover, who's a married man, won't leave his wife and children for me. But he keep buying me things even though I said I only want to be friends. Do you think he is too emotionally involved to lose contact with me?
Q. I had an affair with a married man but ended it because it wasn't going anywhere, I ended my marriage and now I'm seperated.Anyway my ex lover started contacting me and I told him that I ended my marriage and moving on with my life,I told him I ...
A. 5 August 2014: Ok, then back to my questions : WHEN in his mind will these kids be all grown up ? 20 ? 25 ? ... and what are you supposed to do in the meantime , ( a good 5, 10 years from now since the youngest is 15 )... play faithful - and secret - ... (read in full...)
Are we crazy for moving in our son's girlfriend, to help keep her away from her abusive father?
Q. My wife and I and getting lots of grieve from family friends regarding a decision we made with our only son who ism20. He still lives at home during the summer and goes away ( 1.5hours from home) for school. He comes home most weekends. He has been ...
A. 5 August 2014: ... And, is it a problem what your family and friends think ?..
You and your wife aren't two irresponsible impulsive teenagers , - if you have decided to give support and hospitality to your son's Gf, I figure you will have done it because you ... (read in full...)
She won't allow me to kiss or touch her, she's pregnant by so-called rape, why the change?
Q. hey guys i have been dating this girl for a year and everything seems fine and she is pregnant with the soo called rape child she doesnt allow me to kiss or touch her ,i feel like i dont exist even though we stay together and share the same bed ...
A. 5 August 2014: What has changed is , that she got pregnant.
Probably she does not want to embarass her family. If her parents did not approve of her staying at a guy's before being married, chances are they would approve even less of a pregnant unwed moth... (read in full...)
How can I get his friends and family to see that I'm not trying to trap him?
Q. I am looking for some advice on getting my boyfriends parents to like me. I'm 20 years old and I have been dating my boyfriend who is also 20 for about four months now. I have twin boys who are 18 months old. My bf is amazing with them and they...
A. 5 August 2014: It sounds like you have got a good plan, annd everything under control :). With a bit of luck, it will all work out just right. Enjoy your bf, and do not stress out about his parents. Do not take it too personally- maybe these parents are being ... (read in full...)
How can he like me as a friend yet initiate all physical contact and flirting?
Q. hi guys. ive got a rough situation at the moment. here goes;id known of this guy for about 2 yrs only really got to know him about 6 months ago..he can on holiday with me and some friends about 3 months ago when one of my friends told me this guy ...
A. 5 August 2014: Oh I see. The " tenderness fallacy " at work... again.
You are another of those ( many ) girls that for some reason have gotten into their heads that if it is just sex then it must also be... inhuman. No tenderness, no intimacy, no cama... (read in full...)
My ex lover, who's a married man, won't leave his wife and children for me. But he keep buying me things even though I said I only want to be friends. Do you think he is too emotionally involved to lose contact with me?
Q. I had an affair with a married man but ended it because it wasn't going anywhere, I ended my marriage and now I'm seperated.Anyway my ex lover started contacting me and I told him that I ended my marriage and moving on with my life,I told him I ...
A. 5 August 2014: Older like what ?- when the youngest comes of age ? when they are both out of college ? when they are both married and have started their own families ?
Children tipically are not thrilled about their parents' divorce, even grown up children. So, ... (read in full...)
How can I get his friends and family to see that I'm not trying to trap him?
Q. I am looking for some advice on getting my boyfriends parents to like me. I'm 20 years old and I have been dating my boyfriend who is also 20 for about four months now. I have twin boys who are 18 months old. My bf is amazing with them and they...
A. 5 August 2014: Dear OP, I think you 'll just have to accept that actions have consequences, positive and negative.
The positive consequence of having your lovely twins that, am sure, are your pride and your joy- and the negatve one of not being cons... (read in full...)
How can he like me as a friend yet initiate all physical contact and flirting?
Q. hi guys. ive got a rough situation at the moment. here goes;id known of this guy for about 2 yrs only really got to know him about 6 months ago..he can on holiday with me and some friends about 3 months ago when one of my friends told me this guy ...
A. 4 August 2014: Let's begin from your second quandary, that's the one whch has got an easy answer. Why was he the one doing the chasing . Simple : because he wanted to get laid :). Even in this days and age, unless he is Brad Pitt or some really hot dude that has ... (read in full...)
How can he like me as a friend yet initiate all physical contact and flirting?
Q. hi guys. ive got a rough situation at the moment. here goes;id known of this guy for about 2 yrs only really got to know him about 6 months ago..he can on holiday with me and some friends about 3 months ago when one of my friends told me this guy ...
A. 4 August 2014: It does not sound so mysterious to me. When he says " he only liked you as a friend " obviously he does not mean that he always only liked you platonically, with no physicall attraction. Au contraire, he means - and showed - that he does find you ... (read in full...)
My ex lover, who's a married man, won't leave his wife and children for me. But he keep buying me things even though I said I only want to be friends. Do you think he is too emotionally involved to lose contact with me?
Q. I had an affair with a married man but ended it because it wasn't going anywhere, I ended my marriage and now I'm seperated.Anyway my ex lover started contacting me and I told him that I ended my marriage and moving on with my life,I told him I ...
A. 4 August 2014: No, I think he is too lazy, smug and selfish to lose contact with you. He is plying you with gifts to lure you back in a nice casual FWB, ( friends wothout benefits, he's already got them those he is seeing wth his wife, he does not need you ... (read in full...)
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