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writes:My ex girlfriend is sending me some very weird signals. She and I have been broken up for over a year now and she's got a boyfriend. In the meantime, I've been taking full advantage of the single, college life. There's only one place to go to on Thursday nights at my school if you're over 21, and we both ended up being there last Thursday. I was with my friends and she was with hers. She and I ended up dancing and then took some shots and didn't really worry about anything. We were acting just like we were when we were going out. Kissing, holding hands, etc. There has been very little communication between us while we were broken up until we met to "catch up" last week. Between Thursday and yesterday, we've been texting a lot and her texts have been very flirty. We were broken up once before, and the same thing's happening. We meet to catch up, we talk more, we flirt, and (last time) we end up spending nights together again.For the longest time, she was out of my mind. I was meeting other girls, going out on dates, and had the occasional hookup. I (thought I) was over her. Now all this happens (mostly) within the past few days... and now it's got me thinking. I'm on spring break now and have nothing to do/worry about... except for this. I don't really have a clear question besides what would you do? I just need advice...PS. She has not mentioned her boyfriend ONCE.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (12 March 2011):
I just wouldn't trust her. Think about it, she was there kissing you last Thursday - when she had a boyfriend. So she cheated. If she cheated on him, she'll do it to you. Don't trust her.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionA friend of mine texted me about an hour ago saying that her and her bf just broke up.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (12 March 2011):
The very fact she hasn't mentioned her boyfriend is the reason you should avoid. She's either just teasing you purposefully, or she's after playing you in which case you'll never be able to trust her anyway. I would really avoid someone like this - they just drag you into a world of cheating, then have a good laugh at your pain afterwards.
She has a boyfriend - therefore keep well away.
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