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writes:Last night my boyfriend and I had a fight. My step sister said why would any one want to f**k an Australian girl? Then he says, "I f**ked a European girl. "You know who it is, baby," he told me. And then earlier in the car he told me that he dated an older female. I don't want to hear it. I'm 8 months pregnant with his child and he comes at me like that. And then my step sister said something about my ex and i told him just like he loved his ex that passed away, I loved him but im over him.Then he went off this morning and called me a slut and tThat i f**k the whole neighborhood. And wouldn't stop I was crying and was almost having a nervous breakdown.He slaps me upside my face, not hard but he does then when I was sitting on the chair in the living room. And he pulled me by my arms and held me. I didn't want to be held. I was pointing at the door for him and telling him I want him to leave. Now i texted him and sent him a 4 page text saying we should break up and then he called me and i told him it is best that we go our separate ways, and i will call him when the baby is born. I'm so hurt he called me a slut and saying i f**ked the whole block my heart cant take anymore. It really cant. He asks me why i dont show him any love anymore. My heart doesnt have the same feeling anymore. I just have to be strong and tell him.It really does hurt since I'm pregnant but I will learn and then he asks me why I don't love him anymore. And girls, what would you do if you and your man were on a "break" and you hated this bitch and he got drunk and slept in the same bed as her and he says they're like cousins? And he told me he didn't know it was her room. That still hurts me till this day. Am i doing the right thing??
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 March 2011): I broke up with my ex when i was 8 months pregnant to so your not the only one going through something like this. My daughter is 7 months now and she has actually kept me so busy i dont really have time to dwell on the past. You would DEFINETLY be doing the right thing to break it off. It would be extremely wrong of you to stay together, he is abusing you in SEVERAL ways! What do you think he will do to your baby??
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reader, Remniscent  +, writes (13 March 2011):
If you don't look after and help your friends, you're not a true friend to them. The same goes for GF and BF except tenfold. For a girl who doesn't deserve it, a hundredfold, but for a man to abuse a woman pregnant with his child, there is no limit. Get out of there and never look back. Don't call him. Don't even let him look at your baby. Just get out of there.
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reader, uncle bob +, writes (12 March 2011):
 RUN! RUN! RUN!
If not for yourself, then do it for your child.
Even if you could find the strength to put up with all his abuse. Do you seriously want this "sad excuse of a men" as a role model for your child?
One other thing to consider.
If he's this abusive now, imagine how bad it will get, once he has you, and a child to contend with?
It's my guess he kills you and the child, within 3 to 5 years.
This guy is an insane freak!
RUN! RUN! RUN!
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (12 March 2011):
He sounds a bit mental to me. You should really leave him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2011): Yes, of course you are doing the right thing. He is being abusive, but to add to it all you are pregnant. He is purposely saying these things to inflict pain. Would you want your child coming in to the world and being at risk.
I have so much admiration for you. It was so kind of you to say you would phone him.
The best thing is to ignore him. It will be ok. You have a beautiful baby to look forward to! You are doing the right thing for you AND your baby! Good Luck! x
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reader, DanceInTheDark +, writes (12 March 2011):
 YES. Absolutely. Don't doubt it for a second. He sounds like a JERK.
He's abusive. Calling you a slut is emotional abuse. If he treats YOU like this, how the hell do you think he's going to treat the kid?!
You made the right decision for you and your baby.
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