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writes:I'm 15 years old. I thinking about losing my virginity with my ex. Me and my ex broke up about 3 years ago. Now we go to the same school and we love to call each other name and just make jokes [in public]. A typical high school crash I guest. We aren't going [dating] though most people think we are or should be. But when we are alone either on the phone or in person have he serious conversations. He told me he wanted to be the first to "break me in"/ in other words take my virginity. And that even if second or third he don't mind. And I really do like him, well I think I love him. When am around him I stay smiling with the jokes he says. Or when he sweet talks me I get butterflies he like teasing me. I would let him take my virginity a least I think I would. Besides why not?
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reader, teencrushoffender  +, writes (19 March 2011):
 You should wait until you feel you are ready and be with the one you love.Sex is an act of love not sex is love.I know that people are in a rush to experiment and join in with the crowd but it doesn't mean you have to follow.You only have a first time once so make sure it is with the right person at the right time. Take time to discuss it and be aware of any laws and the risks involved.Enjoy and be safe.Good Luck in Love.
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reader, xxxEmixxx +, writes (15 March 2011):
 heyya,
i'm the same age and i'm not saying DONT but i promise you that you will regret it. There are a lot of things besides sex that you can do, and until you know that you are 100% ready and you are doing it with the right person i would wait a while XD
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reader, Auntie Mel +, writes (12 March 2011):
 Personally I think you should try being in a relationship with him and wait a few months (longer if you like, remember that there is no rush) to see how it all goes. Things can sometimes change as soon as you have somewhat commitment. Also remember if he loved you he would wait. If all goes well before you do anything make sure your ready, make sure you know about all the risks, religious beliefs about sex, laws and also make sure you have proper contraception. Personally I would talk it through with some trustworthy friends and possibly some family if you are comfortable with doing so, just to give you some guidance to help you think it through. You should never feel pressured into sex, you will honestly be much happier if you have sex when you and the other person both are both ready. Once you loose your virginity you can never get it back so make sure you are giving it to the right person, I hope this helps x
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reader, GJANN +, writes (12 March 2011):
Dear, i lost mie at your age, and with a ex boyfriend that i thought loved me, and didn't. Up till today, i regret it. I wish i hv waited for the right person and time.
Not saying don't do it, but think about tomorrow too... Make sure u r making the right choice hun...
Good luck...x
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2011): Why are kids always trying to throw away their virginity?
Please wait until you are much more mature or better still save yourself for marriage..You will also save yourself a lot of heartache..
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