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female
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26-29,
anonymous
writes:Hey please help ! ive just had enough of people lieing to me, betraying me and all together just letting me down :( I just cant deal with it anymore and i really need some help !! Since i went up to highschool ive just lost all my friends ! everything was brillant in middle school and now its like everyone hate me and the thing that does my head in the most is i dont even know why. It all started when i lost my little group of friends they all just went off with other people and blocked me out whenever i tryed to talk to them. I asked one of them what i had done to make them lot all ignore me and he just wouldnt reply. I dont get it is there something wrong with me ? I am i like the worst person in the world or something ? cause that is the impression i am now getting off the people who i used to love. Ive been through alot in the past few months ive been diagnosed with depression and some bad stuff has just happened but i lost my friends before the whole depression thing. I tryed to join in with some other friend groups but i was always the one standing outside the circle i tryed to get close to people but they just push me away. Im not such a bad person i think i can be annoying sometimes but i am not selfish and when i did have friends they always came first. i kept there secrets i tryed to help them why didnt they do the same for me ? if i ever told anyone my secrets within a while they would be spread round the whole school people always take the micky out of me, critize me i could never relie on know one. One of my old friends siad sorry to me today for being partically nasty to me and i thought finally things were getting better for me. he told me to come back and knock for him at half 5. i was soo happy i was getting somewhere i was on my way to knock for him and i saw him out with aload of people. He had basically ditched me for someone else he ran after me but i cant cope being hurt all other again i cant trust anyone after everything thats happened ! so i told him to leave me alone. I'm soo lonely its un-bearable, i just want to break down and cry i just thought i was getting better but im ovbs wrong ! i need help and have no one my own age to talk to its driveing me nuts. im moveing school soon but i doubt that will change anything !!. i live in a small town so its impossible to find someone new. What should i do ? how do i get people to like me where do i find new people ? Whats wrong with me ? i just need some advice any advice please im so desparate for a friend :'( Reply to this Question
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reader, Auntie Mel +, writes (12 March 2011):
 Don't worry I am sure that there is nothing wrong with you, when you move from middle school to high school people generally meet new friends and move on, I speak to literally one of my old friends and she isn't even a best friend. Your best bet is to try talking to new people, as your moving school just try and be nice, genuine and polite to your new school mates. Talk to everyone and you will soon find out what type of characters they are. Another idea in order to meet new people is to join clubs, maybe after school clubs, sports clubs, art clubs the girl guides? anything of your interest and you should find people with the same interests as you there. Also remember to keep personal things to yourself until you know the person well enough to trust them, therefore you wont have anything spread about you.I hope this helps, best wishes xx
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