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*ethxoxo
writes:okay...I am in love with my bestfriend's boyfriend.i have liked him since xmas and never told anyone, then last week i went to a party with my BFF and we saw him there, we had a great time- dancing; throwing food; laughing; and talking.fast forward one week- my BFF and him are dating...Then i confided in my other BFF who lives out of town, and she told my BFF who is going out with him, now she's being really antagonistic about it and I have no idea what to do!I just feel like my whole life is falling apart! and all of my other friends are blanking me because they dont like her- I have nobody to ask for advice... i'm pretty much alone with this one.. PLZ PLZ PLZ help me! i don't know what to do!
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reader, bethxoxo +, writes (13 March 2011):
bethxoxo is verified as being by the original poster of the questionthanks for the help, but you can't be a homewrecker if your in high school can you?
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reader, uncle bob  +, writes (13 March 2011):
 To begin with, your not texting on your cell phone.This is an opinion site on the Internet.Please write in "FULL" words, so old, albeit highly experienced, "GEEZERS" like me, will have at least some idea of what your asking.So, your hot for your best friend's boyfriend!How badly do you want your best friend to hate you?What kind of reputation do you want?I know there's a name for it, but all I can think of is "homewrecker". I know it's a poor fit, but I hope you can get what I mean.Your much better off if you just wait.Maybe, if they break up, and you wait a year or so, she might not hate you if you express your interest in him to her then.Otherwise try to set your sights on some other guy.It will go much easier on all involved.
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