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male
age
51-59,
anonymous
writes:It was a forced arranged marriage for both of us. I have been married for more than 15 years. There is no love from her whatsoever. Just a mechanical life. Still childish behaviour and do not understand her duties of wife, mother, friend etc., I have been really finding so difficult without any love. I am by nature very nice person, doesn't want to hurt anybody's feeling. I really don't know what to do? I really worked very hard and studied hard to get better life. I am doing very well with my career, but life wise it really really sucks. She is not at all independent and I have to be there in every part of her life including cooking, otherwise, she doesn't do it or doesn't do it properly, I don't really know what to do? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2011): Is it possible that you could talk to her mother, or another female relative, and ask them to talk to your wife? I don’t know if your wife would get mad about that or not. But you could see if her mother would explain the proper ways of a wife, and about such things as cooking, and such. I know a guy that did that about his wife. After he talked to her mother, she at least tried to change. I hope that you are able to come up with some solution.
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