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female
age
36-40,
*eewill
writes:There is this guy at work whom I am not so personal with who had been showing me signs such as smiling at me, making eye contact and greeting me with good mornings whenever we came into contact with each other. However its been about four months now since this is happening and he has never approached me, I must admit that I act normal around him as I am afraid to show him how I feel, so I pretend to just be polite when in fact im crazy about him. Now whenever he sees me around he just greets me with a polite smile and moves along, no more lingering looks or eye contact from him, has he lost interest? I am interested and have been for a very long time, should I indicate to him the way I feel? I am not sure if this is the right thing to do but I would really like to get to know him better. All my friends suggest I let him know upfront but I would like some other opinions on the matter.Any suggestions? Is there still a chance?
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reader, CindyCares  +, writes (12 March 2011):
 Do you at least know if he is single ? Maybe he looks at you because he finds you attractive, but he is already "taken ".
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reader, Intan  +, writes (12 March 2011):
It's quite complicated as you can see but why didn't you be a little bit more radiated when he greeted you good mornings before? One answer: He was interested with you but when you didn't respond him with something that he expected you to, he will eventually lose hope on you and finally, showing no interest. Try to be yourself in the future. Show how you feel, do what you want.
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