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writes:I need to know if I would ever have the chance to see this guy again.We never went out with each other, but we had a very strong mutual attraction.He used to work in my local store, and on his last day at work, he was really staring at me, presumably to let me know it was his last day at work, and therefore, to maybe exchange numbers so we could meet up for a date..I did ignored him as I am quite shy, and the fact he was staring at me so much, it made me even more shy!I haven't got a clue where he is now, and dying for a second chance to be able to tell him I feel the same way! This happened one and a half years ago, can you please help me to find him again?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you both for your replies.
I thought many times to ask about in the store where he was working, but I just got embarrassed! It would have been too obvious I liked him..., anyway, definitely I am not putting my life at all on hold for him or anyone else, is just that I really liked him and wanted to get another chance to see him.
I guess he left to go to uni, and I am pretty sure he was not living, or live in the same town, as here is pretty small and never seen him about in the streets, etc.
Never mind, I guess if is mean to happen I will see him again, or not, thanks again.
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reader, Dorothy Dix  +, writes (13 March 2011):
Hi there. You have left a big gap - one and half years - to wonder about if you will see him again.It's a pity you didn't see about it a week or two after he left.You say you never actually got talking, so I'm also guessing that you don't know the reason he left either.One thing you could do, is ask at the store where he used to work, you might be able to find out his name from one of the other workers there.Perhaps if someone remembers him, and who still works there now, might happen to know where he moved on to. He might still live in the neighbourhood. But also unfortunately, he might have moved right away from the area altogether.Did you also work there, or is it a store you used to shop at regularly?It's going to be a bit hard now because of the gap - 1 and half years - to find out much information.You could also as the other poster mentioned, do a search on the internet - but again, you at least need to know his first and last names to begin your search.What makes it difficult now, is that you never got to talk to him or know his name. That is a bit disappointing.If you don't find out much information soon, well then it's going to come to a point where you will have to decide whether it's really worth pursuing it any further.Because while ever you keep on trying to pursue him, you are putting your whole life on hold. The sad thing is, it could all be for zero!Don't give up on it. You never know, you might be able to track him down via the store he used to work at. There will have to be someone there still, who will remember him. It's about the best place to start, realistically.In the worst case scenario, try and do whatever you can, but if it gets to be about 1 month or more and nothing has happened, then it's decision time for you. You don't want to waste too much time. Don't postpone your own happiness looking for someone you might never ever find. Life is too short.He could be married now, you just never know. But then again, maybe not. He might be thinking the same thing about finding you - who knows?Do what you feel is right. Let your heart be your guide. But be reasonable, don't waste too much time.Hope it works out for you.Take care and best wishes.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2011): Is he local and do you have any mutual friends? Then you can do a bit of delving. If you could get his number you might be able to text him to say hi. If not it is hard - he may be on Facebook or another site like Friends Reunited. But you don't have much to go on in a way. You felt attracted but nothing ever came of it. And it was a while ago. If he was single, he may not be now. It is sad but in reality it might be best to forget it and look for someone else.
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