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anonymous
writes:My ex boyfriend and I were together for 3 years on and off. He cheated on me twice that I knew of, and the trust issue became too much for me to bear. Aside from the cheating, we got along pretty well and didn't ever fight, etc. Anyway, we have finally both decided to go our separate ways now for good, even though we both still have feelings for one another. Since this decision, one of his friend's girlfriends let me in on the fact that he actually cheated on me more times than I knew about and with another woman/women I didn't know about. She refuses to give me names, and he obviously denies it. The problem I am having is that I WANT to move on, so badly. I want him out of my life, because I see how toxic and awful he was to me, but now that I know there were more instances of cheating, I feel like I need to know the details (who and when) for closure. What can I do to get past this so I can move on with my life, without worrying about the details of who, when, and why I was cheated on?
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2011): I understand completely were you are coming from, I to am experiencing the same situation, as i had a boyfriend of 4 years (wasted) and recently found out that he had cheated on me and has now got another girl pregnant, he keeps saying he needs me and loves me but im putting all that aside as i have to leave for me, Im heart brokin and yes i to wanted to know the girls name but trust me it only makes it alot worse, walk away while you still can you will find somebody that will respect you and cherish every moment with you life is to short to give time to people that dont deserve it!! Keep your head up you have done noting wrong x
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 March 2011): Sometimes it better not to get all the cheating details because it can make you feel even more worse and extend your grieving. Let it go and write it off as a valuable lesson in wisdom. Be grateful she is no longer in your life.
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reader, GeeGee255  +, writes (12 March 2011):
 Knowing that he cheated on you multiple times with different women, should make it easier for you to forget about him and move on, not harder.
Stop beating yourself up over him. He isn't worth 2 seconds more of your time. He has already taken enough from you. Don't let him take anymore.
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