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*emniscent
writes:So, I like someone. I was the canteen manager at a school dance, and I could have fifteen minutes of dancing after the canteen was packed up at the end of the dance. We're both on the student counsel, who showed up hours earlier to decorate and get the dance ready, and once she had gotten dressed, I complimented her. I also treated her (well, she asked for something at the canteen and I said it was on me) to some things at the canteen. She kept on asking if I was going to manage the canteen all night, so I kinda think she might like me too. I asked her to dance, and she said yes, but when we were about to enter the dance floor, she told me to "hang on". And said she would bring her friends. So my question to all of the guys and girls (especially) out there is have you seen this before, and how do you think she feels about me? Reply to this Question
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reader, tennisstar88  +, writes (17 March 2011):
 When a girl says she likes you as a friend she means what she says. She's not keeping you as a friend then alter promoting you to boyfriend status. It doesn't work that way.
If you don't think you can handle the friendship then as I've said move on and keep her as an acquaintance. It's much better than being her friend secretly wishing and waiting for her to tell you she likes you.
I've said it before and I'll say it again, you CANNOT make someone like you.
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reader, Remniscent +, writes (17 March 2011):
Remniscent is verified as being by the original poster of the questionDue to a VERY long series of very complicated events, she now knows I like her, and I now know that she doesn't feel "that way" about me. So now I have an issue. She agreed to be just friends, but I can't really stay near her without both of us being uncomfortable. Is there any chance that she will grow to like me, or do you guys have any tips to help me out? I would really appreciate it. Thank you.
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reader, Remniscent +, writes (14 March 2011):
Remniscent is verified as being by the original poster of the questionBeleive me, if I could wish away my feelings, I would, but I can't. So the only way to move things anywhere is to move them forwards.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (14 March 2011):
As I've said you can confront her in your feelings seeing if she feels the same way or ask one of her friends how she feels about you. If this chick harbors the same feelings great.
However if she doesn't, then there isn't anything you can do to make her change her mind. Even if you tried, you would look pushy and desperate. If that's the case then it's time to find a new girl to crush on.
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reader, Remniscent +, writes (14 March 2011):
Remniscent is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you two. Even if she might think of me as a friend, I don't wan to give up on those words alone. Could you guys please give me some advice on how I should move forward and how it might be possible to change her feelings for me, and if I SHOULD try and change her feelings.
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reader, tennisstar88 +, writes (13 March 2011):
From your post, it sounds like she views you as a friend. If she liked you then it would be just the two of you dancing, instead of one big group.
I could be wrong though, why don't you ask one of her friends who she likes these days?
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2011): sorry 2 say this bt i think she only wants to be friends on what you told me
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