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writes:Okay, i have a huge problem in here. I'm so confused as to whether this guy likes me or not. I first started having a crush on this guy who goes to my school in a party. That night i really felt like i wanna dance with him and get to know him and stuff. So i started sending some signals and surprisingly he responded. We didn't dance or talk at all. I was too shy to grab him and dance with him and he looked as if he was hesitating too. We just kinda had a very strong eye contact. We both knew that we are into each other but we didn't do anything about it. This happened about three months ago. I don't have any classes with this guy and i don't really know him. I have heard people saying stuff about him but i don't really bother cuz i would like to know the person myself. Since that night we both give each other the look and quickly pass by and nothing happens. I know this might sound desperate, but i am seriously not desperate. I'm just confused about what's going on with this dude??I do like him but I'm just tired of thinking !What do you think i should do? or do u think this make sense at all??
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reader, anonymous, writes (13 March 2011): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionOMG guys you were all sooo helpful.....i guess i have to break the ice somehow....you're right...i just heard from his friends that he doesn't like it when the girl initiates the action. His ideology is that guys should be the first one to ask a girl out. Sigh...!anyways i'm gonna add him on facebook i think and give it a try!Thumbs up to all of you !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!3
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reader, shannonlouise  +, writes (12 March 2011):
 If you like this boy and if you think he likes you but you hardly know him, why don't you build up the courage to speak to him?If you don't want to talk to him in person just yet start it off by talking to him over the internet like Facebook, Myspace, msn etc..Then once you and him start talking your confidence will start to grow which will soon build up to the both of you talking in person and you'll get to know him a lot more which will make it less awkward to talk to him in person.If the both of you are still having that eye connection in school when you both walk past each other, that means that the both of you want to get to know each other but you just don't know how to approach it, it's like building blocks. If you start talking over the internet, that will lead to talking in person, which will then lead to going out after school, which will then lead to a relationship if you both like each other.The key is to not be afraid, don't be afraid to talk to him. I know you’re lacking in confidence but when it comes to talking to him it's not as bad as you think it would be. If you do the building block thing I'm sure in the end you will be a happy girl. Things like this take time just be patient.I hope my advice helped, good luck with everything :)
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reader, Beccccccy  +, writes (12 March 2011):
 Honey ..Its tough , but reach into your heart ..Just grab the courage to break the ice ..Its really not as difficult as I know it seems .... Id even be prepared to find his cell number though others and text ..But better face to face .. Just say ... " Heh .. saw you before ..you have time for a coffee ? " .. you cant die wondering , take the punt . Wish you Good Luck :)
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (12 March 2011):
 Well if you feel that there was a connection made between the both of you then I guess he may just be shy and doesnt know how to approach you. I guess the only thing you can do here is to pluck up the courage to ask him out. I no it is really nerve wracking but it will be worth it if he says yes. Try and get talking to him. Ask him about himself and try and get to know him. Maybe ask him would he like to go to the cinema with you to see a movie. This is the best place to go on a first date because it wont be awkward as you dont need to fill the time up talking. At least then after the movie if you have nothing to say you can talk about the movie you just saw. Pluck up the courage and talk to him or I guess you will never know if he likes you or not.
Goodluck.
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