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female
age
36-40,
*aine
writes:Dear cupid,Times have been so hard for me. I am with a wonderful man. Me and him lived together for 7 months and now i live with my parents. We used to spend a lot of time to gather. He works alot i live about one hour thirty minutes away from him. We have been dating 1 year 3 months. I cry myself to sleep because i miss him so much, i miss every thing-- just being with him made me so happy. I tell him how i feel and he says i know honey i miss you too; i just been working a lot. He's going through a divorce which makes things so much harder. I think about my boyfriend all the time. Is it true that when you are apart you miss each other a lot that is how i feel and he says the same thing. I just feel like he come sees me when he wants. That really hurts me please help!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
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reader, Abella +, writes (22 January 2012):
 And this is another question where it is hard for you to be positive when you are in this situation.
Accordingly here is a n article on the power of Positive thinking. It can be done, even when things look bleak.
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/tunnel-vision-positive-thinking---used-to.html
My best wishes to you
Abella
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reader, Abella +, writes (22 January 2012):
And the other proviso is that if he was (then) not yet divorced that he was still working through many issues. And therefore you were a rebound relationship - not a good position. So yes, sadly, he may have been using you.
You need more inner confidence when faced with such a tough situation.
Accordingly:
this is an article on Self Confidence from Code Warrior is also worth reading. I think it is an excellent article from Dear Cupid:
http://www.dearcupid.org/question/what-is-confidence-and-how-do-i-get.html
regards
Abella
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reader, Abella +, writes (22 January 2012):
Hi Maine
LDR relationships are so very very difficult.
Have things improved a little since you asked this question?
Is there any support that you still need to cope with this or have things changed since then?
Please do not hesitate to ask. Next time I hope you get a lot more answers
regards
Abella
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