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writes:I'm seventeen years old and last summer (like July '10) I met a girl and I fell for her badly, we only saw each other for a month and we didn't even go out or do anything sexual (we kissed) thing is, I was a virgin at the time (I'm not anymore) and I think I tried it on with her. It seemed that it was a case of 'didn't know what I had until it was gone'. It's been like, 8 months and I would do ANYTHING to get back with her. I don't think she wants to even know me. Yesterday I went to a party and went to sleep next to this girl (we didn't do anything just pretty much hugged) and she looked like her. I feel like shit, I think I have depression since we stopped seeing each other I've been drinking and smoking myself to death, I'd do hard drugs if I was offered the chance. I feel like a complete shit head because this girl I met yesterday I'm talking to on Facebook and I can't tell if I actually like her or if I'm thinking this because she kind of looks like the girl I was with.So what I'm really asking is, what's wrong with me?
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reader, C. Grant  +, writes (13 March 2011):
 I think we're missing something significant here.
You fell hard for a girl last summer, you didn't have sex, you'd do anything to get back with her, but you feel she's not likely to be interested.
Since then you lost your virginity, but whoever she was doesn't figure into the story.
Now you're talking to a girl who makes you think of the girl last summer, but you're only into her because she reminds you of someone else, and that makes you feel guilty.
Without knowing all the pieces, it sounds like first love. Which is wrenching and awful but doesn't work itself out until you get your head on straight and get with a girl who's good for you.
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