A
female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:Idk where to start i just need someone to really talk to i have no friends or family to turn to. ive been with my boyfriend for almost a year now but ive known him longer than a year and at 1st or relationship was great i guess u could call it the honeymoon phase but now ive recently become aware that hes had an ongoin drug problem. hes taken money from me, my phone, my camera, and one other thing and traded those thing to support his habbit and to make things worse i think im pregnant. i love him so much and he was doin good for a while but things started going bad recently idk wat to do. some days are sooo good then other days i question myself and my relationship. i just need to get this off my chest sorry for this long post.
View related questions:
be pregnant, money Reply to this Question
Share |
Fancy yourself as an agony aunt? Add your answer to this question! A
male
reader, Jmtmj  +, writes (11 March 2011):
 Well first off I think you should confirm 100% that you are actually pregnant.
Tackle this one problem at a time or you'll be overwhelmed like you are right now.
A
female
reader, almc  +, writes (11 March 2011):
This is going to be hard, and don't take anything I say mean or to upset you as I am telling you want I think. Well you need to find out if you are pregnant or not. And seconds you need to get him help.. for your safety, you will have to leave... You can't let someone that is on drugs, take you down with him. Also the type of drug he is doing, can get worse... And if he is already taking things from you to sell for drugs mean he has hit low, the person he says he loves and is with, is taking things that you have. So what next is he going to do?? Like really how much lower can he go??? So I know its going to be hard, and there is going to be a 10000 things going throw your head and your going to keep telling your self, he will get better, if you are pregnant, he will get better, for his child ( sorry to say this, but he doesn't think about anything but him self and the drugs, as he is taking your things to get drugs) so a baby, might not make it better... There is so many things that you can do. But the main thing is that you need to leave and take care of your self and make him get help, and if he doesn't want to get help for the person that loves him, then you should start telling his family, mom, dad, sisters, brother, grandparents, and maybe you can all come together and help him. Wish you let, let us know how it goes.
...............................
|
